You have NOT answered my question Gary. I am waiting.

hehehehe!! the day was going pretty good until i got fired. ROTFLMAO!! girl! try manpower or kellygirl. I worked for both companies and scored some awesome jobs in the past!! Plus, if you DONT like the job or employer you CAN be reassigned!!

waving to kojack!! hey shugar! I have been looking for a really good sauce and YOU just made my YEAR!!! thank you babydoll!!!!

Scorpius ROTFLMAO!! TOO TRUE!! did they finally make parole for woman beatings, and gun charges too?!

I am trying to figure out HOW in the hell this question was started YESTERDAY by knoxman at a different community here and NOW it has YOUR handle attached to it??? Can YOU explain this to me???????

OH! and for sure
GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!

Living here in the deep south WHY IS IT that if a man of african decent calls his BROTHER of african decent "nigger" and they just ROTFLMAO making BIG SPORT out of it.
BUT if a "honkie" as YOU have just LABELED ME and any other CAUCASIAN HUMAN BEING calls an african american a "nigger" we are then LABELED a RACIST?? Perhaps since you KNOW ALL Gary you CAN explain this ONE SIDED COIN TO ME?????
I wont be sitting here teetering on my chair ANTICIPATING an answer whilst my pretty lil AZZ gets numb with that delusional infinate ASSumption of yours on HATE CRIMES. But i DO want to know WHY "nigger" is OK to blacks but if your WHITE I am a racist for saying it?????????

did you let mike or van know this??

OK, you wanted advice. I will try and give you the best bigsister advice i can. You cared enough about him to have s$x at least i am understanding you to say this...am i right? No one is going to judge you here. Lord have mercy i have made MY mistakes along the way. BUT you really need to contact the dept of corrections and find out the truth on this man and his time spent in the crossbar hotel. You are ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY SURE he is dad? I am again saying I am NOT judging. When i was 18 I dated more than one man so thats why i am asking now. Life is sooooo short lilsister and you are soooo young! It sounds to me like your afraid of him, do NOT trust him and I will say as a bigsis to contact legal aid in your area of utah. Your in a humdinger of a state and i know how the peeps can judge in UTAH!
BUT the workers at legal aid can answer your questions. If it were ME I would go to child support enforcement NOW and fill out the papers. He needs to start being responsible as a PARENT. Running his mouth..blah blah blah is one thing. PROVING it is ANOTHER. I am being very FAIR here cuz some women are just as BAD as any man. I would take the advice from the corrections department after finding out the REAL TRUTH behind his conviction and do some real soul searching. Personally i would NOT let him move into my home, MY LIFE, and possibly cause you sooooo much heartbreak and grief. Life IS too short for this. You are doing fine WITHOUT a MAN in your life right now with your baby girl am i right? As a bigsister let me tell you this...you DONT need a MAN for happiness but YOU DO need and deserve all the happiness life has to offer you and that precious babygirl of yours. If he really IS a good father let him start by getting a J-O-B, paying his child support, take the advice of legal aide on the visitation if his conviction is only for theft but IF IT WAS ME I would be SURE he is stable enough for UNsupervised visits AT THIS TIME as he is just about to be released from prison. It always makes me ROTFLMAO at these men (and women too sometimes) who can magically REappear in your life with BLAH BLAH BLAH we can have a real family!!! Well!!! now aint that all sugah and loverly!! but out here in the REAL WORLD as a SINGLE MOM just like you and ME it aint just PARADISE and HAPPY HAPPY HO HO SNACKS. RESPONSIBILITY and a real and GENUINE parent is INVOLVED in that babies life.
Thats the best BIG sister advice i can give you for now. Let us know how it turns out because truly lilone...we DO care!

cheap sheila. What a tightwad.

KentClark i agree with you darlin. Cheating HURTS people. Its really sad.

LORD NO Belusi!!! Thats the funniest photo i have seen in a good spell!!!!!!

Waving to you TheLonelyWalker!!!
I have had to deal with domestic violence sadly. It is just a joke with that "restraining order" or "order for protection". The PO PO just wont STOP much especially if you dont HAVE lets say BIG MONEY. Now if i lived on the HIGHER SNOOTIER SIDE OF TOWN..they would be on it faster than a good ol suthern BBQ!! BUT if your just a single woman on a single income they wont help. Its just a piece of paper and NO ONE has a guarantee they will actually PROTECT YOU. The ONLY reason these "protection orders" are there? For a paper trail in the event the ABUSER murders YOU. And of course.....just look at the JUICE. Nicole Simpson was about decapatated and still murdered by him.
The one thing that REALLY offends me is seeing innocent men getting hit with restraining orders by VINDICTIVE WOMEN just seeking some sort of REVENGE by hanging a "he hit me" syndrome just to be a big BI$CH. AND sadly some of these worthless BI$CHES also pull the "he's an abuser" to use the wee ones they have together as a weapon against him. I do notice fellas and being FAIR here i know some MEN have been known to do the same to the wife/partner. Either way its made a real JOKE out of something that was SUPPOSED to be set down to HELP women like myself who WERE abused and in my case SERIOUSLY INJURED. I finally had to flee my home state to escape the man who abused me for YEARS and then finally standing up saying NO MORE he stalked me for another FIVE YEARS after the divorce.
Its really tragic with the entire JUDICIAL SYSTEM here in America TLW but in my case i AM a survivor and a much more DYNAMIC woman today! You just cant keep a good woman DOWN.
TWL...give that precious nephew a big hug from BARBIE..hey?!

