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Topic: Trust is a big part of a relationship...
zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:07 PM
For some, it is hard to trust because of past experiences. But, then again, that's a big reason why alot of people chose to come to dating sites because there are alot of losers out there, and alot of times they get involved with someone they don't know a whole lot about. So, to me it is a good idea to read a little about someone so at least you know some things about them. It isn't the same as meeting someone at a coffee shop or a bar. But, most of us are here for the same reason, to find a soul mate. I think this is a great site and is set up pretty good. Hopefully we will all meet someone and have all have a wonderful future. :)

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:09 PM
You aren't the Zodiac killer, are you???

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:10 PM
Trust is hard to come by!

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:10 PM
no, I chose this name because of the zodiac signs. I was watching an interesting show and that's when I decided I wanted this name.

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:12 PM
yes it is, but there is alwyas a gut feeling and a knowing deep down inside... Until someone is caught in the act, I believe you should live every day as good as possible

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:13 PM

For some, it is hard to trust because of past experiences. But, then again, that's a big reason why alot of people chose to come to dating sites because there are alot of losers out there, and alot of times they get involved with someone they don't know a whole lot about. So, to me it is a good idea to read a little about someone so at least you know some things about them. It isn't the same as meeting someone at a coffee shop or a bar. But, most of us are here for the same reason, to find a soul mate. I think this is a great site and is set up pretty good. Hopefully we will all meet someone and have all have a wonderful future. :)


Okay, first of all, welcome. Secondly, some of us were never here to do anything but kill time and make friends, at least that was true of me. I had to be begged to come here by a friend. You are right in that many people here have had bad experiences re trust, for various reasons or pains of another kind. Either or, pain is pain and has to be moved through. Hopefully we know enough not to make every person in our future pay for the sins of one.

It is a GREAT site. Good luck to you.

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:17 PM


For some, it is hard to trust because of past experiences. But, then again, that's a big reason why alot of people chose to come to dating sites because there are alot of losers out there, and alot of times they get involved with someone they don't know a whole lot about. So, to me it is a good idea to read a little about someone so at least you know some things about them. It isn't the same as meeting someone at a coffee shop or a bar. But, most of us are here for the same reason, to find a soul mate. I think this is a great site and is set up pretty good. Hopefully we will all meet someone and have all have a wonderful future. :)


Okay, first of all, welcome. Secondly, some of us were never here to do anything but kill time and make friends, at least that was true of me. I had to be begged to come here by a friend. You are right in that many people here have had bad experiences re trust, for various reasons or pains of another kind. Either or, pain is pain and has to be moved through. Hopefully we know enough not to make every person in our future pay for the sins of one.

It is a GREAT site. Good luck to you.



Yea, but the people that have joined the site still know it is a dating site. Most poeple don't come here to make friends when there is a big world out there and filled with many people. All you have to do is walk outside and you have already made friends. Now, they do have friend sites or myspace to make friends, but that is different. Everyone knows what mingle means ( well, most of us anyways ). But, we all have opinions.

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Wed 05/27/09 08:26 PM



For some, it is hard to trust because of past experiences. But, then again, that's a big reason why alot of people chose to come to dating sites because there are alot of losers out there, and alot of times they get involved with someone they don't know a whole lot about. So, to me it is a good idea to read a little about someone so at least you know some things about them. It isn't the same as meeting someone at a coffee shop or a bar. But, most of us are here for the same reason, to find a soul mate. I think this is a great site and is set up pretty good. Hopefully we will all meet someone and have all have a wonderful future. :)


Okay, first of all, welcome. Secondly, some of us were never here to do anything but kill time and make friends, at least that was true of me. I had to be begged to come here by a friend. You are right in that many people here have had bad experiences re trust, for various reasons or pains of another kind. Either or, pain is pain and has to be moved through. Hopefully we know enough not to make every person in our future pay for the sins of one.

It is a GREAT site. Good luck to you.



Yea, but the people that have joined the site still know it is a dating site. Most poeple don't come here to make friends when there is a big world out there and filled with many people. All you have to do is walk outside and you have already made friends. Now, they do have friend sites or myspace to make friends, but that is different. Everyone knows what mingle means ( well, most of us anyways ). But, we all have opinions.


One, never was a dating site. Two, a lot of people are here simply to make friends and nothing more or possibly to see where it can go from there. Three, the definition of mingle.

Main Entry: min·gle
Pronunciation: \ˈmiŋ-gəl\
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): min·gled; min·gling \-g(ə-)liŋ\
Etymology: Middle English menglen, frequentative of mengen to mix, from Old English mengan; akin to Middle High German mengen to mix, Greek massein to knead
Date: 15th century
transitive verb
1: to bring or mix together or with something else usually without fundamental loss of identity : intermix
2archaic : to prepare by mixing : concoct
intransitive verb
1: to become mingled
2 a: to come into contact : associate b: to move about (as in a group) <mingled with the guests>

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:29 PM
Trust in what you love, continue to do it, and it will take you where you need to go.”

