Topic: Memories
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Sun 10/04/09 05:35 PM
After going through a break up with your S/O, does the healing process become easier for you by focusing on the good memories or the bad ones?

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:38 PM
Good ones.Their is a reason you said bad.flowerforyou

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Sun 10/04/09 05:40 PM

Good ones.Their is a reason you said bad.flowerforyou


You're way to astute. Just looking for some input. Thanks.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:41 PM
I always remember the good

So does he

That's why we remain such good friends!!

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:43 PM
The healing comes from the lesson..has the lesson been learned? I focus on what am I to take away from this experience that will help me grow and become a better person....

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:44 PM
I try to focus on the future not the past.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:44 PM
Edited by Modela on Sun 10/04/09 05:45 PM
I normally go away... way far where there is no way of him contacting me... I am privileged I have that option....that is to go out of the country to heal myself :banana: :banana: :banana:

Englishrose2's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:45 PM

After going through a break up with your S/O, does the healing process become easier for you by focusing on the good memories or the bad ones?

Depends on the individual at the begining your emotions are all over the place then they settle down and you reflect on why it came to an end.
In time you will know the answer was it you who was at fault or them or was it simply you where not ment to be, if you are honest with yourself you will know the answer. Anna x

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:51 PM
For a little while, I'll think about both. That always reminds me why she's an ex.

After a little while, I just don't think about them at all.

lilpinkrose's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:54 PM
they both are truly painful. I moved out the city we fell in love in so i would stop hurting so much. Turns out Utah is real boring.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:55 PM

they both are truly painful. I moved out the city we fell in love in so i would stop hurting so much. Turns out Utah is real boring.


Even if you re-locate, you take the pain with you.flowers

lilpinkrose's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:57 PM
yes your right. it really did help me move on though.

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Sun 10/04/09 05:58 PM

yes your right. it really did help me move on though.


Then it was a good decision on your part. Hope all works out for you the way you want it to.

lilpinkrose's photo
Sun 10/04/09 06:01 PM
thank you...i hope so too. I hope things work out for you as well!

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Sun 10/04/09 06:05 PM
Edited by biglife on Sun 10/04/09 06:06 PM

thank you...i hope so too. I hope things work out for you as well!


Things will work out for everyone as they are supposed to. Meanwhile, just live and enjoy life the best you can.

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Sun 10/04/09 06:41 PM

For a little while, I'll think about both. That always reminds me why she's an ex.

After a little while, I just don't think about them at all.


exactly

catseyes1's photo
Sun 10/04/09 09:50 PM

I try to focus on the future not the past.


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