For some, it is hard to trust because of past experiences. But, then again, that's a big reason why alot of people chose to come to dating sites because there are alot of losers out there, and alot of times they get involved with someone they don't know a whole lot about. So, to me it is a good idea to read a little about someone so at least you know some things about them. It isn't the same as meeting someone at a coffee shop or a bar. But, most of us are here for the same reason, to find a soul mate. I think this is a great site and is set up pretty good. Hopefully we will all meet someone and have all have a wonderful future. :)