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Topic: First Love Never Dies??Is that true??
levana27's photo
Sun 08/11/13 09:19 PM
Do you believe in first love never dies??do you still remember who's your first love??share your first lovestory here winking

levana27's photo
Sun 08/11/13 09:59 PM
..I believe in that quotation in a sense that u can still remember her/him after many years have passed and in a sense that u can still remember the memories that youve done together..honestly,i still love my ex..he's my first love..we broke up because of the rumor that i've heard about him while we're in long distance relationship..my friends said that he's flirting with others..i asked him if that's true but he denied it..he said that im the only girl of his life and no one could replace me on his heart..we've been 2 yrs. together but because my family decided to move here in manila,we rarely see each other..and after 6months (that's when started to spread lots of issues and rumors)i decided to end up our relaTionship..he cried and said that how come rumors easily destroyed the relationship that we had for 2 yrs...he saId that he's gonna wait for me..but last month i heard that he's courting a new girl...i thought he will wait for me but he didn't..it's also my fault. :'(

chrisjoz's photo
Sun 08/11/13 10:17 PM
Move on!! i have come across this situation and trust me if ur love couldnt take on the long distance it means it was never strong!! ...

krupa's photo
Sun 08/11/13 10:22 PM
You broke up because of rumours? Rumours of flirting? (Not sex....flirting?)

He cried?

Wow.......

Let the poor guy go....If the dude cried while having to deny something that he didn't do.....all because of your friends rumours about something that isn't even a bad thing...(..flirting is only bad to people who are jealous and controlling)...let him go.

You should hook up with whoever it was you believed more than your boyfriend...obviously,you trusted them more than you trusted him.

Anyway.....

My first love was great.....But...it wasn't my greatest love. The woman I love now is the woman I wish was my first love....she is awesome.

But...I am glad my first love failed...cause it freed me to meet the woman who treats me better than any woman EVER has.

unsure's photo
Sun 08/11/13 10:45 PM
You broke up with him because you heard he was flirting? IF you are in a relationship, you can still look and flirt just do not touch. You can not control someone's life and say do not look and talk to other people. Do you realize that just because you are in a relationship that everyone you date is going to talk to other people....that is part of life. It sounds like you do not trust him at all.
I think if you are that jealous of him, you should just let him go. Jealousy is going to kill any relationship you have. TRUST is a big must to have in any kind of relationship, even friendship. If he is dating someone else, let him go. You sound like you were going to smother him because you did not trust him, you would think after 2 years you would know him by now.
Move on and let him move on!!

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Sun 08/11/13 10:50 PM
It,s all good

unsure's photo
Sun 08/11/13 10:51 PM
I forgot to share my first love, sorry!
Yes I do remember him and I don't think you ever forget them.
He actually called me on Mother's Day after not talking to him for years. We talked for a long time and then I knew he was up to his old tricks so I got rid of him real fast.
I do hear our song and I still think of him. He was my first everything! I am glad that I did meet him and our relationship lasted about 3 years. I was young (19) and stupid and thought I was IN love but now I look back and that was not love. It was puppy love that is for sure!!!

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Mon 08/12/13 12:59 AM
I remember mine too. I don't think it's as forgettable as other relationship's, because they work out to be pretty special most of the time. It was a bonus that mine went to the same school as me, as that meant we could walk home together. And we did. He also used to come to my house early every morning, so that we could walk to school together. We might aswell have been married back then, because the only time we were apart, was lesson time. laugh. We hung with the same people, so we saw a lot of each other. I remember buying the nicest smelling stuff just for him. Talk about besotted with each other. laugh. He once told me how he remembered me singing a lot one night, after drinking Champagne, but all I remember is getting the migraine.

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Mon 08/12/13 07:32 AM
I remember my first love. He married my ex best friend or maybe that was my second love. Anyway move on you'll forget and find many many new loves as time goes on....

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Mon 08/12/13 07:35 AM

Do you believe in first love never dies??do you still remember who's your first love??share your first lovestory here winking



Love can be killed.

