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Tue 09/15/09 10:03 PM

I'm not even going to address the web cam thing.

Women often give out their number just to be social. She's not going to call you back because you are not high on her list. Her friends are more important and she doesn't even know you.

This is why I've come to prefer texting.



If they don't answer your texts - you know they couldnt give a flying F about seeing you again.

Not a bad theory

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Tue 09/15/09 10:00 PM
Black is your color.


I think.



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Tue 09/15/09 09:56 PM
Oh cute.


You could look like this



:banana:

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Tue 09/15/09 09:56 PM
Why not joke around about it with them and make light of it?



Turn it into a playful joke you can laugh at and not take it so seriously.



or.




Stop being a pu$$ and give the women what they want and need!


laugh

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Tue 09/15/09 09:52 PM
Shopping! Fun!



noway



laugh

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Tue 09/15/09 09:51 PM
I slept later than usual, went to the gym, came home and relaxed for a few hours, Went to din-din with my sista, bought a new mountain bike after that with her, and then home in early evening.

So not bad.


How did you spoil yourself?

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Tue 09/15/09 09:41 PM
Evening Joy


How was your day?

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Tue 09/15/09 09:39 PM

I am really getting disillusioned by Love and Relationships.

Why is it that people feel they need to play games?

I certainly don't have time for them.

Very recently; I was chatting with a young lady I met on Mingle; our conversation was going nice until...she wanted me to go to a Live Webcam Site, to see her undress on camera. When I refused to go; she got the nerve to get mad at me.

Is it right that you should play with a person's heart and feelings?

Or the phone number game; I give you my number, and you never call. Or you give me your number, and I can never reach you.

All I can say is play time is over, some people need to grow up...






Also.



If you give her your number.


And she does not call.



How is that game playing?



that is actually the opposite of game playing.


She is being pretty clear.



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Tue 09/15/09 09:38 PM

I am really getting disillusioned by Love and Relationships.

Why is it that people feel they need to play games?

I certainly don't have time for them.

Very recently; I was chatting with a young lady I met on Mingle; our conversation was going nice until...she wanted me to go to a Live Webcam Site, to see her undress on camera. When I refused to go; she got the nerve to get mad at me.

Is it right that you should play with a person's heart and feelings?

Or the phone number game; I give you my number, and you never call. Or you give me your number, and I can never reach you.

All I can say is play time is over, some people need to grow up...








You would get mad too.

If you stripped on cam for a living.


And a dude did not want to pay or see you.


laugh

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Tue 09/15/09 08:45 PM

Now why would you make such an accusation?

For what it's worth that's the real deal. I was even in the hot or not the best of section for a while.




Pretty sweet - you deserve it.


I didn't know they had gay dating rate me sites though.



laugh



:wink:





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Tue 09/15/09 08:17 PM





And hes willing to go back to Cali


He cant right away hes selling his business and his house and that could take awhile.... but yes eventually he wants to live here again


Exactly... I already like him... Hes got the Ali seal of approval!




Ali - is your boyfriend on this site too?



Yea









:thumbsup:

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Tue 09/15/09 08:13 PM



And hes willing to go back to Cali


He cant right away hes selling his business and his house and that could take awhile.... but yes eventually he wants to live here again


Exactly... I already like him... Hes got the Ali seal of approval!




Ali - is your boyfriend on this site too?

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Tue 09/15/09 08:11 PM
Have you even gone on a date yet?


And you are talking about selling houses.

And Businesses.

And moving?



Better step off.............





































The Psycho Bus!!



laugh

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Tue 09/15/09 08:08 PM
laugh




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Tue 09/15/09 08:05 PM
This guy is so getting laid.




laugh

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Tue 09/15/09 07:30 PM
Myka-

want to have a beer and talk about your new boytoy?


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Tue 09/15/09 07:29 PM

Listen to MelodyGirl, she speaks truth.drinker





Melody is smart. She gets it

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Tue 09/15/09 07:24 PM
and athletes for bad behavior that will ultimately influence the youth of America.

Read the following Data-

36 accused of Spousal Abuse

7 Arrested for Fraud

19 accused of writing Bad Checks

117 have directly or indirectly bankrupted at least 2 businesses



3 have done time for assault


71 - Repeat- 71 can not get a credit card due to bad credit


14 have been arrested on drug related charges


8 have been arrested for F'in Shoplifting


21 currently are defendants in lawsuits


84 have been arrested for DRUNK DRIVING--- IN THE LAST YEAR ALONE





Who am I talking about? Players from the NBA? maybe the NFL? Any musician to put out a record in the last year?




Wrong.




It's the 435 members of the United States Congress.




The same group of people that crank out hundreds of new laws each year designed to keep the rest of us in line.




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Tue 09/15/09 03:02 PM

Here's the deal with the marriage... it didn't even last 2 years... the last time I was with him was 4 years ago. I'm sure it was tramatic but it's not like it was a 20 year marriage... ya know?

I JUST signed up for FB last month however I'm sure he could have found me other ways.... I just dont know what to make of it all.

I will see him next time he's here and see how things pan out... I will keep you guys posted.





I think you are making it clear what you want it to be or how you want him to mean it.



But.



I would be weary.


You have to be.


Feel out the situation.


There are many positives that come out of someone trying to come back into your life- or finally opening up to you and revealing true feelings.

There are also men who - like the one said above- will manipulate a situation in a time of need.




Just have fun. But be weary.



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Tue 09/15/09 02:33 PM

Yup... marriage gone bad... but they have been done with each other for over a year.... not sure if thats what you mean by "just" ended.




Was searching for when his last relationship was.

Why, if all these feelings really existed, has he not figured out a way to contact you in the last year?


or did he happen to come across your facebook profile - which if you think about it, if he had this feelings he could have done anytime in the last year - did some old feelings spark themselves and maybe he is lonely right now.


The way it sounds - reeks of a lonely guy trying to smooth talk his way back into something.