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Topic: Do long distance rship works?
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Mon 04/06/15 11:28 PM
When starting a distance rship.... Its fun at first and your trying to know that person but do you stay faithful to that person? Or do you move on? They say love doesnt have any distance is that true or not?....

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Mon 04/06/15 11:41 PM

When starting a distance rship.... Its fun at first and your trying to know that person but do you stay faithful to that person? Or do you move on? They say love doesnt have any distance is that true or not?....

If that person interested me enough to get involved then I am committed period. Distance is just something to over come.

STUNKY's photo
Wed 04/08/15 03:46 PM
I,m not sure if distance relation is ok especially if there no chance that you will meet anytime soon one is bound to be unfaithful....

mikey5360's photo
Wed 04/08/15 04:04 PM

When starting a distance rship.... Its fun at first and your trying to know that person but do you stay faithful to that person? Or do you move on? They say love doesnt have any distance is that true or not?....
If you are falling in love you being faithful is easy....if not move on...
Distance can be overcome, but visits are essential you must have real, physical contact to know for sure...
one of you will be moving once the waiting is over....preferably both of you would be able to move...

philuch's photo
Wed 04/08/15 04:21 PM
Sexaul attarction, age, money and finally proximity are the big factors in the beginning of relation ,and distance is the least important for many...

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Wed 04/08/15 04:28 PM

When starting a distance rship.... Its fun at first and your trying to know that person but do you stay faithful to that person? Or do you move on? They say love doesnt have any distance is that true or not?....


I have never seen it work. I wouldn't even consider it.
I need contact & interaction & sharing everyday experiences in life.
Words can't beat that. noway

theseacoast's photo
Wed 04/08/15 05:27 PM
Why wouldn�t it work? I have examples from my family, my friends... If there is love and commitment it can be overcome. But if there isn�t than not even everyday seeing each other won�t make a difference. It�s just about people, what they are willing to challenge to be together.

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Wed 04/08/15 05:37 PM

Why wouldn�t it work? I have examples from my family, my friends... If there is love and commitment it can be overcome. But if there isn�t than not even everyday seeing each other won�t make a difference. It�s just about people, what they are willing to challenge to be together.


If long distance relationships worked I would have an awesome Filipino girlfriend. I tried to have long distance friendships and it never worked personally. I guess it matters to the parties involved.

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Wed 04/08/15 05:50 PM
laugh Like I have already said..
I have never seen it work. And I would never do it & why..
To each his own . Good Luck.

needsum12luv's photo
Wed 04/08/15 05:55 PM
they do for a brief time. How long you can endure depends on how you are able to build your relationship strong enough to withstand the absence of your partner. I was in a relationship that for the most part it was good, but then a time came some 7 mo. into the relationship where we would not see each other for 5 mo. We both saw the difficulty in that and we would not have survived so we were wise to agree to end the relationship. If you can't continue to build and feel confident in a relationship, it will die.

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Wed 04/08/15 06:02 PM
It works for us.....
we have the flexibility in our jobs to enable us to stay in touch all day and evening...so our personal contact level is high.....visits are essential and a plan...

I agree its not for everyone.....nor for the weak of heart....most couples or potential couples wont be successful...

Personally....we are not like most couples...as our friends have discovered....hehe....

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Wed 04/08/15 06:10 PM
I think it could work but only for a certain amount of time, then it would have to become the real deal or end

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Thu 04/09/15 07:11 AM
i think it works but it requires big sacrifice , time , trust and constant communication

2469nascar's photo
Thu 04/09/15 07:22 AM
ive tryed,dont think they work in the long run,,seen ppl jump in them, thin thay fade out like a wet camp fire,,lol,,

jazzinc's photo
Thu 04/09/15 09:27 AM
Trust in the distance is the real thing in a love rship. Really; the distance is a true test to prove faithfulness(married and single people). It's very hard sometimes but not impossible.

We live in colorful societies and we all are exposed to everything...finally;we decide what to do or not to do it w/ a rhip in the distance.

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Thu 04/09/15 10:51 AM
If both people involve are mature mentally and creating time to communicate and always reassure each other. it's as lovely as seeing each other everyday.

theseacoast's photo
Thu 04/09/15 11:36 AM

If both people involve are mature mentally and creating time to communicate and always reassure each other. it's as lovely as seeing each other everyday.



agree, Anote :thumbsup: flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Thu 04/09/15 08:29 PM
They work when the planets align. laugh

karisoro's photo
Thu 04/09/15 08:41 PM
I want to think that everything is possible, but I would like to be near to my other half. :heart: love biggrin

needsum12luv's photo
Fri 04/10/15 03:11 PM
Edited by needsum12luv on Fri 04/10/15 03:16 PM

If both people involve are mature mentally and creating time to communicate and always reassure each other. it's as lovely as seeing each other everyday.

I can't see how anything would "be as lovely as seeing each other everyday". you can still mentally mature and create time to communicate and reassure each other even better. Being apart does not help the relationship to grow. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder", really?

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