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Mon 08/12/13 07:54 AM
Edited by OkiHeadDoctor on Mon 08/12/13 07:56 AM


Do you believe in first love never dies??do you still remember who's your first love??share your first lovestory here winking



Love can be killed.


LOL @oldhippie (I concur and I support this message)

My first love and I are friendeded on the ol' FB, but we don;t communicate too much. Yes I still love her, but we both know that our lives have drifted so very far off of our path that we don't mess with it. I feel it's okay to love someone and not do everything else that usually comes with it...

Distance, South West Asia, and her moms not wanting any chocolate in the family back in 1989-91 put the brakes on us. :cry:

Answer: Yes, I believe (X-Files?)

camelia07's photo
Mon 08/12/13 02:58 PM
first love....!!sighs.....yeah!!:-) it never dies, but you should move on keeping the good memories as treasure, as this is the real world, the life is soooooo short to be loved...so spread love with your pure sweet heart!!:-)

navygirl's photo
Mon 08/12/13 03:30 PM

Do you believe in first love never dies??do you still remember who's your first love??share your first lovestory here winking


I remember my first love and yes it died. Not going to share as its just not worth sharing anything about him.

1Cynderella's photo
Mon 08/12/13 03:50 PM
First off everyone, without exception, dies. You're first love WILL die as will you.

Secondly, I actually think it's the memory of the first love experience that really sticks with us. And since that's the light we see the guy or gal under, that's what we will always believe they were to us. So yeah, most of us have very fond memories of our first love...first kiss...first time....


...on the roller coaster. :tongue:

msharmony's photo
Mon 08/12/13 03:53 PM
TRUE love never dies, but it can morph into different types

for instance, my first husband/first love was a true love of mine, and to this day I love him dearly, but its not the romantic connection it once more,, its more of a pure, joy in the heart, hoping the best for him every moment,,,,kind of love

levana27's photo
Thu 09/17/15 11:44 PM

You broke up with him because you heard he was flirting? IF you are in a relationship, you can still look and flirt just do not touch. You can not control someone's life and say do not look and talk to other people. Do you realize that just because you are in a relationship that everyone you date is going to talk to other people....that is part of life. It sounds like you do not trust him at all.
I think if you are that jealous of him, you should just let him go. Jealousy is going to kill any relationship you have. TRUST is a big must to have in any kind of relationship, even friendship. If he is dating someone else, let him go. You sound like you were going to smother him because you did not trust him, you would think after 2 years you would know him by now.
Move on and let him move on!!


I did trust him.I trusted him so much that I gave him lots of chances that eventually I realized that he didnt really deserve to have.
And jealousy is not a bad thing. Being jealous is normal especially when youre committed in that kinda relationship.It only means you love that person,that you care and you dont wanna lose that person. Who wouldnt get jealous if you're bae has no time for you but has time for others? A simple message from him would be enough and even short phone call would be enough to make my day but he always failed to do that.It was always me who do the efforts to hear his voice,to contact him even how busy I am with my school activities.I even sent him money just to work our relationship out.

Those rumours I heard is not just rumours coz they're true. I have proven it back then.I bought new sim card and I pretended as Nicole(Name of the girl he's flirting with) I texted him as Nicole and he didnt knew it was me. I flirted him through text and He bit my bait. He said "I no longer want to have relationship with my gf.I want to break up with her but I still want to receive money from her.

While reading that message,my tears rolled down and I just cried all night.

I realized that I've been fool all those months that we're in ldr.

And it's amazing to see myself that after 1 year of moving on, Im now stronger and happier than before while he's begging for more chances.

Gold digger man doesnt deserve any chances from me.


TrystaBella85's photo
Thu 09/17/15 11:48 PM
I wouldn't say it never dies, because you do remember your first love, but in order to move on to someone else, you have to get over the last person. Otherwise, it's really creepy.

TrystaBella85's photo
Thu 09/17/15 11:49 PM


Do you believe in first love never dies??do you still remember who's your first love??share your first lovestory here winking



Love can be killed.


That's for sure, LOL

shravancore2's photo
Thu 09/17/15 11:54 PM
ya i belive in love

sam1985765's photo
Thu 09/17/15 11:58 PM
yes i never forgot my first love

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