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Fri 09/18/09 11:10 PM


ive been on this site for about 2 years and i have met some wonderful site and this site is much more better then a lame pay site and much more addicting!

i think if you really dive into the forums you'll see how wonderful this site really is


It sounds like what you and "munchiebellic" are saying is... that this site is great to make friends and talk to cool people on the forums, but you're not likely to meet your soul mate and start dating them.

That's sorta the impression I'm getting too. Then again, I don't know of any dating sites that are better either. I'm kinda new to this.

Jimothy i have a pay site and two free site accounts i get more action from this one than the other two. Depends on the area your in and who is looking for your qualities. Dating can be a sit and wait type of deal, for some, for others dating comes naturally, for most on here i think they give up too soon when they dont magically get a response within the first week or two they are here. The more people learn about you the more interesting and inviting you may seem to someone.

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Fri 09/18/09 11:03 PM
Rockstar in the making

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Fri 09/18/09 10:54 PM
Im not a parent, so i cant say. But i have heard time and again that the bond between mother and child is irreplaceable. That being said, i would have to die or both of them would have to die. I would not be able to have one without the other, but i would fight for my life to save them both because i dont do well with loss.

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Fri 09/18/09 10:40 PM
Ok i understand coming to walmart in the middle of the night in your pajamas but what is it with people coming in at 2pm on a wednesday in their pjs? Oh and do i work in the only store where it seems like none of the customers bathe? I swear we have like 6 homeless people roaming our store.

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Fri 09/18/09 10:25 PM
I joined the site to try to find someone, what i found after about 100 posts is a group of people who are fun to converse with. I have found a support system when i was feeling low, people who share similar thoughts and those that give me a different point of view on issues. I have made friends, and even those that rub me the wrong way are still respected because i found that we all have opinions and preferences and beliefs. Dip your foot in the water before you say its cold. If you stay, see how you feel after you have posted 100 times. At 400 i took a little break, but now i am back and maybe i will make more friends now.

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Fri 09/18/09 10:07 PM
Relationships come and go, your career is important, it is how you will provide for your future family. Love will come, probably when it is least expected. If you focus on your work and maintain your life to keep you happy everything else should fall into place for you, dont let the bad seeds bring you down. Enjoy playing the field until you find the right one for you. And never ever settle.

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Fri 09/18/09 07:44 AM

my daughter when she was about 11 in that area she really wanted this one halloween costume and it was $30 for petes sake


wow, $30 is cheap for halloween costumes where i come from. heck, the dog's costs about that much!

i'm guilty of buying my kids expensive presents; if i can afford them, do not overindulge, and they appreciate it, i see no harm. it's all relative anyway to income.

i'm also guilty of enrolling and/or registering my children in a lot of extra curricular activities. they never much liked playing on the street with the other kids so it's the next best way to stay active. they've been in everything - karate, dance, gymnastics, skating, swimming, piano, soccer.

they aren't allowed to use their game boys during the school months (except on the weekend) but boy did those games come in handy driving with them to florida myself. worth every single penny!

my eldest has a cell phone. it's a safety issue for me. as soon as she moves on to high school, the middle child will get one too. while it doesn't guarantee security, it's at least one area where i can at least do something to help. there's a spending limit on it and if it's abused, i'll think of something else but so far the card expires before it's even used. that's another area where i think that my money has been well spent.



I truely believe there is a difference in what you do, and the actions of some parents. You seem to be an active parent in your childrens lives. You seem to enforce rules and set active goals for you kids. School seems to be a main focus because you dont allow video games during school. A cell phone is good in emergencies for kids to have. I suggest a cell phone where you can keep up with the location of your childs phone with the gps on your phone if you can afford it. But those parents that just let kids run all over them those are the ones that drive me crazy. If you can afford to give your kids things you might not had had as a child that is great as long as they understand and appreciate why you give these gifts.

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Fri 09/18/09 01:34 AM




What is going to happen when they turn 18-21 years old what

How will they handle a job???


Some of them will never learn to....

