Topic: How did you feel when someone you cherished so much breaks y | |
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How did you feel when someone you Cherish so much breaks your heart?
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Heartbroken, not saying there is anything wrong with that. It may not have been meant to be.
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I think there's because someone you cherished so much you always do all possible not to hurt he or her
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Of course but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen in life intentional or unintentionally. Either way if you hurt someone or visa versa you feel horrible. It takes time to get over whether you hurt someone or someone hurt you. It is what it is.
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Ok now i see were you heading to let me ask you this when it comes to relationship how did you feel when your partner breaks your heart? Have you ever encounter that? I mean heartbroken in a relationship???
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Yes I have had my heartbroken. I sucked it up and moved on. I threw myself into work. It got easier to deal with. Even though I felt it inside I was determined not to show it on the outside.
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I think there's because someone you cherished so much you always do all possible not to hurt he or her It takes two to make it. And one or two to break it. I just read your ' About me', it sounds like you are warning people, about your personality . So maybe... you have to take some responsibility for the failure of the relationship & learn from it. Use it to your advantage & start over. Good luck to you. |
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Good you threw your into work and was determined not to show on the outside why because of how you were feeling inside that's just what am talking about
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More because I didn't want anyone to know how I felt on the inside. Of course, I was miserable over it. Honestly, most people are used to me being happy(even when I am not so happy). It's just none of their damn business how I feel.
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How did you feel when someone you Cherish so much breaks your heart? I think I know how you feel. Someone that I've loved for the past 4 years has hurt me several times. Several times I've let it go. Forgave it,forgotten it. But just recently she hurt me pretty deep. She is at a total loss. She doesn't understand why what she did has made me not want to have anything else to do with her. She thinks that just because I love her, I should just let it go again. Not meaning to "thump" the bible here. But the word says to turn the other cheek. But it doesn't say how many times to do it. I've turned the other cheek several times. My face is starting to get sore. So, I guess you can say,as for me, I'm at a point to where I don't care anymore. I've gotten to a place to where I'm not going to let her hurt me or break my heart anymore. No matter how much she cries or begs, I'm done. It's bad when someone you love pushes you to that point. The willingness to forgive has dried up. Now, just leave me be. |
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Thanks
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How did you feel when someone you Cherish so much breaks your heart? I think I know how you feel. Someone that I've loved for the past 4 years has hurt me several times. Several times I've let it go. Forgave it,forgotten it. But just recently she hurt me pretty deep. She is at a total loss. She doesn't understand why what she did has made me not want to have anything else to do with her. She thinks that just because I love her, I should just let it go again. Not meaning to "thump" the bible here. But the word says to turn the other cheek. But it doesn't say how many times to do it. I've turned the other cheek several times. My face is starting to get sore. So, I guess you can say,as for me, I'm at a point to where I don't care anymore. I've gotten to a place to where I'm not going to let her hurt me or break my heart anymore. No matter how much she cries or begs, I'm done. It's bad when someone you love pushes you to that point. The willingness to forgive has dried up. Now, just leave me be. [/quote bro you have really tried it's not easy ontill you went as far as obeying what the Bible said well just put yourself together an move on thou it's not easy but then |
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How did you feel when someone you Cherish so much breaks your heart? Heartbroken of course, I feel hurt and the pain stays for a longer time but I don't let it affect my happy disposition in life. I don't feel bitter but instead I accept reality that some good things never last and I just lift up everything to God , he knows the desires of my heart... .if things didn't work out it's because it wasn't meant to be..... God has a better plan for me |
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To be honest I felt like climbing under a rock and dying, but that not being a option I just took the hit and swallowed the sour taste in my mouth.I found concentrating on the small things I enjoyed in life helped out.
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Haha bro you are funny but what you said is just the truth but i think that anyone that breaks your heart from day one i think he or she has always clime to be a pretender To be honest I felt like climbing under a rock and dying, but that not being a option I just took the hit and swallowed the sour taste in my mouth.I found concentrating on the small things I enjoyed in life helped out. |
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Edited by
dgame22
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Fri 09/09/16 11:44 PM
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Wow i love the way you have expressed how you used to feel when your partner do the ******** well heartbreakers are haters How did you feel when someone you Cherish so much breaks your heart? Heartbroken of course, I feel hurt and the pain stays for a longer time but I don't let it affect my happy disposition in life. I don't feel bitter but instead I accept reality that some good things never last and I just lift up everything to God , he knows the desires of my heart... .if things didn't work out it's because it wasn't meant to be..... God has a better plan for me |
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Heartbroken IN a relationship? Yeah, can happen too. Quite often as well I think, how else would people break up / divorce? When that happens, someone's heart is broken or will get broken. Unless both have simply stopped loving each other and break up because of that.
If it happens, best to do is to figure out why it happened, see if the relationship is beyond saving or not, and ask yourself if it is worth saving it. If yes, then talk, communicate. If not, move on. Leave the relationship. |
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[quote crystafairy you are right but at times it's not easy to communicate and move on so easily because of the pains you know
Heartbroken IN a relationship? Yeah, can happen too. Quite often as well I think, how else would people break up / divorce? When that happens, someone's heart is broken or will get broken. Unless both have simply stopped loving each other and break up because of that. If it happens, best to do is to figure out why it happened, see if the relationship is beyond saving or not, and ask yourself if it is worth saving it. If yes, then talk, communicate. If not, move on. Leave the relationship. |
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Klc yeah that's true but can i ask you a question? Grateful to know they were the wrong one. Time to move on. And 'turn the other cheek' doesnt mean continue to date them. Just means dont seek revenge. right? |
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love hurts ... its a song ...its a saying ... and its true... know getting around it ... until your body and your mind decides to let go of the hurt and move on ...everyone is different and time lines are different also... for moving on ...
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