why wear one if they bother you so????
God amighty! what does a bra have to do with current events?!

This article written By Thomas D. Williams from http://www.truthout.org
I got this page in my e-mail box on netzero and wanted to share with my fellow colleagues and see what your reactions or opinions might be on this topic




"The most shocking fact about war is that its victims and its instruments are individual human beings, and that these individual beings are condemned by the monstrous conventions of politics to murder or be murdered in quarrels not their own." - Aldous Huxley, English Writer
Ever since the Persian Gulf War 15 years ago, countless spokespersons for the US Department of Defense and the US Department of Veterans Affairs have insisted they are intent upon giving hundreds of thousands of soldiers, veterans and war veterans the best medical care available.

Meanwhile, scores of US, United Nations and foreign politicians and military officials have constantly expressed immense concern for potentially millions of innocent civilian victims of the wars in Bosnia, Iraq and Afghanistan. Yet, relatively little has been done worldwide to track their deaths, console family survivors or obtain health care for the wounded, maimed and sick. The combined ill and the dead from those four wars are estimated in the millions with no exacting figures available. Knowledge about sicknesses caused by the war in Bosnia-Serbia is scarce.

And, what makes US and allied officials far more culpable is this. The environmental hazards foreign civilians and US and allied service members have been exposed to and sickened by are largely generated by US and allied bombings, munitions and even medicines aimed at protecting service members. They include: radioactive dust from depleted uranium munitions, deadly chemical warfare gases released by US bombings of Iraqi bunkers, oil well fires during the first Gulf War, pollution of European and Middle Eastern foreign air and water supplies from wartime explosions and fires, pesticides, fumes from specialized military vehicle paint, and disease carrying insects.

The Pentagon's and the British military's mandatory use of the controversial anthrax vaccine and other experimental drugs, including US use of pyridostigmine bromide pills to protect against gas attacks, on troops have resulted in thousands of adverse reactions, many serious ones, some even listed on drug labels as possible but not provable fatal reactions.

The air and water hazards have had untold deadly impacts on innocent civilians in both Europe and the Middle East for more than the past decade.

Here is but one lone example of the lack of emphasis on care for wounded or sick wartime civilians: "A survey of Medline (a database of medical and health-related research articles) for articles on the Gulf War revealed 368 articles that covered the health-related issues. Only 4 out of these 368 articles were on how the 1991 Gulf War affected the health of Iraqi people."

Yet, the International Red Cross reports these realities: "[Iraqi] Medical-legal facilities are struggling to cope with the rising influx of bodies, contending with insufficient capacity to store them properly or to systematically gather data on unidentified bodies in order to allow families to be informed of a relative's death. In 2006, an estimated 100 civilians were killed every day. Half of them remained unclaimed or unidentified. Thousands of unidentified bodies have thus been buried in designated cemeteries in Iraq. Meanwhile tens of thousands are being held in the custody of the Iraqi authorities and the multinational forces in Iraq. At the same time, tens of thousands of families remain without news of relatives who went missing during past and recent conflicts."

The US State Department only restarted one highly successful cooperative US-Iraqi medical program, US doctor video conferencing with hospitals Iraq-wide earlier this year, after news stories revealed it had been ended many months earlier.

"It is hard not to conclude that, for all our advocacy on behalf of civilians in need for protection and for all the resources that are devoted to all aspects of protection, [...] we are still failing to make a real and timely difference for the victims on the ground, countless thousands of whom had been killed, injured, ignored or treated as less than human," said John Holmes, the United Nation's Emergency Relief Coordinator and under secretary general for humanitarian affairs in June 2007 about the worldwide state of inaction for wartime victims.

Today, after two wars in Iraq, one in Bosnia and another in Afghanistan, involving hundreds of thousands of US troops, neither the Pentagon nor the VA, by their own admissions, are close to giving thousands of soldiers and veterans even adequate health care for potentially deadly illnesses.

