I am going to say what I believe as a Christian. I believe that we do not choose who we are with, yea it is our choice, but, God will bring us the one he see's fit for us. That's why we must ask and pray about these things. I believe as a Christian, it is important to pray about the person that you want to be with. We don't just end up with someone for no reason. Alot of Christians will wonder why it is so easy for everyone else to end up with someone, and even though alot of Christians are good looking, they wonder why they can't get dates or anything. Well, I also believe that dating isn't a Christian way, because in the bible a man would see a woman fitting and ask her to marry him. I do believe in getting to know someone, but, also, dating is almost like practicing a relationship. Let's say you go out on 5 dates and it doesn't work, well, what you did now was open your heart up a little by going out on dates, and now that this person doesn't want to see you anymore, one person will still have an emptiness and feel like they were emotionally involved, where as the other person had no feelings. To me, both people must start as friends and if either one of them feels like they might like the person, it should be talked about. There should be no dating to find out if you like someone. Speaking with a phrase, "you don't get to try the toy before it's made". You either like them or you don't. If you like them, and they like you, then you should be toegether, if not, then don't; simple as that. As for fornication, that is a big no. It is hard for all of us, but, if you have a problem with that, then pray about it. It's not easy for me either because I have made mistakes, but, that's because of getting too close before marriage. For me, sex is hard not to have once you've had it. Getting in a relationship will never be the same without it once you have had it before. That is why we are suppose to wait. If you want to be with someone who likes sex alot, then talk about it with the other person and find out if they are willing to do it alot. You still need to pray about it, because you might get married to someone who hates sex, but tricked you into marrying them. It happens, even in the bible days. You should probably get to know someone for a long time before trying to get into a relationship, so that way when you get into a relationship, you can get married a little after.

The methods when it comes to Christianity are different than the methods of a regular person who isn't a Christian. For example: Christians do not believe in "fornicating" at any time. While the regular individual who is not a Christian, believes that if you are in a relationship long enough, it is ok. Most Christians that I have talked to, believe that looks should not matter at all, that no matter how a person looks, you should still be with them if their heart is right. As a Christian, what are some of your methods? I am a Christian myself, though I am not perfect. Though I pray for God to give me the strength.

trust is a process

*Heaven*

Did it hurt? When you fell from heavin?

I'm like milk, I'll do your body good.

you remind me alot of my future wife.

I had lived with someone for awhile, fell in love, and it was a great relationship, and I met her online. But she died of an anyuerism. Online isn't for everyone

Ok, what about that definition haughty? that wasn't in the dictionary until my sofmore year in highschool. That was a new word only because of being overly used and known. How many people have you ever! ever heard in your entire life say "can you mingle those ingredients over here"? That's because it sounds more wrong to use than people using it in a sexual or being single kind of sentence. No matter how wrong you may think it sounds, look around you, nobody uses that word in any other way. It takes 2 to mingle, just remember that XD

no, but people use mingle alot to describe sexual relations. Most of the time when mingle is used it has to do with dating. Mingle is also is used as being single, as the definition i just posted.

omg! this subject just went to crap. Most people arn't going to admit it even if they have, so why waste space on the topic bro? How are you going to take anyone's word for it? I mean, yes it is wrong to cheat, but who is going to say "hey, I am a cheater". One and few would admit to it. Almost every girl has told me they have never cheated except one person, and that was my ex. She never cheated on me, but she has cheated on every other guy.... How do I know she has never cheated on me you say? Because she picked me up and took me to work every day on time, and we never left each other's side when we were around each other, and I didn't start working for awhile when I was with her, so that gave alot more time for us to bond. I have only been in one real relationship, and let me tell you, I never have never felt that much love b4. I believe if 2 people love each other, then why ruin that relationship, even if you just like them, but on the verge of getting into a relationship, why ruin that either? And even if it is a hateful relationship, trust me, all you have to do is keep moving forward even if it means getting out of a bad relationship. Why waste time on stupid revenge that isn't going to change anything except feed the fire and cause even more misery...

Thx, you got that off the page b4 I could lol. You chill busted him, and when someone is chill busted, it means they were proven wrong XD I like this site so far. Thx for the warm welcoming :)


Still waiting to be proven wrong on the definition of mingle...



you can't take it out of text like that. It depends on how you are saying it, I just looked it up. How in the world are you going to explain, mingle in the sheets? You can't exactly use that definition on a site like this in origional context....

min·gle /ˈmɪŋgəl/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[ming-guhl] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation verb, -gled, -gling, noun
–verb (used without object) 1. to become mixed, blended, or united.
2. to associate or mix in company: She refuses to mingle with bigots.
3. to associate or take part with others; participate.
–verb (used with object) 4. to mix or combine; put together in a mixture; blend.
5. to unite, join, or conjoin.
6. to associate in company: a hostess who mingles diplomats with executives.
7. to form by mixing; compound; concoct.
–noun 8. mingles, two or more single, unrelated adults who live together

:( I appologize

Thx, you got that off the page b4 I could lol. You chill busted him, and when someone is chill busted, it means they were proven wrong XD I like this site so far. Thx for the warm welcoming :)

Didn't you read the site when you joined? And every advertisement in here is about dating. Will do, but I am sure you didn't add the rest... I am pretty sure there is something about involvement to the meaning this site uses, or as in a hook up word of phrase.

Amen on that one!

Okay, first of all, welcome. Secondly, some of us were never here to do anything but kill time and make friends, at least that was true of me. I had to be begged to come here by a friend. You are right in that many people here have had bad experiences re trust, for various reasons or pains of another kind. Either or, pain is pain and has to be moved through. Hopefully we know enough not to make every person in our future pay for the sins of one.

It is a GREAT site. Good luck to you.



Yea, but the people that have joined the site still know it is a dating site. Most poeple don't come here to make friends when there is a big world out there and filled with many people. All you have to do is walk outside and you have already made friends. Now, they do have friend sites or myspace to make friends, but that is different. Everyone knows what mingle means ( well, most of us anyways ). But, we all have opinions.


One, never was a dating site. Two, a lot of people are here simply to make friends and nothing more or possibly to see where it can go from there. Three, the definition of mingle.

Main Entry: min·gle
Pronunciation: \ˈmiŋ-gəl\
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): min·gled; min·gling \-g(ə-)liŋ\
Etymology: Middle English menglen, frequentative of mengen to mix, from Old English mengan; akin to Middle High German mengen to mix, Greek massein to knead
Date: 15th century
transitive verb
1: to bring or mix together or with something else usually without fundamental loss of identity : intermix
2archaic : to prepare by mixing : concoct
intransitive verb
1: to become mingled
2 a: to come into contact : associate b: to move about (as in a group) <mingled with the guests>


I don't know what dictionary you are using but I think that one might be outdated by at least a few centuries, read the webster or college dictionary XD try reading the info on this site, it is a dating site, the looking for friends is apart of the package. Sorry bro, but it is a dating site with expansions.

Yea, but the people that have joined the site still know it is a dating site. Most poeple don't come here to make friends when there is a big world out there and filled with many people. All you have to do is walk outside and you have already made friends. Now, they do have friend sites or myspace to make friends, but that is different. Everyone knows what mingle means ( well, most of us anyways ). But, we all have opinions.

yes it is, but there is alwyas a gut feeling and a knowing deep down inside... Until someone is caught in the act, I believe you should live every day as good as possible

no, I chose this name because of the zodiac signs. I was watching an interesting show and that's when I decided I wanted this name.