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Topic: How much will you let someone put you through?
MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:56 PM
smokin How much will you let someone put you through before you realize you no longer love them?smokin

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:58 PM
You would be amazed!!

cityblues21's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:02 PM
Not even close to what I have let some people put me through in the past...

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Wed 06/17/09 07:03 PM
sometimes,way to much....

I think, we know the answer,the whole time, just sometimes we ignore the feeling, hoping things will get better.


Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:04 PM
Not to much

I learned my lesson(s) years ago!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:06 PM

You would be amazed!!
laugh

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Wed 06/17/09 07:07 PM
It would depend on how much I loved them...a little or it could be a lot! drinks

bastet126's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:12 PM
alot, and even then i still loved, just could no longer live a life with him. ohwell

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:13 PM

Not even close to what I have let some people put me through in the past...
flowerforyou thats goodflowerforyou

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Wed 06/17/09 07:14 PM
Obviously too much!
I never knew I was a masocist until the sadist left my life!

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:14 PM

sometimes,way to much....

I think, we know the answer,the whole time, just sometimes we ignore the feeling, hoping things will get better.


flowerforyou i agreebigsmile

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:18 PM
I put up with the screamin hissy fits of my bipolar boyfriend for 2 months too long. He's now my ex an has been for some time now. I learned a very valuable lesson. Don't become involved with someone who has mental issues unless they are takin their meds properly an bein seen by a psychiatrist on a regular basis. shades

TxsSun's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:19 PM
I let them put me through a lot. Now the question is how much will I put myself through? ohwell

Dragoness's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:24 PM

smokin How much will you let someone put you through before you realize you no longer love them?smokin


If it is beating, drugs, cheating, all you get is once and it is over.

Outside of that if you are mentally abusive and do not realize you do it and are willing to work at it, I may be willing to stay for a bit longer to see if you are going to change it.

For the most part though, one chance is all you get because I know I am not doing any of the relationship breakers.

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Wed 06/17/09 07:35 PM
I dont know that its too useful to recall times when I was treated badly. Its far more useful to recall times when I treated someone badly. Then I can learn and grow. If I give it enough attention I may one day become someone who is worthy of spending my life with a person who has a good heart

TxsSun's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:41 PM

I dont know that its too useful to recall times when I was treated badly. Its far more useful to recall times when I treated someone badly. Then I can learn and grow. If I give it enough attention I may one day become someone who is worthy of spending my life with a person who has a good heart



GREAT answer flowerforyou

shellymc's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:43 PM
i let a guy put me through alot putting me down ,saying i didnt dress up enough ,i was boring ,but when he said i wasn't a good mom i told him good bye brokenheart

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:48 PM
Love?

misstina2's photo
Wed 06/17/09 08:54 PM
flowerforyou sometimes it takes a while to realize the person you loved is no longer the same person flowerforyou

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Thu 06/18/09 12:02 PM

flowerforyou sometimes it takes a while to realize the person you loved is no longer the same person flowerforyou


I second that. frustrated

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