Here is one startling affirmation from Kenneth H. Bacon, former assistant secretary of defense for public affairs in October 1997, regarding thousands of service members sick from hazardous exposures during the first Gulf War six years earlier. "No," he said, "we cannot say that we have yet a clear understanding of what caused what's called Gulf War Illnesses. And I might point out that if you've read the interim report by the Presidential Advisory Committee, they have not been able to come up with a clear view of that either. They thought that many of these might be stress related. But they also pointed out that there were a number of other factors ranging from the possibility of low-level chemical exposure to exposure to depleted uranium to exposure to pesticides to oil, fire, smoke, etc. And some of the medicines that soldiers took when they were in the Gulf."

And almost ten years later, in a June 2007 report to Congress, the US General Accountability Office gave this critical assessment about health care for service members and veterans involved in all of the recent wars. "Overseas deployments expose service members to a number of potential risks to their health and well-being. However, since the mid-1990s, GAO has highlighted shortcomings with respect to the Department of Defense's (DOD) ability to assess the medical condition of service members both before and after their deployments... GAO is recommending that DOD develop a comprehensive oversight framework with reporting requirements and results-oriented performance measures to improve the implementation of its deployment health quality assurance program. In reviewing a draft of this report, DOD concurred with GAO's recommendations."

Scores of department of veteran's affairs inadequacies in handling health care for war and other veterans can be found on its inspector general's website at http://www.va.gov/oig/publications/reports-list.asp. And most recently in 2007, "the GAO reported The Iraq War is literally a continuing nightmare for over 9,000 of the Operation Enduring Freedom and OIF (Operation Iraqi Freedom) veterans at risk for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and their families..."

"A government study published in May 2006 clearly presents the inadequacies of the system in three vital areas: 1) adequately screening OEF/OIF veterans for PTSD, 2) providing effective medical care referrals after screening, and 3) assessing and planning for the increased demands on the VA medical care delivery system for the significant and increasing numbers of veterans who need specialized mental health care for PTSD,"says the GAO.

Meanwhile, hundreds of thousands of veterans and soldiers fester inside and outside of military and VA medical facilities or make due with medical care elsewhere without needed drugs, doctors or rehabilitation. The scandals of after care for sick and wounded service members at the Walter Reed Army Hospital in Washington, DC, unearthed by the Washington Post is but one of many examples. That story was not as startling as it seemed to some, because at least three newspapers, The Hartford Courant, The Birmingham News and USA Today had been regularly covering the health care crisis in the military for over a decade. Scores of other news outlets had ignored it.

A January 2007 Harvard University Kennedy School of Government study says in part: "the Veterans Health Administration (VHA) is already overwhelmed by the volume of returning veterans and the seriousness of their health care needs, and it will not be able to provide a high quality of care in a timely fashion to the large wave of returning war veterans without greater funding and increased capacity in areas such as psychiatric care." It continues: "the budgetary costs of providing disability compensation benefits and medical care to the veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan over the course of their lives will be from $350 - $700 Billion."

Recent Veterans for Common Sense fact sheets on returning Afghan and Iraq war veterans' needs say 40,000 veterans are still awaiting answers to their claims and the average wait time for answers to veterans claims is six months.

Even this inadequate overall care for US service members, is more than the health care given to Iraqis, Afghans and the innocent victims of the war in Bosnia and Serbia. Howard Zinn is a historian, playwright and social activist. His website, http://howardzinn.org, describes him as a former shipyard worker and Air Force bombardier before he went to college under the GI Bill and received his Ph.D. from Columbia University. Here is his take on war as quoted in Questionwar.com: "As wars have developed in the twentieth century, the ratio of civilian deaths to military deaths has changed radically. One hundred years ago 5% of war casualties were civilians. In World War I civilian deaths were about 10%. In World War II, 65%. Tactics of modern wars have shifted casualties to 90% civilians."

He continues: "More than half of these civilian casualties are children less than 14 years of age. This is only the direct casualties from bombs, bullets and landmines. Add to this indirect and long-term casualties caused by destroyed infrastructure and a fractured society, resulting in disease, starvation, homelessness, and the numbers become even grimmer. On top of this, add the long-term effects of highly toxic armaments rained down upon the victim country - Agent Orange in Vietnam, Depleted Uranium in Yugoslavia, Iraq and Afghanistan - and the result is generations of suffering borne by civilians, mostly children."


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SIDEBAR

Although US news media regularly reports on the deaths and woundings of US soldiers, it seldom inquires into the long-term illnesses of those wartime veterans or into the deaths, woundings and sicknesses of Iraqi, Afghan and Bosnia-Serbia civilians during wartime.

