Thanks all for the advice...

there isn't anything about being convinced...Yes Obviously he still had that yearning and he couldn't give it to me. But he spent his days staring at other women online and offline. Thats how it was.

I am very serious. For an entire year...nadda...nothing...zip...no sex. he hadn't been to the doctor since he last went, the year before....but last time he was they put him on Cholesterol medicine and that evidentally gave him get E.D....so he was never interested..but anytime he saw a pretty girl, or some woman with no underwear on he would point it out and get excited. And was looking at naked women on porn sites and watching them late at night, even right behind my back in the same room. He claimed, "they are just pictures, there's nothing wrong with that!"

Yes watching, the guy who is supposed to be my boyfriend, up at 3am watching a porn is just looking at women!...he could have been in the bed with me recreating that porn LOL....was he, no? he wanted nothin to do with me. never even could say I was pretty. In one arguement he said "I can't tell you your beautiful nor give you what you want right now". I was like, "you can't just say, "your beautiful?" how hard is it for a man to tell his girlfriend of a year and a half that she's gorgeous, beautiful, pretty? Is it that hard? :(

NOoo..i'm not being rude. I was just saying. Sorry.

Well, at least I know it wasn't SEX LOL

Ok, so I won't even answer the phone, if it's that important someone will leave a voicemail and I can call them back LOL!!! And if I do pick it up and it's him. I"ll politely tell him to F*** off!

Thank you all for your input, very much appreciated.

a quick something else? we didn't have sex for over a year. Believe me, when I say he didn't want that "quick something else" He claimed he had E.D....yet I caught him several times staring at porn and finding local women on craigslist and google searches. I just wasn't good enough for him, yeah, thats it.

Exactly! Before I even moved in, he was all about me! Then I move in and he says I am taking away his life, his family and his friends. He saw his friends whenever he wanted too and he saw his family whenever he wanted too. I was never good enough for his ***, but as soon as I am gone, he wants to pretend to be there for me.

How do they go into overdrive thinking their ex, who left them, is going to take them back? How does he get off doing that, 2 months later? What is going on in his head to think I would even consider getting back with him, I got a 17ft. moving truck and hauled my son and I 2000 miles away from him. LMAO

Not his son, my son is from a dead beat who's been in and out of jail even before my son was born.

Mmmm..I suppose you are right. I'm hoping for a miracle that won't happen. haha.

It's out of state I can't do that. :/

Thanks, so next time he calls just tell him to leave me the F*** alone. LOL

I left my ex almost 2 months ago and out of the blue he calls today. He first calls me "dear" and then gets up in my personal business, asking me what I am doing with my life, how my son is, how my college is going and if I think Utah is great. Of course it is, it's better than being with him!!!!

I tried to be nice to him. If he did ask a question, I would reply with a simple "yes" or "no". I mean I told him before I even moved out of his house that we were not going to be friends, our relationship was over. Then he went on to say that he thought it had been about 2 weeks since he had last tried to talk to me through i.m. on the computer. This coming from someone who already knows I blocked him as soon as I moved. He knew I blocked him, yet he tried to send me messages, and then was trying to text my cell, which I no longer have, thank goodness!

The only thing I feel for this man is anger and hurt, I don't want to talk to him, I on't want to be his friend. He even considered saving up money and coming HERE to visit. It's like, "holy **** Leave me alone, don't show up here!!!"

He pretends to be nice and actually give a damn about me. But when I was there he never acted like that. What the hell is wrong with him?

why after 2 months has he not gotten the hint that I left him and it's done - Even when I have told him TWICE not to contact me!

I cannot get over this guy if he keeps trying to stay in my life.

I am not going to answer the home phone from now on!

C'mon guys...i Know there's got to be other men who acted like this with an ex that left you, speak up...i'd like to know so I know how to get rid of him.

I'd try to play on 7 but Nvidia has no supported drivers for 7, only xp for my video card. so I am sh** out of luck! :(

Boy if I called the cops on my brother, I wouldn't hear the end of it from my entire family! Oh god I could imagine what my brothers girlfriend would say or do to me! LMAO. You have more guts than I :)

Oh yeah....the other way watched this 2D animation called, Charoline...it's very good!

Mmm..i've never seen it. guess next time I have a mutual match I will look for it. thanks for pointing it out.

If I had even done what you say you would have, "not heard the end of it" he would have been more than happy to tell us to leave. He's gotten really mean the past few years and I don't see my brother but once every 3-6 years so I wanted to make the best out of it instead of getting angry and yelling at him. But the last day we were there I did tell him that i'm not going to argue with him, but he shouldn't have spanked my son like that and he needs to treat me with respect since I am family.


But, you are right Winx

Losing Isaiah (I just about cried during the whole movie)
Transformers (Best Best Best transformers ever!)
Let the right one in (swedish horror)
August Rush (fantastic creepy role Robin Williams played, such a magical movie)