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Soulmate
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Hi Tintin, welcome to mingle
Soulmates is a wonderful way of putting "true love". It's the ultimate in connections into another human. I have seen some who have had this and only stayed with the one person through life, and I have also seen soulmate as a more general thing where the person is so loving that their whole soul was givin over to whom they happened to be with and others around them. Is there a soulmate? I think this answer can only come from you and your connection to your partner and of course your soul, and who owns your soul. I do totally believe in destined love. I also believe that we are the ones who either are open to destiny or are the ones who stand blocking the path of it, making our destiny and us being one in a way. One thing though, if I may. Don't spend you life in the guilt or fear of missing destiny. If you do you might be looking for the skies to open and miss the cloud you are already sitting on. |
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Topic:
sex... how much is too much?
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Numbers on sex? Not sure I get that. I tend to be attracted to women who have the same type of sex vibe I do so we usually develop our own pace based on the connection of support we have with each other.
I would have to say my answer to the question would have to be more like, "when are we not having sex"? Sex being an extention of our passion and being mostly with very passionate women, are we ever not having sex or looking for the chance too? At the same time, passion comes in many forms and many adventures and when in the heat of, is a never ending stream that flows over into many parts of living. Some of the answers here look like they are on the clock, almost like a hookers menu (not trying to be rude). I've never looked at sex like that before, where I was looking at how many times I can squeeze in or afford. In a good relationship, is there a beginning or end to sex? I'm not sure if it ever starts or ends, at least from my experience. If I was seeing someone where it was a negotiation, I'm not sure I would feel comfortable with that. For me it has always been about serving that desire and being with one who feels the same way. |
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For myself, I do feel like I'm meeting my friends in person when I come to the pages of mingle.
You know how it is with family and friends where you meet or talk once in a while? It's great and you get caught up, but then most of the time you head back into your own skin. Also for me there is the business side, which I have always done and has it's own life. There's my loves. Than there's Mingle. Since joining mingle I have seen a completely different type of socializing that may happen in other places online, but I haven't seen it, or seen it quite the same as here. Sometimes when I come to mingle I feel like I've been here 40 some years and feel this as being just as much a part of my life as when this screen is turned off. I'm not sure if spirit/soul/vibe connections need to necessarily meet in person to be considered "real". To me you are very real and I do feel like I'm in the presence of some of my friends. If we happened to meet face to face that's cool but I'm very content seeing your smiling and witty faces here. People say "you never know someone till you meet" really? I've met people for years then things happen and find out I never knew them at all. Knowing someone is a life time process, and it's also what I make out of it. Some of the people here I feel I have "learned", I have sensed their being, and they, in my mind, have become my friends. We may not be sitting at the same table, but we are certainly hanging out more often than a once a year or ten. As for those who do mingle in person, I love reading about your times together and glad you are making time to do this, and that your sharing it with the rest of us. Makes us feel at home. We may not be there, but again maybe we are :) |
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I hope when I'm older I can be as "smooth an operator" as Mr.Mg is.  Cheers bro.
Now what attracts me to a woman thats a really tough question cause of course there is physical beauty which is a good start but still not quite enough to get me going. Scents help I happen to like the fruitier smells. The smell of a womans hair is a huge turn on for me at least. But not to much. I don't wanna feel like she embalmed herself in perfume. I like when women use the same approach with scent that I do. Just enough she has to draw herself closer to really smell it. I really enjoy those whom are open minded and confident with themselves. Thats sexxy no matter how you slice it.  Sense of humor is a must as is brutal honesty. I like a woman who can tell me to go to hell in such a way that I can't wait to get there.
Hi Buddy Did you ever say a heartful here! For those men like us, you have just painted a masterpiece. Hi Missy, thumbs up! |
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and what attracts me in a man if he appreciate smooth jazz and is Sade's songs fanatic...if he is then he knew me. Ut O "Sade", I might be in-love. You have good taste!! |
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Topic:
How do you break the news
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Hi Kat
You probably have this all figured out by now, but I would give a thumbs up to being yourself as quickly as possible in front of him. Your energy vibe is who you are. |
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maybe comfortable is "perfect"
comfort, what a great word! |
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Well buddy, I'm housebound at the moment, so I hardly have a choice as to whether I go outside. It's one of the toughest things I've ever been through. You don't expect something like this to happen to you, but who does? I talk to a therapist about it. It drives me a bit crazy, sometimes. But gradually is the only way I can improve. The internet is a good communication tool. I really miss going shopping, and if I want to visit anyone, I take a taxi, because walking about would put fear up me/would bring on the sweat and panic. If you really want to go out, you'll go. Stop pitying yourself. 
