is there a possibility that there could be a relationship
that is absolutuly perfect from the very begenning and lasts for the
rest of your life?


ever since i met my boyfriend, it has been pure heaven. i hope so much
that this lasts. i cannot see the rest of my life without him. he is my
best friend, my hero, and the love of my life. i just
wanted to say something about it and ask this burning
question.

Well is does seem like a fairy tale we all seem to be seeking. Will it
stay that way till the end of time? Can't say that I can answer that
question, due to I have not found the pot of gold at the end of the
rainbow yet. Seems you have and wish you all the best in the future. May
all your dreams come true. Always nice to hear some have found the love
of there life.

Well, remember that in the difficulties ahead. And there will be
difficulties. As far as I'm concerned, you can't know it's love until
you survive the hard times. And life is certain to give you a few in the
future. You know, unless the both of you die in a car crash tomorrow.

hmmmm they are always changing like we do not that it cant last forever
but to be perfect forever.i guess if you see it that way as perfect even
trough the changes:)i have had many people that are now passed say it
was wonderful the whole way but not perfect.

if two accept each other as human beings first, and remember we all
change as we go through our journey...

A lifetime... well, that's just it. In the end of a long relationship,
life long... there will be such history. We all grow, make mistakes,
fall on our faces, love, fight, have silences...
it takes real commitment and understanding's of so many things.

there is no ideal. once on bring expectations, ideals, and all into
it... might as well count the days, eh?

Will it be perfect forever? No. Can it last the rest of your lives? Sure
it can.

Samantha...my answer to your question is a definite yes!!! Glad you are
experiencing heaven...I am too!!

Yes, unfortunately I'm just experiencing that by myself

Perfect Forever? Only if you Work at it FOREVER.
Life gets busy & we start taking things for granted.
Been there done that, had to get help, found it again.
Best of luck & God's MANY blessings.

No relationship is perfect, for after all we are only human. We must
remember to accept each other as we are and accept the changes that
occur over time. Relationships take work and lots of it, as long as you
both are willing to work at it and accept each other for who you are-
well then you should have a good, solid relationship.

A perfect relationship no it is not possible, because we all have ur
flaws . It is finding the one whos flaws work with yours that is the
hard part. As`said earlier ,there will be hard times when life throws
its curves at you and it is dealing with then together that will be the
true test of it is right.

Since we are human and not perfect, a relationship can't be perfect in a
fairy tale way forever. But it can be perfect in a real life way, if
you're both willing to share everything about yourself with the other,
the good, bad and ugly, and accept it all as part of who you are and who
you love. Also, you have to be willing to accept change, people grow and
learn and change, but if you grow together, you can become even closer.
Good luck sweetie.

I have lived enough to know that there is no such thing as the perfect
person nor is there a fairy tale ending, but I still believe that there
are such things as a perfect relationship. Relationships where strengths
compliment each other's weakness, where equals and opposites are at the
right place. Perfect relationships exists, Working together as a team
building that Perfect for you both,,, Communication, Trust, Values, some
steps in order to build the Bond which can and will create a Perfect
Team.

Well said L A!!!!

no

there will always be ups and downs... nobody can agree on everything all
the time (unless they are not being honest)... but if its real, it will
last...

Tameka, say hi to iceprincess
for me.

Looks like you are both 'west river'.

mnhiker... will pass on the word... and yes we are both west river...