awesome!
Tip of the day.
If she still hangs around she passed the money test.

she does not want to communicate with you.
simple.
accept that and move on.

No need to rush, as i am perfectly happy just to stay alone and keep my life from falling apart, crashing down.

If i meet same, from the opposite sex, and we like to tango because we like each other, then that might be the start of a badass team, and we will rule the world :D

I took Judy�s advice two days ago, and asked a volley of questions right away.
The Woman that got questioned did not like the questions, but when i explained the reasons, she understood and fired a salvo of questions right back.

Been playing that game for two days now, and really enjoying the exchange.


-edit: comprehension-

please apply water to the burned area.

hell no.

love is a cocktail of chemicals
when its effects wear off and routine sets in, you realize the illusion and see through the haze.

so you need someone to stay drunk in order to stay in love.

i would leave her.
without letting her know.

religion is already nuts... the stuff beyond nuts has no place in my life.

mimimimimimi?

genuine and down to earth arwe the most prevalent self-describing words i find here.

down to earth means to me:

stuck kneedeep in the mud with 3 Kids, no job, no education and a Truckload of debt.
very pragmatic lifestyle trying to get out of that mess, no resources for extras like holidays.
Often stressing out because life sucks
Have a ton of ex-Boyfriends and am sick of romance - all i want is my shiney prince in silver armour, nothing else.

bwaaahahahaha good one.
or her father or something

Haaa-hahaha this one escalated quickly.

Let that be a lesson to all and anyone - watch your attitude or you will get some proper ridicule thrown your way.

cry me a river , see if that changes something.

if you are a serious guy, then the women see that.
if they don�t see that/react to that/want that

they are not after a serious guy
but into "Chad Thundercock".

women that do not want you?
Be glad they do not want you.

woman that wants you?
be glad she does want you.

want her back
or do not.

so simple.
No need to complain at all whatsoever,
oh you handsoome, good looking serious guy in your white shining polished armor.

Now next you tell us is you drive Bentleys and Lambos, make 7 figures and are looking for a soulmate?

Bollox indeed.

i listen to my gut, ask my subconcious:
is she happy to see me?

her overall Body language is more direct & honest and accurate than her mimics or even her words.

Serious:

You are committed to her.
You are doing everything to make the relationship work.
That includes finances, workload, bail-outs, credit cards, from dinner to round the world vacation.
You accept that she has kids of whom you are [or not lol] the father, at least legally.
You will shoot yourself if she ever decides to leave, no matter the reason.


Serious?
This world is a Joke!

DONT

especially when you are in canada, living for more than two years makes the law see you as "married", and half of your stuff belongs to her when (not if) you split.

Don�t.
The living costs can be shared but the price is your independence.
And nothing should be worth more than your independence- social, financial, legal.

Plus that means you can assess her ability to live independently too. Can she cook, wash, keep her finances in balance?

It gives you a place to retreat from fights, a legal safe space - "no you do not own this property, i can ask you to leave or call the cops on you."

and about a thousand other reasons.

some are neither easy... NOR amazing.

Honor will come back to the Ladies that deserve it.

... not before.
so, yea. It�s Dead.

Thank feminism and no fault divorce for that.

No.
someone that dares to/needs to/must ask this question can not.

Because you do not GET love.
For anything you would like to GET please refer to your local shopping Mall.

what you might get here, is the opportunityto *meet*
people.

But with your attitude, that isnt going to happen either, nope.

welcome to the real world.
You will find bad apples everywhere.