I have 2 friends that are careless with money. One is 25 in nov. And he makes nearly 4000 a month. Which is alot in our state. He has had this job for two years now at this pay rate and has nothing but plane tickets and concert and event tickets to show for it. He has no savings nothing. Its sad. All that work for pieces of paper and memories. And my other friend is 22 and she has a job and still expects everything to be handed to her and expects everyone to like her. She is getting better. Although she is not saving either to live out on her own and she relies on my other friend for everything, rides to work, food, shelter. EVERYTHING.


Wow, what in the world does he do to make 4000 a month and where do I sign up?surprised

Yeah i know! Lol and funny thing is, he barely made it through high school and never went to college. This job landed in his lap. He was working at the dollar store, when the guy who is his boss now told him to apply and he would hire him. Well, he works in the office of a geophysics company. He does the data entry for the detections found throughout the day. They detect metals and such in the ground at the old army base here. It uxo detection. Yeah i wish i had that job lucky man he is. And with no education beyond high school.

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Fri 09/18/09 01:25 AM


What is going to happen when they turn 18-21 years old what

How will they handle a job???


Some of them will never learn to....

I have 2 friends that are careless with money. One is 25 in nov. And he makes nearly 4000 a month. Which is alot in our state. He has had this job for two years now at this pay rate and has nothing but plane tickets and concert and event tickets to show for it. He has no savings nothing. Its sad. All that work for pieces of paper and memories. And my other friend is 22 and she has a job and still expects everything to be handed to her and expects everyone to like her. She is getting better. Although she is not saving either to live out on her own and she relies on my other friend for everything, rides to work, food, shelter. EVERYTHING.

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Fri 09/18/09 01:17 AM



I wuz po.....

No seriously, we live in a different time. I had a friend who went into serious debt to buy Christmas gifts for her children, and they're all under 10 years old. One of them demanded a toy that cost 150 dollars and she bought it. She admitted it was a stupid toy and it cost too much, but if she didn't buy it for him, he'd be "very disappointed." Pffft...grumble


what the heck!! no toy is worth $150 just to please that kid for a day.. come on.. my daughter when she was about 11 in that area she really wanted this one halloween costume and it was $30 for petes sake.. my bf at the time bought it for her and i told her you know you better wear it for the next couple yrs. but of course she didnt..



Exactly. And she said she knew he'd barely play with it, which he didn't, but she bought it anyway to please him. Makes you wonder who's in charge now, the kids or the parents, LOL

My sister and i got concert tickets for christmas and easter one year. But we earned them. And it made for much fond memories. But other than that i was usually happy with a cd a movie and the clothes i got as gifts. I had to work to earn things in my house. Still do lol. But now i work to earn my right to live with a roof over my head, power to see, water to bathe, phone to communicate, and food to eat. Anything else is a bonus!

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Fri 09/18/09 01:10 AM

"go play on the freeway"

-Dear old Dad

Yep, lol it was still outside. If you actually went out on the freeway would you have learned a lesson? Oh and another thing that makes me upset, parents who dont discipline their children. Im sorry but beating a child and spanking a child who is misbehaving is two totally different things. And people who interfer with how you choose to discipline or someone who tells you how to raise your child. Not a hypocrite, just dont understand the thought process of some people. Never would i tell someone they are wrong, just have different views and i like to see both sides to a story.

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Fri 09/18/09 12:55 AM
The days when parents would send their kids outside to play? These days kids are given a pacifier: food, video game, tv, etc. I think that is why so many kids that are tweens and teens look like they belong in elementary school. I mean seriously, most 16 year olds look 12. To me i believe that it is because of a sacred society. The news rarely shows happy news. Most everything is about death, rape, shootings, car accidents, and kiddnapping. Parents dont feel safe letting their children out into the world so they keep them inside to protect them. But at what expense are they being protected? Many kids education dwindles because they are too absorbed into tv or a video game to understand the world around them. So now they have unrealistic ideas of how to earn money. They think because mommy and daddy give then whatever they want, they expect the world to hand them everything on a silver platter. What examples are we teaching our kids by handing them everything, instead of making them work for it and earning it, all in the name of protecting them from all the bad around them?