Show yourself, post a photo of your azz....People are here for a variety of reasons, none of which are yours to judge... 
Oh...I thought I was trying to inspire someone. Sorry you feel that way. Not to be too mean here but maybe, that statement was a little off. Being in a situation that keeps you homebound has nothing to do with pitty. Inspiring someone comes from knowing their particular set of circumstances. |
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I disagree. The problem is most people are taught that there is no such thing as perfect, but everything is perfect in its own way...Even terrible things. Now, that's kinda interesting too. I mean things are what they are right? interesting |
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Topic:
Do guys still bring flowers
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Nice thread, makes me feel good to come up and see these kinds of posts. Classy!
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I'm glad to see missy and kat here. nice answers
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Topic:
My needs unanswered....
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My gutt is telling me that maybe we are not listening to lov3, and lov3 that isn't our fault, it's just that a forum is not as 3D sometimes into someones thoughts and what they are trying to say.
We all look at others through our own eyes unfortunately and sometimes miss the point or even the whole essence of the writer. The only way we would really "get it" is if you kept us informed and in time we were able to see your meaning. I see a lot of people come here with real needs or questions but they never truly get answered because the people who respond sometimes are trying to make a point themselves and it clouds what you the OP are trying to say. I do this myself. I'll right a response based on the way that it hits me at the moment or the way it makes me feel, instead of looking at the deeper sense of the writers words. Plus, it's true that on the internet the BS factor is so huge that the message many times comes up missing. Maybe that's what forums come down to. Maybe at best we only get the collective and not the root. Navy said something interesting. She brought up the point that maybe you should seek friends here. I think in doing so you will be able to have people look at what you are saying with maybe more insight and depth to your thoughts cause you then are able to state "help me with this" instead of looking like mingle may be a hook up place. To be honest part of mingle is indeed a hook up place but those who come to the forums seem like are more of a group that is looking into the social aspect (finding and giving answers) while learning about others and themselves. BTW you have some wise people who have given you response here, and even though they differ it's a good mix. A mix that may or may not get it, but are pretty smart cookies. As for me, I'm not sure how I feel about what your saying except that I'm sure many are in your shoes. They may not word things the same way but their in the same spot. |
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Looking for the mature strong woman who know what she want......i am from europe and i want to leave all my past behind and live a love storry to the end . Hi Virgil Good luck with your new life. It's hard to start over and with so many lost even harder to find "that love story". Times have changed and with the amount of bruises being so public these days it seems like the true love we have all pictured is something only found in movies, but I for one still believe in true love and believe it can happen to you. You might have to dig a little deeper and have a thicker skin then years ago before the internet but I think there are thousands/millions of good hearts out there and when you find her she will be at the same place you are, ready for that love story. welcome to mingle |
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Topic:
Prayers for the Philippines
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Starting to hear from friends there, a huge relief, but very sad for those going through this.
my thoughts and prayers are with you |
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A woman that knows how to look at art.
