Looking for an entity with a soul

I believe we all have turning points in each of our lives. Sometimes we thought we have well organized our lives, we plan everything and we are too cautious, afraid, , too many inhibitions and careful not to make mistakes then suddenly we realized how empty life is when we live in a box. Too late to realize that we have let many opportunities pass us by, looking back our lives seemed meaningless, too boring, nothing much to share or talk about. In our everyday existence, we learn and we somehow try to make a change , we try new things and deviate from what we used to do normally thinking it would make an impact in our lives.... but life doesn't work that way, our expectations doesn't happen all the time..... disappointments, failures and unexpected things just happen.....and with these, I came to a point to just accept and face whatever life brings to me and lift it all up to God...... just enjoy each moment, live the life you love as long as you are not stepping on anyone's toes . Life is a journey, and in every turns , take a moment to stop and appreciate the beauty of your existence and the experience you may gather...you may stumble and fall, don't give up on life, rise up and go on with your journey with an open mind, open heart and stay hopeful to all the good possibilities of life... find the meaning of life in everything that you do by learning to appreciate every little things, even with the heartaches and pain , just keep smiling and stay happy , don't let negative experiences bring you down but rather make it as your inspiration and strength to go after your dreams. Create your happiness, don't depend on other people to bring it on your plate but be the one to serve a good meal of happiness for everyone

Thinking of how am I going to finish all the French Toasts I made? Aaarrrggghhh .. I'm so full already... why did I make so many? i wish I have Vanilla ice cream for my French toast ... hhhhmmmmm. Yummy

I would say I have dealt with the worst in my life when i fell in love with my ex bf who was a drug addict ( it was his outlet when he has problems) , lost his job ( he was the President of the Labor Union, it was hard for him to find a job after he was fired) and he was temporarily out of his home and got nowhere to go..... we worked it out together and I fought for him against my family, I temporarily provided him a shelter and convinced him to stop taking drugs , we both manage his withdrawal symptoms when he stopped , it was a bit scary he was having chills and hallucinations. We tried to start a small food business together as he doesn't have a job at that time. We helped each other. When you love someone and if worst comes to worst you will be ready to face all the challenges.

I hate lies... I can forgive but can't forget. I give chance but with limitations, don't take advantage of my good nature, I have long patience but I have my limits too, don't wait for the volcano to erupt ; I can't tolerate physical abuse, don't ever lay a single finger on me for I will give you no reason to do that, we have to talk like adults and deal with our problems with diplomacy .

Identity crisis? don't be scared or be ashamed of what you are. Don't worry about what the society would say about you. I have a lesbian sister and she has a gf , we accepted and supported her for what she is. I have a bisexual friend and nobody knows that, she had an affair secretly with another bisexual also. Her family didn't know she is a bi, but she now have a kid:) follow your heart

LOL! I agree with this 100%

I am usually patient with my previous relationship, I stick as long as I know there is love and my better half is willing enough to work out our relationship. But when I feel that my bf is confused with his feeling and is not sure about me, then it's all or nothing......I don't want a half baked relationship , love me completely , when you commit to me do it with all your heart and mind into the relationship, no ifs and buts...... fears and doubts are normal but when I ask you if you really love me or not and you tell me you don't know.......what is that???!!!! Lol! Don't hang me and keep me waiting in vain for you to decide what you want in your life.......if you don't know what you want and not sure of how you feel......then that means you don't love me.....so why would I stay? Find yourself first and know the desires of your heart ......no problem with me, I will immediately give you your freedom I don't want to live in misery thinking if you'll gonna love me tomorrow or not.....make up your mind before you commit to someone.... don't play games with anyone's feelings.

I don't think getting on with a new relationship after a break up is helpful to make you get over the heartache of the previous one. It would be unfair to the new guy. Better heal yourself first before going to a new relationship.

I love to collect happy thoughts and memories from all of my experiences in life ..... I keep cards, letters, little things that were given to me by friends or bf, I love to unearth stuffs I've kept, smile while remembering the person who gave it to me, I put a date and their initials

I am not looking but my heart and mind is always ready to face all the possibilities in life......I love seeing floating hearts and smiles here in the forum which shows people have a happy heart , life is good so live your life with a smile always and be ready to give love all the time

Heartbroken of course, I feel hurt and the pain stays for a longer time but I don't let it affect my happy disposition in life. I don't feel bitter but instead I accept reality that some good things never last and I just lift up everything to God , he knows the desires of my heart... .if things didn't work out it's because it wasn't meant to be..... God has a better plan for me

Yes I believe in marriage. When two people are truly in love and believe it's the right time to settle down then it is appropriate to have the blessing from above to bind your love for each other to eternity .

Feeling exhausted but happy and contented with yesterday's swimming trip and island hopping with officemates and Filipino friends

Thinking of the beach.......we will be going for a swim today

Thinking I haven't got much time with Mingle anymore, I missed the forum......

Still lying in my bed reading the forum......ggggrrrrr so lazy to get up...have to be in the office at 9am and it's 7am now and still have to cook my breakfast...... waaaaaah

Feeling tired and sleepy. Just had my lunch and taking a few minutes rest before going back to work again..... eyes closing while typing ..... ggggrrrr....

The warm welcome I received from all the people at work......nice working environment

Thinking of my first 3 days at work.... orientation, endorsement and now create a marketing plan......ok start the ball rolling.... I miss the forum haven't got much time since I came to work here.

A woman who values her dignity wouldn't accept any gifts or money from a man coz she believes that money can't buy love and it would be an insult for her that you are luring her with all the material things you shower on her. But I guess some men are also opportunists, they give gifts and expect something in return. Oh ok to be fair, both may have their own personal interests, the girl is a gold digger and the man is an oil well driller