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After going through a break up with your S/O, does the healing process become easier for you by focusing on the good memories or the bad ones?
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Good ones.Their is a reason you said bad.
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Good ones.Their is a reason you said bad. You're way to astute. Just looking for some input. Thanks. |
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I always remember the good
So does he That's why we remain such good friends!! |
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The healing comes from the lesson..has the lesson been learned? I focus on what am I to take away from this experience that will help me grow and become a better person....
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I try to focus on the future not the past.
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Edited by
Modela
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Sun 10/04/09 05:45 PM
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I normally go away... way far where there is no way of him contacting me... I am privileged I have that option....that is to go out of the country to heal myself
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After going through a break up with your S/O, does the healing process become easier for you by focusing on the good memories or the bad ones? Depends on the individual at the begining your emotions are all over the place then they settle down and you reflect on why it came to an end. In time you will know the answer was it you who was at fault or them or was it simply you where not ment to be, if you are honest with yourself you will know the answer. Anna x |
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For a little while, I'll think about both. That always reminds me why she's an ex.
After a little while, I just don't think about them at all. |
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they both are truly painful. I moved out the city we fell in love in so i would stop hurting so much. Turns out Utah is real boring.
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they both are truly painful. I moved out the city we fell in love in so i would stop hurting so much. Turns out Utah is real boring. Even if you re-locate, you take the pain with you. |
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yes your right. it really did help me move on though.
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yes your right. it really did help me move on though. Then it was a good decision on your part. Hope all works out for you the way you want it to. |
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thank you...i hope so too. I hope things work out for you as well!
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Edited by
biglife
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Sun 10/04/09 06:06 PM
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thank you...i hope so too. I hope things work out for you as well! Things will work out for everyone as they are supposed to. Meanwhile, just live and enjoy life the best you can. |
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For a little while, I'll think about both. That always reminds me why she's an ex. After a little while, I just don't think about them at all. exactly |
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I try to focus on the future not the past. |
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