I left my ex almost 2 months ago and out of the blue he calls today. He first calls me "dear" and then gets up in my personal business, asking me what I am doing with my life, how my son is, how my college is going and if I think Utah is great. Of course it is, it's better than being with him!!!!

I tried to be nice to him. If he did ask a question, I would reply with a simple "yes" or "no". I mean I told him before I even moved out of his house that we were not going to be friends, our relationship was over. Then he went on to say that he thought it had been about 2 weeks since he had last tried to talk to me through i.m. on the computer. This coming from someone who already knows I blocked him as soon as I moved. He knew I blocked him, yet he tried to send me messages, and then was trying to text my cell, which I no longer have, thank goodness!

The only thing I feel for this man is anger and hurt, I don't want to talk to him, I on't want to be his friend. He even considered saving up money and coming HERE to visit. It's like, "holy **** Leave me alone, don't show up here!!!"

He pretends to be nice and actually give a damn about me. But when I was there he never acted like that. What the hell is wrong with him?

why after 2 months has he not gotten the hint that I left him and it's done - Even when I have told him TWICE not to contact me!

I cannot get over this guy if he keeps trying to stay in my life.

I am not going to answer the home phone from now on!

C'mon guys...i Know there's got to be other men who acted like this with an ex that left you, speak up...i'd like to know so I know how to get rid of him.

Heh. If there were dudes who acted like that...chances are ( since they are on a dating site trying to make a good impression ) they aren't going to actually admit to it.

mind games!!!! all i can say is someone will only do to you what you allow them to...there are guys out there who don't play games, and who are genuine. Cut this looser at his knees.. Some people like to know that they can keep you on a string, and enjoy messing with you. don't give him that power...good luck

You know it's over. He doesn't. Get a restraining order if you need to.

Thanks, so next time he calls just tell him to leave me the F*** alone. LOL

Quick question.....is your son his kid??

Or is your son from another relationship?

It's out of state I can't do that. :/

they all play them, they cant help it, havent met to many that were mature enough to not play games.

My guess is that he is just now realizing what he lost and now he wants it back...

Mmmm..I suppose you are right. I'm hoping for a miracle that won't happen. haha.

Not his son, my son is from a dead beat who's been in and out of jail even before my son was born.

just like my ex when i ignored him he would move heaven and earth for me but when i tried to give attention back i wasnt worth his time!

so i told him to **** off one day and a year later i haven't heard from him.

its seems to me like a control thing/attention thing.

get one in both states.

How do they go into overdrive thinking their ex, who left them, is going to take them back? How does he get off doing that, 2 months later? What is going on in his head to think I would even consider getting back with him, I got a 17ft. moving truck and hauled my son and I 2000 miles away from him. LMAO

don't even answer the phone...tell him to beep off...don't give in nor give him another chance with his nonsense sweet talking...he either wants power over you or a quick somethibg else..yeah..thats it...

Exactly! Before I even moved in, he was all about me! Then I move in and he says I am taking away his life, his family and his friends. He saw his friends whenever he wanted too and he saw his family whenever he wanted too. I was never good enough for his ***, but as soon as I am gone, he wants to pretend to be there for me.

a quick something else? we didn't have sex for over a year. Believe me, when I say he didn't want that "quick something else" He claimed he had E.D....yet I caught him several times staring at porn and finding local women on craigslist and google searches. I just wasn't good enough for him, yeah, thats it.

O please, they all do because they WANT something.

Ok. Just curious.

Ok, so I won't even answer the phone, if it's that important someone will leave a voicemail and I can call them back LOL!!! And if I do pick it up and it's him. I"ll politely tell him to F*** off!

Thank you all for your input, very much appreciated.