Miss Rains. i pray for you. you are a big part of my life. your advice helped find a nice lady here in Wichita KS. and i cry thinking that you are hurt. so i extend extra long arms to hug you. XXXXXX.

IMHO. love has two components. 1. the type of love. like the new testament says 3 types. every one knows these. 2. the component of volume. I.E. if you are going to drive 5 miles and put 1 gal in the fuel tank. OR if you are going to drive 5 miles and you put 500 gal in the tank. so is your love for your loved one 2 gal or 500 gal? the love Christ had for you cant be measured.

iam 66. and have a number of ladys in my life that are are under 40. and 5 over 50. and we all know they are not and will not be my girl friends. and this is fine with me. i find it easy to be friends with nice ladys. but i have just meet one my age that i have taken out that might become a girl friend. but i am not going to push it. she is so nice if we are just friends thats fine to. if it becomes more thats fine to. there seams to be a lot of nice ladys. i think what makes this work is i just be myself.

iam going to add trust , honesty.

leave it to Miss Rains to use shoes as an analogie. but thats ok. i would use cars. you cant say what car you want till you see it. and thats ok.

i would make sure that the fire had lots of gasoline. cause i have to much stuff. and then i would stop the the fire fighters from putting the fire out.

i took off the age and distance limits on my profile. i guess i do things then forget. then forget then forget then forget.

you have just been talking to some of the finest ladys that there are. open your eyes.

no mater who you are.. YOU dont decide if you are hot. me thinks thou thinkest to much of thi self. cause i KNOW iam not hot.

untill yesterday i thought it was my beard. BUT i had it trimmed. so now i have to say its that i know how to respect a lady.

hold on iam going to more honest than you thought. at 66 i would like a girl of 45 to 50 partly for my ego. yes ill admit it. so there. but a girl my age would be great to.

just my idea. if God didnt want woman to "preach or teach" then why did God make them mothers? and raise children?

today is sept 19. i just read all or your posts for the second time. and its like my family grew 100 fold. because all your care and love. to have people so far away that can give me so much caring love it is hard to say what i mean. some day in heaven God will will have something very social for you. and i will try to be hear for you when needed.

when a girl puts a top age limit of 60 and im 66 i think she is missing out on something. cause i KNOW the younger guys cant compare there romance to mine. my extra age has more benefits than you know.

my dad served in ww2. i was in the army 6 years. for me if an immigrant comes to MY country legally AND tryes to learn what we call English. they get 50 points of respect from me. then if they support them selves and dont free load they get an other 50 points of respect from me. and i welcome them as an American.

there is NO NO NO way that is a good idea. trust me i have heard to many people tell me about the out come of such things.

ok i am going to jump here. in 2 hours iam going to get my beard trimmed. hope to have pics posted later today. so mss rains please check it out. your opinion is needed.

like i have said iam 66. and last year my son killed him self. and then taking care of my mom. i have become much more emotional. when i found the very old gold glasses my dad had when he was 16. i cried for an hour. but i didnt have any one to share this with. but my friend Donna says for man a little of that is ok. but not to much. i think i understand. part of me being more emotional is at my age iam starting to see my ending coming at me. but that is good as iam dealing with this idea head on.

race cars are a lot of fun. i have had some. but it will NOT rub your back at 1:00 am.

iam 66. and was divorced in 2007. last year i got into a very unusual relationship. she was 49. i hired her to take care of my mom. living in the same house as my mom and i. and she made it clear that she was NOT going to be my girl friend. in any way. and that was fine with me. but we got close ONLY as best friends. and some times she would hug me. and ONLY short hugs. i finely had to tell her that for me the hugs was better than sex. and i was happy with that. but she stopped taking care of my mom. and i had to fire her. but i still miss her.