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:30 PM


For some, it is hard to trust because of past experiences. But, then again, that's a big reason why alot of people chose to come to dating sites because there are alot of losers out there, and alot of times they get involved with someone they don't know a whole lot about. So, to me it is a good idea to read a little about someone so at least you know some things about them. It isn't the same as meeting someone at a coffee shop or a bar. But, most of us are here for the same reason, to find a soul mate. I think this is a great site and is set up pretty good. Hopefully we will all meet someone and have all have a wonderful future. :)


Okay, first of all, welcome. Secondly, some of us were never here to do anything but kill time and make friends, at least that was true of me. I had to be begged to come here by a friend. You are right in that many people here have had bad experiences re trust, for various reasons or pains of another kind. Either or, pain is pain and has to be moved through. Hopefully we know enough not to make every person in our future pay for the sins of one.

It is a GREAT site. Good luck to you.



Yea, but the people that have joined the site still know it is a dating site. Most poeple don't come here to make friends when there is a big world out there and filled with many people. All you have to do is walk outside and you have already made friends. Now, they do have friend sites or myspace to make friends, but that is different. Everyone knows what mingle means ( well, most of us anyways ). But, we all have opinions.


One, never was a dating site. Two, a lot of people are here simply to make friends and nothing more or possibly to see where it can go from there. Three, the definition of mingle.

Main Entry: min·gle
Pronunciation: \ˈmiŋ-gəl\
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): min·gled; min·gling \-g(ə-)liŋ\
Etymology: Middle English menglen, frequentative of mengen to mix, from Old English mengan; akin to Middle High German mengen to mix, Greek massein to knead
Date: 15th century
transitive verb
1: to bring or mix together or with something else usually without fundamental loss of identity : intermix
2archaic : to prepare by mixing : concoct
intransitive verb
1: to become mingled
2 a: to come into contact : associate b: to move about (as in a group) <mingled with the guests>


I don't know what dictionary you are using but I think that one might be outdated by at least a few centuries, read the webster or college dictionary XD try reading the info on this site, it is a dating site, the looking for friends is apart of the package. Sorry bro, but it is a dating site with expansions.

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:31 PM

Trust in what you love, continue to do it, and it will take you where you need to go.”


Amen on that one!

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:32 PM
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mingle

Check it out yourself. From Webster no less...

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:37 PM

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mingle

Check it out yourself. From Webster no less...


Didn't you read the site when you joined? And every advertisement in here is about dating. Will do, but I am sure you didn't add the rest... I am pretty sure there is something about involvement to the meaning this site uses, or as in a hook up word of phrase.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:41 PM


http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mingle

Check it out yourself. From Webster no less...


Didn't you read the site when you joined? And every advertisement in here is about dating. Will do, but I am sure you didn't add the rest... I am pretty sure there is something about involvement to the meaning this site uses, or as in a hook up word of phrase.


Read it, copied and pasted word for word. Mingle has absolutely no relation to dating whatsoever, and this site is just a friend site. The ads are not controlled by the administrators, they are controlled by a 3rd party site (more than likely google).

no photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:42 PM
It IS intended to be a dating site....no matter that it is a great social networking type place as well. Otherwise, why would this be all over the front page?

"We know online dating can be frustrating, so we built our site with one goal in mind: Make online dating free, easy, and fun for everyone.

Finding a date with Mingle2 has never been simpler. Our singles community is massive, and you're only a couple of clicks away from finding a date. "

That said.......trust is hard for many of us. You can get burned here just as well as in real life, no matter how good of a person you thought you were talking with. Good luck to you too and welcome to mingle!

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:47 PM

It IS intended to be a dating site....no matter that it is a great social networking type place as well. Otherwise, why would this be all over the front page?

"We know online dating can be frustrating, so we built our site with one goal in mind: Make online dating free, easy, and fun for everyone.

Finding a date with Mingle2 has never been simpler. Our singles community is massive, and you're only a couple of clicks away from finding a date. "

That said.......trust is hard for many of us. You can get burned here just as well as in real life, no matter how good of a person you thought you were talking with. Good luck to you too and welcome to mingle!


Thx, you got that off the page b4 I could lol. You chill busted him, and when someone is chill busted, it means they were proven wrong XD I like this site so far. Thx for the warm welcoming :)

no photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:50 PM
Eh, wasn't trying to bust anyone....I appreciate Fear...he's a good reg around here. I just happen to disagree when people say it's not intended to be a dating site. Although it's used differently for many of us, it's toted as a free online dating site.

zodiac85's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:51 PM

Eh, wasn't trying to bust anyone....I appreciate Fear...he's a good reg around here. I just happen to disagree when people say it's not intended to be a dating site. Although it's used differently for many of us, it's toted as a free online dating site.


:( I appologize

no photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:53 PM


Eh, wasn't trying to bust anyone....I appreciate Fear...he's a good reg around here. I just happen to disagree when people say it's not intended to be a dating site. Although it's used differently for many of us, it's toted as a free online dating site.


:( I appologize


No need...I hope you find what you are looking for!

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 05/27/09 08:54 PM


It IS intended to be a dating site....no matter that it is a great social networking type place as well. Otherwise, why would this be all over the front page?

"We know online dating can be frustrating, so we built our site with one goal in mind: Make online dating free, easy, and fun for everyone.

Finding a date with Mingle2 has never been simpler. Our singles community is massive, and you're only a couple of clicks away from finding a date. "

That said.......trust is hard for many of us. You can get burned here just as well as in real life, no matter how good of a person you thought you were talking with. Good luck to you too and welcome to mingle!


Thx, you got that off the page b4 I could lol. You chill busted him, and when someone is chill busted, it means they were proven wrong XD I like this site so far. Thx for the warm welcoming :)


Still waiting to be proven wrong on the definition of mingle...

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