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Thu 04/09/15 10:27 AM

I'd be inclined to say so when I do love him, but ... it can be awkward. What if he/she doesn't feel the same? Or doesn't know yet? Saying "I love you" can be too soon. And you can still say it without expecting anything in return, but there is always a chance you scare someone off.

So knowing you love him/her is one thing, but then how, when, where do you actually say it? You just blurt it out? Or plan it, like for instance after a romantic dinner, or after sex or ...??

And also: CAN you even say it without expecting him/her to say "I love you too!"?
I've been there. So I know I can. But it's still bloody nice if the other feels the same way!


Yes, timing is everything. If you don't feel that the love is mutual, then I guess I would try to wait till I felt my love would be reciprocated. It is hard for me to do, but many do fear people who fall in love quickly, but then, what is too quickly. I pretty much know if I can love someone within a month if I know enough about them. But in all honesty, there is that time when love grabs you and I usually say what's on my heart the moment I feel it and when I know it's real. That can be good or bad, but at least it's out there to be either received or refused.

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Wed 04/08/15 08:18 PM



awww, now don't be sad. You can't deal with me. :wink:



laugh she says


She Says I Love You

flowerforyou


Oh damn don't say thatblushing

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Wed 04/08/15 07:55 PM

awww, now don't be sad. You can't deal with me. :wink:



laugh she says

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Wed 04/08/15 07:49 PM

What? More than anyone will ever know here. I bleed too. :tongue:


brokenheart

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Wed 04/08/15 07:41 PM

My dog thinks she's human. I tell her I love her.


I think if I were to fall in love again, I would make sure not to let that person walk out the door every day without hearing how much I mean it, when I say, "I love you." :heart:




Well after all she's is humane

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Wed 04/08/15 07:38 PM


Love and hate are both powerful words, when the user means
it, from the heart. I use them seldom, because when I say it
I absolutely mean it.

I think for me I choose very carefully who I love in a intimate way. That love doesn't go away for me that is lifelong. I still care about people that have come and left my life. When I say those words to a lover then I mean them and all that entails in them. When I say I love ya to a friend that is just that love ya. Huge differences in degrees of love IMO

Hate meh... I don't waste my time...


Touche'

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Wed 04/08/15 07:28 PM
Edited by needsum12luv on Wed 04/08/15 07:30 PM



I am woman enough to allow you to share me.


I ain't gonna share no woman........not with ponch

Timeshare...economic and convenient.think :thumbsup: :laughing:


I'll go with that
in fact, I'll just go 30%, think anymore would require EMT standby

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Wed 04/08/15 07:10 PM
I'm new here but........been here done this..........you guys are funny

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Wed 04/08/15 07:06 PM

I am woman enough to allow you to share me.


I ain't gonna share no woman........not with ponch

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Wed 04/08/15 07:04 PM


Pancho, say you love me, baby.

You love me, baby.
tongue2


good answer ponch good answer

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Wed 04/08/15 06:55 PM
Edited by needsum12luv on Wed 04/08/15 07:03 PM
It doesn't matter what goes on in the world today, Love is still Love. and love that is genuine will last as long as it is nurtured and cared for by both in the relationship. I would never leave the house or end a phone call or say goodbye to my significant other without saying it, it may be my last time, you never know

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Wed 04/08/15 06:39 PM
Edited by needsum12luv on Wed 04/08/15 06:48 PM

I will say it when I feel it, plain and simple. smile2


yes us ones with the fool hearts

"then I went and spoiled it all by saying something stupid like 'I love you'"

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Wed 04/08/15 05:55 PM
they do for a brief time. How long you can endure depends on how you are able to build your relationship strong enough to withstand the absence of your partner. I was in a relationship that for the most part it was good, but then a time came some 7 mo. into the relationship where we would not see each other for 5 mo. We both saw the difficulty in that and we would not have survived so we were wise to agree to end the relationship. If you can't continue to build and feel confident in a relationship, it will die.

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