2009 has been an incredible year for me so far. I've managed to help turn a gloomy financial situation into a promising new business which requires alot of my time. I am also going back to school to further arm myself with knowledge to better support my position.

Here's the problem related to the pursuit of Love (or is it really a problem?) I am single and have dated occasionally in the past but recently I find myself less interested in finding that special someone and more interested in becoming a success story.

Should I put off thinking about being in a relationship until I get to where I want to be? I know others I may meet have dreams of their own but I am living mine right now. Recently I've met some very selfish women and I know that's just bad luck, but I really have no time for games. I think that only a career minded hard working woman would be a good fit with me now.

What do you think?

Moooooooooney Mooooooooooney Mooooooooooney Mooooooooooooney, MONEY!



Get the green.



You will find her at some point.

Continue to strive to give yourself the happiness only you can provide. All will come to you in due time.

I agree

money

Relationships come and go, your career is important, it is how you will provide for your future family. Love will come, probably when it is least expected. If you focus on your work and maintain your life to keep you happy everything else should fall into place for you, dont let the bad seeds bring you down. Enjoy playing the field until you find the right one for you. And never ever settle.

I'm a very selfish woman, but tons of people still like me!

Oh yeah, money always trumps relationships, don't forget that.

hhmm I think it would be important that if a woman has interest in you so will and would want you to succeed. I would also think and hope a woman be interested to know you for who you are and be willing to accept you and your career. I think that it would be in your best interest to make it known what your intentions so you do not have to go through what you have already gone through again.

Go for the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

money comes and go, only true love will stay:-)

everyone seems to only be worried about money these days, so you may as well be too...

we always can make money, and we always will spend it by way or another,so its easy to find. the true love is hard to find.

amen that brother..

its the truth that we all ignore it when we r busy making money :-)

yeah, because everyone is preoccupied with $$$$$$ right now..

and where is love right now?

been alone so long, don't even think about it anymore

its not too late :-)

I have been to many funerals over the years....from babies to people who have lived a full life....and everyone in between.

Not once at any of those funerals did I see a car,
or a house, or a wallet, or a job, or dollar bills,
paying their respects....shedding a tear,
mourning the loss of love....


I saw plenty of people who had loved the person who died though...


My point?


Money gets stuff.....it's just stuff.


Love is a lifetime.

no, it's not too late...I'm open, I'm out there...just isn't happening.
I don't push it, I don't worry about it.. flow with the universe.