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Topic: HELP!!!!!
bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:15 AM
I don't get it. I can not find a woman for nothing. Am I really that ugly? I don't think so but can you please tell me if i am?

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Mon 09/14/09 03:18 AM
Edited by msgrneyes on Mon 09/14/09 03:19 AM
don't worry you find someone and your not ugly. i'm finding it hard to make friends myself. mostly players and jerks here.
good luck.

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:20 AM
yeah its a$$holes like that that makes it hard for guys like me to find descent women.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:22 AM
Edited by msgrneyes on Mon 09/14/09 03:24 AM
your right theres still some good women out there just not so trusting anymore and i don't trust any of them. personally i don't care if they like me or not i'm always gonna be myself.

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:25 AM
I hear ya on that one.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:27 AM
i know theres some good ones out there i just haven't found one that could be honest and not play games.

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:31 AM
just have confidence in yourself....and it depends on what kind of girl you are looking for as well. Some people say they can't find anyone when they have three interested in them...sometimes it just takes taking a closer look around

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:32 AM
same here. it seems as though all the women i meet turn out to be fake, and to make matters worse you got all these spammers that fill my mail with junk.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:34 AM
well theres someone for everyone and you will find one just be yourself.

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:36 AM
I am confident. The problem is it seems only the bbw's are interested and that just isn't my cup of tea. Don't get wrong a little meat on the bones aint bad but i want someone who is at least a little fit. know what i mean.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:39 AM
the way i see it if a man can't except me for me i don't need him. no bodys perfect. i ain't no barbie so if thats what they want then go for it.

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:41 AM
well i am not looking for barbie or a perfect woman but there has o be some sort of physical attraction, and I know looks are not everything. I know plenty of physically beautiful women but they are ugly as hell because they have a crappy attitude. I know I dont have my standards set high.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:43 AM
well i have nothing to prove take me as i am or not. i'm not looking for the perfect one either. just honesty and respect is all i ask for.

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:45 AM
i hear ya.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:47 AM
besides i'm in no hurry it will happen when the times right or it may not either way i'm fine with it.

bigcountry_1978's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:49 AM
well my thing is all my friends are in relationships and I used to be and now i find myself extremely lonely

papersmile's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:52 AM
Edited by papersmile on Mon 09/14/09 03:53 AM

yeah its a$$holes like that that makes it hard for guys like me to find descent women.


don't blame them for your lack of dates.

i think most women wipe the slate clean after each relationship and tend to give a new guy the benefit of the doubt, until or unless he proves himself a creep.

you cast off the BBW who you say are interested in you but if i look at your photo, you look like a pretty big guy yourself.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:56 AM
it shouldn't matter what a person looks like or where they are from if you look inside then you find out who they are. i give everyone a chance. it takes time to know them.

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:57 AM

I am confident. The problem is it seems only the bbw's are interested and that just isn't my cup of tea. Don't get wrong a little meat on the bones aint bad but i want someone who is at least a little fit. know what i mean.


Hate to be an A$$ but if you want someone physically fit...maybe you should try getting there yourself. I personally know I need to start working out. But you said you wanted honesty...so you got it.

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Mon 09/14/09 03:59 AM
a real woman is not perfect and a perfect woman is not real

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