Wondering why strange men think it's okay to send creepy messages to women they don't even know...Mind. Blown.

I can't get off if I"m not attracted to the guy. Younger guys have a lot more going for them in that regard- hot faces and great bodies, just the thought of that makes me go SWOON.....Also, don't assume just because a guy isn't that old that he doesn't know how to make a woman have an orgasm, you don't have to be an old man to know how to work the equipment. Just saying.

Having my coffee, so I'm feeling pretty good right now.

I agree this is a touchy subject that's been beaten nearly to death and most people won't give you a straight answer, mainly because in our society we've been taught not to. Allegedly we're "post-racial" whatever that even means. It's become socially acceptable to say "I don't see color" "We're all the same underneath" "We all bleed red" "There's only one race, the human race" etc. etc. etc forever and ever. Maybe some people truly mean that, maybe they don't, but we'll never really know because in our society you're not allowed to say anything that might be construed as racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Basically, now we lie. It's very easy to say what you'd do or what you'd like to think you'd do when you're not in that situation, most people pride themselves on being open-minded and tolerant and that they'd welcome a new person into their family regardless of their race, sexual orientation, etc etc, and maybe they would, but a lot of people are never presented with that situation because of other factors. Most people would like to think that they'd be willing to date someone of a different race, just because they're a nice person and they shouldn't judge someone based on the color of their skin.

Maybe they grew up in a very homogenous town or something, who knows? So you honestly don't know. I've dated outside my race and it never worked out because our cultures were too different. The last one wanted a relationship just like the one his parents had and I'm way too liberal for that nonsense. The others wanted to treat me like I was just an option and something to be tossed aside when they got bored. It was all about their control and their superiority and I'm not good at letting anyone control me, no matter who they are. I don't care who other people date, if they can find someone in their race or outside their race, more power to them. I agree any relationship is hard enough without adding any more obstacles to it.

In reply to Iaaac_Dede's comment about referring them to as interracial relationships instead of just relationships, maybe they're proud of the fact that they're different? Maybe they realize that their relationships aren't the standard in our society? If everyone dated outside their race, we wouldn't need the term to differentiate those from any others. Like I said, I couldn't care less, to each his own. The only problem I have is when one person uses their race as a position of power in order to abuse the other person in the relationship, but that's a whole other story. To each his own....

Sorry for the long reply, I'm very wordy when something intrigues me.

Not yet, but I'm still pretty young so it might happen. You never know....

I think so too.

Sleepy.

Wow, you've seen more d1cks than I have. That's pretty impressive.

Our secret is out. We're all lesbians. Oh well......

What would be the point of them letting men they don't want to date message them? I have my filters set so I only get messages from certain types of men. I've seen others do the same, it means there are groups of people we don't want to talk to. It's pretty simple. I'm sure there are a few women your age who want to talk to you, you just have to find them.

Because most people want what they can't have, instead of setting for what's available to them. Good luck though, I hope you find the kind of woman you want.

I"m very picky who I sleep with so yeah.

You should suggest that to them then, they might want to meet you, too.

Same. I was in my long-sleeved jammies last night.

My photo is busy resting and doesn't want to meet any new people. Also, you're very bossy.