Ok this is a bit out there but im just curious as to what the response will be.
I am expecting some men that reply to say theres never too much. The question for those guys is how much you getting at the moment.
Is once a week or once a month or couple months enough.?
Is it wrong to want "relations" as I like to refer to it more than once a week?

it will be too much when it is against the will of the partner , while you both need to make love it won't be enough

Bit more picky these days, as when I was in my teens I would've shagged it if it had a pair of b**bs and moved! Changed days now though and it's quality now over quantity. Still like the quantity with the quality though!

I would NEVER condone have sex against anyones will and it is completely wrong.

Yeah I was the same when I was younger. Ha ha.
But you still haven't said what you would like quantity wise?
How often would people like it?

Don't think you can speak of too much or wrong to want it more than once a week as long as you don't force it upon your partner and / or are not obsessed by it.

For me personally it depends on life the universe and everything. I.e. my cycle, the vibe between me and my partner, worries & stress etc. etc.

What was this thing again: put a bean or marble in a pot every time you have sex with your partner during the first 5 years of the relationship. After 5 years you take a bean out of the pot every time you have sex.
Apparently the pot will never get empty ...

Now I can't remember whether it was 5 years or 7. But I done that during my first relationship and I gotta say ... it seemed to be true. (you get kids etc, kills the sex-life, haha)

So in that sense, thank god for divorce, so we can start afresh with a new pot and new beans
Joking ...

As long as he soilder is standing. When the soilder is down and wont get up then its too much.

There can never be too much, especially if there is a strong attraction to your partner

In the early days of the relationship, its never too much. You never seem to get enough of each other coz of the excitement. but as time goes by, once or twice a week is ok.

I think a very important part of who we choose to have a "relationship" with should be someone who is compatible in terms of sex drive. (Just one aspect, folks! )

For example, imagine having a conversation that basically has just told you that sex has never been very important to him/her! If you feel the same, then awesome! But if you are on the opposite side of the spectrum,then quickly move on!!!

How often is good? Or should the question be "How good is often?" MMMmmmm!

Are we counting quickies too?

See!!!
Now this is what im talking about...
Once the honeymoon period is over once or twice a week is acceptable, right?
I understand that some weeks may get missed due to whatever reason or maybe some weeks might go for a hat trick and get 3 sessions in.
Whay hay!
But 2 to 3 should be roughly an average?

Of course!! Quickies often are the best

Sex is one of those tough topics.....while most men in our age range are at the peak of our sexual energy .....at the same time most women haven't reached their peak yet......most I say....sex is very healthy but sometimes the urge and need that men have can be very damaging to any relationship...because it tends to make women feel as though that's all we want them for....I know its hard for us to control our urges for sex it is also healthy to let the woman come to us from time to time when they feel the urge!!!! and also if you would notice a lot of time when they do approach us for it at a bad time we also have a hard time getting aroused....so I say to you that the beginning of a new relationship is probably gonna be the peak of the energetic sexual intense moment of any relationship!!!

Quickies...

I dont see why not. Its like having a Mocha instead of your regular cappuccino.

Oh my days crystalfairy...
You do make me chuckle. .
In a nice way.. and it's nice to hear it from a woman as well...

For me this is the right answer. Everyone is different and matching up sex drives can be important. I have been in relationships where the woman wanted sex everyday. It just wasn't doable and sex seemed like the most important thing to her in a relationship. Sex obviously means different things to different people and matching up your needs and values can make or break a relationship unfortunately.