A woman that knows what music to turn on. A woman that knows how to lite candles. A woman that knows how to run her bath water. A woman that knows how to curl up on the sofa. A woman that knows how to laugh. A woman that knows how to make herself feel pretty. A woman that knows how not to be bored. A woman that knows what a perfect pillow is. A woman that knows she is right without ever having to say a word. A woman that knows how to share. A woman that knows how to give. A woman that knows how to recieve. A woman that knows how to make love, and what love is that she's making. A woman that knows how to fill the air with these incredible smells. A woman that knows what partners means. A woman that knows how to give me that look that passes all time. A woman that knows she is a woman and I am a man. Oh my, what attracts me to a woman is so far from this outside thing that so many can't get past. I want/need to be able to sit there in the now, and take in this moment. Tomorrow is in a land that could be so different from what we know right at this present, and I don't want to sit there dwelling on it and bypass the here in front of me. What attracts me is a woman who can make a penny look like a million bucks, and who makes me feel like that millionare. A woman who is dedicated to the team of me and her. A woman who is my best friend and wisest advisor. A woman who knows she can talk to me, and knows that I'm going nowhere when she can't. A woman who knows that no matter what my bags are staying in storage. What attracts me is a woman who wants to take ownership, and who knows what ownership is. |
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Some people have zero class. ..if only more people did 
second that! |
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Topic:
my flight tonight
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sittin here ticket in hand
wonderin about your plans baby your already gone thinkin about the times we had makin me more than sad baby your already gone now my life is in a twirl thinkin of my little girl hoping that she'll be around tonight it wasn't oh so long ago when you looked at me and I had to know baby what was on your mind I could tell by the way you held my hand and pushed your footprints in the sand baby it's a matter of time now my life is in a twirl thinkin of my little girl hoping that she'll be around tonight my guitar is slowly bleedin strings are cryin loud and clear if I only knew that you'd be true baby I'd dry my tears well the gate is callin me either way I will be free baby I'm steppin through throw my causion to the wind know this new life must begin baby will you do it too now my life is in a twirl thinkin of my little girl hoping that she'll be around tonight pilot said the plane will land somethin bout these sweaty hands baby I'm shakin bad got my bag I'm gettin off lord I must be soft baby happy or sad now my life is in a twirl thinkin of my little girl hoping that she'll be around tonight baggage claim is empty there's no one there no perfume or pretty hair baby my heart is dead I'll gather my things and I'll be gone puts an end to this lonely song baby somethin I said my guitar is slowly bleedin strings are cryin loud and clear if I only knew that you'd be true baby I'd dry my tears baby, I'd dry my tears baby I'd dry my tears one lonely guy it's me again all alone playin this same song will I ever be home I look to heaven I go to hell my heart is leaking in this hotel gonna have another and another till it's gone gonna play these strings till someone comes along maybe I am too lost never find my way think I'll fall asleep there's another day bout 5 in the morning knock on the door I'm still half dressed laying on the floor oh my head hurts get to my feet turn the knob who can it be she says baby I'm sorry I was wrong I thought about you all night long went to the airport but I was late the lady said you had gone I sat down thought to myself I bet he's writing a song play your guitar play your guitar play your guitar for me play your guitar play your guitar play your guitar for me |
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Topic:
i,d love to have Money..
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I'm not that bothered about money and it wouldn't really make me happy to have more in the bank than I do now. Seems to me that people that sayy that they are miserable without it are miserable for some other reason and they just see money as a quick fix, like a drug. Yeah, I live comfortably enough and have no financial problems, so I'm not that bothered about it. You say that money improves your chance of finding love but then you are always going to wonder if it's your money that they want you for and you've swapped that as something that makes you insecure for whatever it was that you thought that the money would compensate for. This is the best post I think I've ever seen you make. |
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Topic:
i,d love to have Money..
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Lol
Oh dude, I was liking you then you had to go start a post about the big evil. I've been on both ends. And this really depends on who you are and many times how thick of a skin you have and how big of a sucker you are as to if it is good to have the big bucks. I know some who handle it well and others who wish it never would have happened. I will tell you this for sure though, if you have had money and fallen from it, it's a longer drop than you can ever imagine and finding your way back to being you can take the rest of your life. Why? Cause money can plant an evil seed that you never knew existed, and many times you have no idea of how it changes you. For a few (a very few) it brings out the best. But for most it turns dark. We all say, when I get rich I will do this as we put on our wings, but I have seen far more horns come out than wings. And there's one more part to this that people don't think about. When you make a million plus you (unless you are very very lucky) loose you privacy. You might think it is roses, and true there are some really good parts to it, but it's also true when people say "money doesn't make you rich". Sometimes it's better to have the dream of "if I had" than actually having it. |
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Topic:
hey
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Why yes there is and I was just working on the list.
Kik pony Jman Jack conrad ese romee manO hippy lion dodo john .... this is going to take a while anyone care to help? |
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