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Question, Help???
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Girl you need to get yourself some professional help. Writing your woes on a chat line isn't gonna do it for ya. You need to build up your self worth and those guys you've been hanging around with are only going to make things worse. Get over the addiction to what ever you're on, get some schooling, get a job, get out of the house and make something of yourself. I'll toast to that. |
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What are you wearing?
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I live in dresses when it's warm out, so that's what I'm in now. Red cotton dress with a black camisole under. When I went out earlier I had a black sweater over it and a black hat.
If I'm at home with the kids and not going anywhere, or just going to do something really quick, I'll wear yoga pants and a wife beater usually. If I'm alone at home, I'm just in a bra. I'd go totally naked, but do the bra to prevent saggage lol. Not that you needed/wanted ALL of that info, but whatever. |
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Be HONEST. Would you..?
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Is it really anymore dangerous than meeting someone in life that you do not know? Isn't there just as much a possibility of someone you meet in person being dangerous? For sure. I've met guys at bars who gave me the creeps WAY more than anyone I've met online... I think the chance of them being a dangerous creepster are just the same as someone online. |
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Burger King Breakfast
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the only person i've ever met who eats that stuff is my mother in law and she's the size of a house end. I remember the 1st time she visited us she actually brought a McD's and Dave said mum he won't eat that - ur fokkin right i wont mrs  Correction: She's the only one you've met who ADMITS to eating it. I think the only people I know who DON'T eat it are my friends who body build competitively. |
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Too Picky....Or Wrong Venue?
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I'm not sure why you would think you can't meet someone online who meets your standards/preferences/ideals. Unless one of those is that the person doesn't use the internet at all. I guess it's because I've only met one person who really DID fit the standards. I've met some who PRETENDED to, until I got to know them better, and then they would come out with something along the lines of "I know I said I wasn't interested in this stuff, but don't you think we should settle down and get married and have a family....?" That sort of thing. Basically, it goes from her saying "I love everything about you" to saying "Now I have to CHANGE everything about you," in 90 days or less. Guaranteed. A lot of the same people you'd meet out in the real world do use the internet and dating sites. A lot of "normal" people use them. Well, I have no issues with people using dating sites -- I guess my issue is more with the "normal" concept. I really really really really DON'T want someone "normal." "Normal" doesn't work for me. "Normal" is all about being "domesticated," being turned into a farm animal wearing a collar and a bell and having to give up anything resembling independent thought or individual or "non-normal" thought processes or attitudes or beliefs.... I don't think there's anything wrong in using a website like this, or like Match or Yahoo Personals or something. I don't either; I just think I'm going to have a hard time finding anyone of the intellectual/creative/outside-the-box persuasion on one. I just personally wouldn't suggest relying *only* on dating websites to find that special someone. Agreed. My problem is that I'm currently in a position where there don't seem to be any viable alternatives. I guess my thought, though, is ANYONE can be like that. You could meet a girl at the grocery store with the act mentioned, and when talking/dating initially they could be all a certain way. Saying what you want to hear, but once you become more involved, that could change COMPLETELY. |
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I really don't drink soda, but if I AM then it's going to be for caffeine, so I go for Mountain Dew. I don't like the taste of colas... Only lemon-limes.
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Edited by
luc05kay06
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Thu 05/28/09 09:39 AM
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IDK why it's saying that...
NVM. Fixed. And here are some from my camera that I already had in my PB  
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Edited by
luc05kay06
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Thu 05/28/09 09:38 AM
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I'm too lazy to take the time to use my actual camera, so phone pictures will have to do
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Burger King Breakfast
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I really only get breakfast burritos at places. So far, I think Jack in the Box has the best. Though Carl's Jr had one for a short while with gravy in it that was awesome.
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Be HONEST. Would you..?
Edited by
luc05kay06
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Thu 05/28/09 09:13 AM
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I've met many people.
I'd like to think that I'm a pretty good judge of character, and with the number of people I've met I've never had a problem. I won't share the number with you, but it's up there with Mr_Music. In some cases, I've ended up in a relationship with the person. Some just casual dating. Some just friends. And some nothing at all. Both of my ex husbands, actually, I met online. I know - two ex husbands at my age? One was stupid. I was 18 and I'd be lying if I said I actually loved him at all. But I did it. Second was very much real and important and everything it should be. Even now that we're no longer together, he's still one of my very best friends. I'm rambling now, but my point is yes I have and yes I would. |
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pertussis
Edited by
luc05kay06
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Thu 05/28/09 08:45 AM
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I've never had it, but my children have been vaccinated for it and I was last year. I remember one spring, about 2 years ago, our family doctor told me that 13 babies had died from it already since that January.
I'm very pro-vaccine. My oldest (3.5 years) had bacterial meningitis when he was 6 months old and is now profoundly disabled. He was going to receive the vaccine, but hadn't yet. |
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Too Picky....Or Wrong Venue?
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Well we all like what we like We all want what we want I like to look all over for it. Online, offline, under the bed etc It has to be there somewhere right!  Samesies. Though I don't look under the bed... I prefer my men *not* wearing dust bunnies. Instead, I like to look in the bushes outside. Ya never know who might be lurking ;) |
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Too Picky....Or Wrong Venue?
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I'm not sure why you would think you can't meet someone online who meets your standards/preferences/ideals. Unless one of those is that the person doesn't use the internet at all.
A lot of the same people you'd meet out in the real world do use the internet and dating sites. A lot of "normal" people use them. I don't think there's anything wrong in using a website like this, or like Match or Yahoo Personals or something. I just personally wouldn't suggest relying *only* on dating websites to find that special someone. |
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I dunno either, what is sticky icky? Pot |
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Question, Help???
Edited by
luc05kay06
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Tue 05/26/09 03:44 PM
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Plus there is the money issue of how much therapy costs. I do not work and my parents pay for everything (I'm in school right now). Which implies that your parents are supporting your boyfriend as well since you said he was freeloading? That's not cool. There are counselors available for little to no cost, and you could also get health insurance if you don't have it already. I don't know why I even started this thread. I probably shouldn't have because I should have known I couldn't get out. It's been so long that I've been with him that it's nearly impossible now. You CAN get out, and you did. You just choose not to keep it that way. It's all a choice. Nothing is impossible. Couples with kids who have been married 30 years break up when things just aren't working anymore, for whatever reason. If they can do it, you can do it. You just have to get rid of the negative attitude about it, grow up, and do it. You aren't doing anything beneficial to you OR your boyfriend. The sex is great with him when it's great. When it's bad it's really bad. True it hasn't been bad in quite some time. Good sex is certainly no reason to stay with him. Trust me, you'll find someone else who is just as good or better in the sack. |
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Honestly... I get out my mental little black book and hook up with someone hotter than the ex. How is it making my ex jealous? It's not like I go blabbing to the world (or the ex) about what I did. It makes ME feel better than that's what the question was about. And I truthfully don't care if I'm using someone to get off because I know that's exactly what they're doing to me. |
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ok, i added that crappy cell pic she took to my profile (for a limited time...damn i look bad in it!) as an example.  Very sexy  dancing banana in formal wear for the nice comment. thanks.  slightly embarrassed smiley for how scrawny i look in it. motivation to start hitting the weights again. Honestly, you look really good as is. |
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lol I'm sure they started watching in their teens. Especially with all the free stuff available online.
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I didn't know women could grow hair on their nipples, of course I never really see other women's intimate body parts. Not into porn? |
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ok, i added that crappy cell pic she took to my profile (for a limited time...damn i look bad in it!) as an example. Very sexy |
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