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ladies why so serious everyone wants "serious"? I don't do serious before coffee.
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I have seen that on men's profiles also..
I guess it is a statement to mean. Don't contact me unless you are serious about having a relationship. Which to me is like shooting yourself in the foot.. How do I know I want to be serious about that person til I get to know them. OR Maybe it sounds better than.. Hey I am going to date you for fun and giggles so don't get attached.. Who knows really... |
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great answer sitka,,,,I likewise wonder how people expect you to want something 'serious' right off the bat,,,
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the only defense i will give to that is as a header on these sites it's the best non marriage choice to say i am not after a booty call or a serial dater
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how about looking to meet a lovely lady for friendship OR MORE
,,that is simple and implies the person is not into the booty call |
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the only defense i will give to that is as a header on these sites it's the best non marriage choice to say i am not after a booty call or a serial dater Okay Mr. Eric... I get that but when a person puts "serious" on a profile I tend to shy away because in my mind I am thinking oh crap...what if I am not??? |
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How bout people on this site are WAY too freakin sensitive about trivial sh%^
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the only defense i will give to that is as a header on these sites it's the best non marriage choice to say i am not after a booty call or a serial dater Okay Mr. Eric... I get that but when a person puts "serious" on a profile I tend to shy away because in my mind I am thinking oh crap...what if I am not??? yep, those get passed over with me too just dont want to waste anyones time that is specifically after marriage,, when Im not ,,, |
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Edited by
eric22t
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Fri 08/28/15 09:39 AM
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well keep his^^^ thought in mind miss rains
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well keep his^^^ thought in mind miss rains
I am not trying to be nit picky.. I just think that many IMHO makes internet dating so hard and then some people get down and depressed because it didn't work for them. I sure don't have all the answers I only know what works for me 
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you are so right so again i say ^^^
 
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Fri 08/28/15 09:56 AM
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I think people right serious, because so many just want to mess around and there hopefully trying to avoid people like that.
As for myself I don't say that straight away even though I am looking for something serious. I like to get to know him first and see if it leads somewhere and into something serious. It really pays to get to know someone first from my experience because no way would I have got serious with some men I've met. 
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How bout people on this site are WAY too freakin sensitive about trivial sh%^ Haha oh yeah |
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debbie you just hit the nail on the head. these sites are the put you in contact with people to get to know so you can maybe get to the kind of together you want. they are not a mail order catalog
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ladies why so serious everyone wants "serious"? I don't do serious before coffee. i think they are using that in the hopes that it will limit the scammers , players , cheaters , etc etc etc but best bet would be to ask them what they mean by it : ) 
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debbie you just hit the nail on the head. these sites are the put you in contact with people to get to know so you can maybe get to the kind of together you want. they are not a mail order catalog Exactly, we all need to get to know someone before we commit. I just see it sensible that way.
mail order catalog
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but would you even consider getting to know someone who was looking for an intimate encounter?
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but would you even consider getting to know someone who was looking for an intimate encounter? is this question for me? well ill answer anyway
If that's all he wanted, then no, there's no point.Im not looking for that. If that's what I wanted I would just go to my local pub, plenty of offers every time I go. |
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give the girl a kewpie doll
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give the girl a kewpie doll
what's that? lol
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