i would not say you are:) but on the other hand if you want me to make
you feel younger....hehe

with my "blinders" on more than once...lol...with them off yes more than
once :)

relainships have survived it before but they are never the
same..personaly not sure i could go on after that.it really depends on
alot of stuff....i delt with it for almost 4 years on and off with my
younger son's mom but it was not all the time and there was way deeper
issues there.either way as far as i know shes still doing it almost 10
years later.

hmmmm they are always changing like we do not that it cant last forever
but to be perfect forever.i guess if you see it that way as perfect even
trough the changes:)i have had many people that are now passed say it
was wonderful the whole way but not perfect.

i would say you have done your job and set a good example.some things
our kids must learn the hard way.while its not fair to you and not
meaning this in a bad way no one ever told you raising kids would be
easy or fair im sure.keep your chin up nothing lasts forever :)

i have 2 brothers and 2 sisters we are all half.all raised by my mom.my
2 boys i have at home are also from differnt parents and yes they have
other halfs out there.it bothers me a little because they have no
contact with their other halfs.

hahaha i could feel my face turning red thinking about all the times my
kids got me :)

i dont see anything wrong with it.many people want to show who they are
and for most of us a big part of who we are is our kids....as far as
sickos go most will be a family member or a close friend or anyone close
like a coach,cub scout leader,ect..and not limited to male or female.

ok i went back to page 2 and i must say good point lulu24.just for the
record i drink about 2 times a year and i am drug free and i dont abuse
anyone including my kids.i have always been the person helping
others,being a stay at home dad has allowed many things like home
school.i did that for 4 years.the main reason for that being my oldest
son...16 now was having a hard time in school because of other kids..he
was born with 3/4 of his left forarm stunted also he was behind more
than a year and was not catching up at all.in 2 years of home school he
was back where was supposed to be.growing up my mom was single and
always worked.i didnt have anyone there for me.i was not about to let
the same thing happen to my kids.dont get me wrong alot of things have
changed since then with all the after school programs and day care and
such.my kids are back in public school and im now looking to go back
myself.

wow ok i skiped page 2 it seems the subjects have changed from the
posted topic...anyway...i have been single 1 1/2 years no dating..never
have dated..lol..i have gone without sex the whole time.i had alot of
offers but past them all up.you bet im lonly.im not a person that likes
to be alone.sure i have 2 kids at home but as it may help it dont do the
job.i tell you im a happy go lucky guy i not only keep a smile but also
make sure everyone around me has one too but deep down inside im lonly
and it has an impact on my life and on my kids.most people would not
notice it just by talking to me or looking at me.now my x and her hubby
moved to the area not too long ago we put them up til they got on their
feet..strange i know..anyway she noticed i was not myself.happy go lucky
yes but not on the scale it used to be maybe half but if you didnt know
me before you wouldnt see it.