What would you do if your in-laws were so controlling, that they tell you where to live, what you are 'allowed' to have in your house (pets for example) and which school your child HAS to go to, and your partner stands firm on their decisions?

I have a date Saturday with a lady who contacted me on this site. I chose the place and am making the drive and will pay for coffee or a nice dinner depending on what we decide.

Should I bring a gift and if so what type? Chocolate? A book? Flowers? Roses?

My prison psychologist friend said exactly this: the restraining order will only make things worse, but its my only option.

Ive been blogging about it for a while, its thereputic at www.datinginsanity.blogspot.com.


She is not the mother of my son. My ex wife got custody of my son about a year and a half ago. They live 5 miles from my crazy ex.

She has two other ex boyfriends that I have been hearing about for years. The way she talked about them when we got together is exactly the way she is talking about me now. Thats a real eye opener.

Both of them are in prison. One for being a white supremacist, the other for various offenses including pushing drugs, car theft and assault, including kidnapping her for 2 weeks and duct taping her to a chair.

Keep in mind, I met her in church. I thought she was amazing, i did not know any of this until later and then I thought she was working this stuff out... thats why she was in church.

Im a normal guy. I was married 14 years and was happy as a married man. This is unbelievably confusing to me.

As for movie material, I honestly have friends that have been through all of this with me that are now doubting any of it occurred just because of how unbelievable it is.



*** about having enough proof. I can get transcripts from sprint proving that for the last few months she has called me up to 30 times a day somedays, and her texts will go from I Love you i cant get you out of my mind, to I hate you suck me in one day.

I found it ironic that my ex called me a whore several times when I was leaving him. He was the one who was cheating. He kept insisting that I must be leaving him for someone because "no woman would leave her husband if there wasn't someone else". That's exactly what he said.

i too live in a town no one knows about

do you have any idea how many you have?

I'll risk insulting you and suggest that you try the key if you haven't. I've seen people stand outside a locked car because their 'clicker' wouldn't unlock the door, forgetting that the key works just fine.....