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I'm not being crazy we didn't fight I was just asking for some advice. I haven't even asked yet.
thank you |
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I don't want her to drop out I want her to take A small bit of time away from college just so she can pull her self together.
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Yes, it's wrong. Let her get her education. If she needs a break, she will take one. You are there to support her. Support her. She's doing this for her parents, so you say, and you ask her to stop? So in sum, you are asking her to choose you over her parents? That's manipulative. wrong all I said was if she wanted to do college she needs to do it for her self...you should never do something you don't love cause you always end up not liking what you went through to get where you're at. |
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pain..
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The pain I feel deep inside
when you hurt. The pain I feel it just seems to be the worse . Sometimes it rips me apart. grabs my chest and rips out my heart. nothing I can do to stop the pain the moment I'm with out you I feel left in the rain I watch as it poors down. I wait and wait but it seems for ever before I see you around. Maybe it's the drops of blood the ones I cried. maybe it's the love that people say has died. but I don't think so the love I have is to strong. and love don't matter if you're gone. The pain I feel deep inside makes me hope you never say goodbye. artman33 4/30/2009 |
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I really see college eating at her and I had asked her to take a brake
but she gets upset when I tell her this she said's my parents would think this and I tell her she shouldn't go for her parents she should go to college for her self I don't know how can I handdle this? She can always go back right? and am I right or wrong for asking this? |
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Topic:
some Quotes I try to live by
Edited by
artman33
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Mon 04/20/09 11:04 AM
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"It is better to be hated for what you are then to be loved for what your not" You will never achieve what you never begin... Before you talk about what you want - appreciate what you have. Thank you for the quotes today. 
You're truely welcome. |
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some Quotes I try to live by
Edited by
artman33
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Mon 04/20/09 10:55 AM
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You see, in life, lots of people know what to do,
but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action. |
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promise.
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aww this is so sweet . thank you |
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What can they do?
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I don't understand why her SSI check is under her mom's name. Is your wife under 18 yrs. old? How can that break you two up? she is 19 and I'm 21 but she keeps this whole worry about how they could say she can't make up her own mind and take car eof her self I dunno. Your profile says you are 24?? I may have hit the wrong thing |
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Topic:
some Quotes I try to live by
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"It is better to be hated for what you are
then to be loved for what your not" You will never achieve what you never begin... Before you talk about what you want - appreciate what you have. |
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What can they do?
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Her mother doesn't have a say in it after you two go up and change you as her new payee Ok thanks I'm just tryig to make my wife feel a bit better. |
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promise.
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I'm sure your wife will like it. thank you :) |
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What can they do?
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the best thing to do is to have your wife call the ssi office they can answer any questions you both have Yeah, thanks we will do that |
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What can they do?
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 just sucker-punch the old bag be seeing you
I agree but I love my wife and I promised her I wouldn't. |
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What can they do?
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What if her mom don't want to chaange the check over to my name?
Does she even have to be thier to do it are can sshe call or what? |
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What can they do?
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I don't understand why her SSI check is under her mom's name. Is your wife under 18 yrs. old? How can that break you two up? she is 19 and I'm 21 but she keeps this whole worry about how they could say she can't make up her own mind and take car eof her self I dunno. |
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promise.
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I know it's hard but you can trust when I promise you.
If you asked far a star then that star is yours. If you wanted me to die for you I would. and I know that sometimes a promise can brake. Girl you know they never should.but I have yet to let you down. before you say goodbye or brake just help pick your heart of the ground. and just love me for gods sake. don't put me down. cause I love you even if life would stop I would be thier over the top... of you I would pray and thank my lucky star and feel blessed couse babe I love you for all that you are. |
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What can they do?
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My wifes parents are the reason all this keeps coming up.
my wife and I got ready for college this morning and my wifes mom just comes un-done on us and we didn't even know what about. she was saying we don't care and this and that you know I guess. Now the real issue is. My wife is on a SSI check and it's in her moms name we have been married for 4 months. and my wife is afraid in someway she can use that. and split us apart. What should I do about this? What can I do? Can she do anything at all? thanks |
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My wife and I. part 2.
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We had gotten everything back on track I would like to say thing to the ones who really helped. They know who they are.
Thank you. I never wanted her to get out of college I just wanted her to take a brake cause I her starting to brake over other things and she needs to take a breather for a bit. I love her and we fixed a lot of problems and here we are. |
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My wife and I....
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Hey there Artman, This may be coming a little late. Hopefully everything has blown over and she is no longer upset by the question(s). I read some of the outrageous replys. I recently left my job because my other half asked me to. My abitions and dreams have yet again been put on hold. I know that a lot of women would disagree with my decision to allow my husband to put a temporary stop to the matter. (Me working...) But there was a bigger picture. The thought I had when I read your request for advice was may be she has different views, perspectives. May be there were circumstances, worries she had and asked you to quit. There is a possibility that she will not see the relevance. She sees her studies as a safe way to a safe career as where your wrestling involved physical contact and literally putting yourself in harms way. Explain to her that your dreams meant a lot and you gave them up for her. I am sure that if the circumstances of the question were different she would have said yes to you. My advice to you is to let it go. If she is as nice as you say and if the question was made because you were terminally ill and needed her home 24/7 you wouldn't even have to ask. Much love, Bea.
Hey, Thank you so much I had taken you advice and it really worked out for me and now she understands what I was saying about the hole thing. alot of people just agreed I was wrong insteed of wanting to here the whole story |
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