One estimate sets Iraqi civilian deaths in the 1991 Persian Gulf War at 100,000, while deaths from this current war are said by one source to total between 71,000 and 77,000. "Untold hundreds of thousands [of] civilians from both wars [in Iraq] are sick from hazardous exposures. The size of civilian casualties is as yet unclear. The Pentagon has refused to count Iraqi civilian casualties, and organizations trying to assess the number of Iraqi dead have said that the number may be unknowable. The Red Cross has stopped counting the wounded because the casualties were too high. Rep. Chris Shays, the first Congressman to go to Iraq, has said that humanitarian aid isn't reaching Iraqis quickly enough ... Before the war, the UN estimated that up to 500,000 Iraqis could suffer serious injuries, and estimated that 10 million Iraqi civilians, including more than 2 million homeless, would be in need of immediate assistance for food and medicine."

This Internet source supplies these death and casualty figures from various sources: http://www.unknownnews.net/casualties.html. However, there is no way to know the accuracy of its figures. That site says at least 832,962 people have been killed, and 1,590,895 seriously injured in Afghanistan and Iraq. Its breakdowns include these figures:

In Afghanistan

8,587 Afghan troops killed
25,761 seriously injured - July 2004

3,485 Afghan civilians killed
6,273 seriously injured - July 2004

342 US troops killed
1,026 seriously injured - January 2007

278 other coalition troops killed
834 seriously injured - June 2007

? US and coalition civilians killed
? seriously injured

In Iraq

30,000 Iraqi troops killed
90,000 seriously injured - August 2003

785,957 Iraqi civilians killed
1,414,723 seriously injured - June 2007

3,615 US troops killed
50,677 seriously injured - June 2007

287 other coalition troops killed
861 seriously injured - June 2007

160 US civilians killed
288 seriously injured - June 2007

251 other coalition civilians killed
452 seriously injured - June 2007

The number of people killed in the war in Bosnia-Herzegovina was around 102,000, according to research done by the International Criminal Tribunal for the former Yugoslavia (ICTY). Source: Kjell Arild Nilsen, NTB (Norwegian News Agency) www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1291965/posts and http://grayfalcon.blogspot.com/2004/11/bosnia-death-toll-revealed.html.

Estimates of illnesses during the war in Bosnia and afterward are difficult to uncover on the Internet or in the news generated by US television, radio and newspapers.



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Thomas "Dennie" Williams is a former state and federal court reporter, specializing in investigations, for the Hartford Courant. Since the 1970s, he has written extensively about irregularities in the Connecticut Superior Court, Probate Court systems for disciplining both judges and lawyers for misconduct and the failures of the Pentagon and the VA to assist sick veterans returning from war. He can be reached at denniew@optonline.net.



well! now just in case anyone MISSED this propaganda...i copied and pasted it for ya!! ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!

i agree boatermatt I wonder why gary continues to throw up bogus profiles and really does nothing better than to copy and paste from whacko websites.

HOLY ****!! I just saw unsures comments. He is a convicted RAPIST? THAT was what he had planned for "taking care of YOU and your GIRLS". CALL DSS AND PUT A STOP TO THIS...NOW!!!

a 17 yr old is 'going to take care of your family"?? Why cant you do this? I am NOT bashing or being mean spirited girl. Just seeing a very DECENT MOTHER who is about to be used, ripped off, your daughters very well COULD be molested or raped OR WORSE right along with mama. How in the hell can he TAKE CARE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY while in a DRUG/ALCOHOL HALFWAY HOUSE? Would this mean dealing dope out your front door? exposing your girls to real SCUMBAGS and your home looking like a blue light special at WALMART. Enter right stage comes the PO PO or NARCOTICS COPS costing YOU not only your children, your home, and YOUR FREEDOM. Can i get any more REAL about this? NO. WHY is he in a DRUG REHAB HALFWAY HOUSE? most likely ON PAROLE FOR DRUG OFFENSES even though he is a MINOR. WILL he change? NO. He is LYING AND DECEIVING YOU because your nieve to this. Sadly i am NOT. My advice? contact the house supervisor and get the REAL TRUTH. Present it to your daughter and do NOT let her have any further contact with this druggie who apparently does NOT have an "ex" but most likely a WIFE/GIRLFRIEND/PSYCHOCHICK ON DRUGS. This man is NOT being honest. NOT working his 12 step program, and will NOT bring any happiness to YOU OR YOUR FAMILY. This is of course my honest OPINION and some very SOLID ADVICE TO YOU!

pity this woman and now dead hubby did not live in tennessee. A woman murdered her preacher husband and her alibi was he was making her dress up like a hooker and play the role in the bedroom. It just made her MAD! MAD! MAD!! She got FIFTY SEVEN DAYS IN JAIL for MURDER ONE.

or fanta...why dont they start taxing the ALCOHOL??? Things that make ya go hmmmmmmmm?????