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Thu 09/17/09 11:46 PM
Edited by munchiebellic on Thu 09/17/09 11:50 PM


Preferences are just another reason to try to make society conform to idealistic ways. When people decide on preferences they mark others into different sterotypes. The world has always been like this, probably will always be like this. An utopian society will never be met where size, shape, color, etc doesnt matter. How do you know if someone is the right person for you if you dont take the time to know them because they dont conform to your idealistic thought of what is right for you? Next time someone is not pretty enough for you because of a various thought in your head and you dont take a chance, just remember, you might be passing up the greatest person that ever happened to you.


It doesn't necessarily have to be looks, it could be a certain lifestyle you're not into, or religious beliefs, the list goes on. If you ignore potential problems with someone just to avoid being alone, it can be a bad decision.

I knew i was going to get that response, im not saying that you should disregard your lifestyle and religious beliefs for another, by no means. But superficial preferences, are the ones i was speaking on. A polyamorous person might not be ideal for a monogomous person, a heteroflexable person is not going to make a gay individual to turn. Religion is a different story, many religions intermix. And those couples can lead successful relationships. But thats because they were open and accepting of their mates religion and lifestyle.

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Thu 09/17/09 11:33 PM
Preferences are just another reason to try to make society conform to idealistic ways. When people decide on preferences they mark others into different sterotypes. The world has always been like this, probably will always be like this. An utopian society will never be met where size, shape, color, etc doesnt matter. How do you know if someone is the right person for you if you dont take the time to know them because they dont conform to your idealistic thought of what is right for you? Next time someone is not pretty enough for you because of a various thought in your head and you dont take a chance, just remember, you might be passing up the greatest person that ever happened to you.

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Wed 09/16/09 03:44 PM

Did the season finale feel like a season finale to you? It just didn't for me. *spoiler alert* the death scene wasn't right, if it was that easy to kill her you would think some vamp would have done it a long time ago.

I liked Hoyt and Jessica together, but if she is going to go down that path they can just go ahead and kill her for all I'm concerned.

Vampire rights didnt exist at a time much earlier than this. So vampires were not as open at a earlier time. And shifters are not open about their abilities. And sam is the one marianne was after. So it only made sense of the way they killed her. She had to believe that she offered sam and sookie was the diversion so bill could heal sam. Then sam shifting into a bull made sense so marianne would believe her god had come to her. And so then they were able to kill her. It was the only way. Just one was not able to kill her. And vampires are poisoned by her. A cliff hanger ending, and ridding of the most threatening character, yep seemed like a season finale to me.

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Mon 09/14/09 12:18 AM
What a great plot twist tonight. Oh and the end made me mad! "i will personally take care of him" Aww poor eggs. Poor tara. And i am mad at jessica! She knows better. Wtf jason stackhouse? I cant wait for season 3! If you watched tonight you will understand all my jabber. For those who couldnt watch sorry hope you get to catch up soon.

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Sun 09/13/09 02:44 PM
Jose is not a dear friend of mind, as a matter of fact, i prefer jim and jack.

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Sun 09/13/09 02:36 PM
3.5 hours til the season finale! Im sad and excited! Cant wait to clock out to go home.

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Fri 09/11/09 09:46 PM



Change your attitude, and lower your expectations.


Expect nothing, and you wont be disapointed.

I expect nothing but hope for something more in life. I need a change a major change. I career change, a location change, anything. Just a change a shift in life itself



Well, the only thing I would like to add is... drinking to excess, and acting like a skanky whore is not a hobby.. its been done..

I should know. laugh :wink:

I live with my mom and her alcoholic girlfriend so i refuse to drink alcohol. And i am not big on random hook ups so skanky wont do for me. Any careers in science or math that doesnt require a college degree? That is where my life needs to take me. I need to return to school.

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Fri 09/11/09 09:37 PM
Edited by munchiebellic on Fri 09/11/09 09:40 PM
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