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Thu 04/16/15 09:34 AM
Is this because of Sharia Law?
Isn't Tennessee one of the 2 states that passed a law that Sharia Law, can NOT be used in court?
They may be setting up a guarantee that Sharia Law never exists in Tennessee. I believe 8-10 states are fighting back now.

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Thu 04/16/15 09:17 AM
Edited by SassyEuro on Thu 04/16/15 09:20 AM
I know the Holy Bible says a woman is ' the helper' to her husband.
And he is ' to love her as he loves himself ' & they are to ' threat each other as King & Queen & ' forsake all others', that 'the husband is the head & God is the head of the husband' . So ' the husband must answer to God for the wife (even in divorce, if she does not remarry).
Other than that, it may be cultural & up to the individuals (what the agreement is).



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Thu 04/16/15 09:05 AM
Did you get an email ? Check in all sections, of your email account, including spam. Tap it, it should go right thru. And you will receive a notice saying ' confirmed'.

Or perhaps you are not passing 'filter: settings? You have no pic up & nothing on your profile.

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Thu 04/16/15 08:58 AM
Welcome,
Your an Asian in Northern Ireland in retail & you are Muslim? Okay... I'm lost.
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Jump right in & join us on forums so people get to know you & you them . have fun.

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Thu 04/16/15 08:44 AM
" The Clinton Chronicals "
rofl
I hate to love it, but it's true.

It is a scarry thought.. who she can make look good. The lesser of two evils is still... evil.

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Thu 04/16/15 07:37 AM
Edited by SassyEuro on Thu 04/16/15 07:49 AM
Other possibilities-

1- she could have been sexually or emotionaly abused
3- if the husband does not treat her well, talk to her, show her love & respect... but expects sex.
4- it could be the husband wants her to dress & undress & she knows this will excite him... so she doesn't.
* as a newlywed, I didn't, he would have wanted even more sex, & I would never get out of house*
5- if your raised with men in the house.* father, brothers etc.* then you learn to cover up & be modest.
6- they are not emotionally bonded & need more time.
7- she is naive, young or afraid.






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Thu 04/16/15 07:03 AM
Welcome.

I don't know what ' secret love' means to you? But to me, that is only fun for a little while & then boring & meaning less ... so pointless.. laugh

Good luck to you.

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Thu 04/16/15 03:46 AM
Welcome to Mingle2 .
Join us on forums, so people get to know you & you them. Just jump right in. Good luck to you. :banana:

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Thu 04/16/15 03:41 AM
Welcome, flirting Ty. bigsmile
Yes, there is alot of flirting here.
Join us on forums, so people get to know you & you them. Good luck to you.


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Thu 04/16/15 03:20 AM
Edited by SassyEuro on Thu 04/16/15 03:21 AM
For me it is ' Time'. Time for just myself. Time for immediate family & time for extended family & time for friends.
I grew up with so many siblings & cousins, that it was more or less, a "clan mentality'. So even now, at my age, I miss that sometimes. But, I also love coming back home, after a reunion, to peace, quiet & my own serenity.
Trying to find a balance is tricky.



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Thu 04/16/15 03:05 AM





There's a line that says: "People change, but they can't change back, I think it's harder."

Is this true?


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But I do know people only change if they really want to & not for someone or something else.

, then you do something about it"
Suppose you love or like someone alot,you're always nice to them,you would go the extra mile for them,only to find out later they're not worthy of it,and have only been using you,you do this to alot of people until you get tired of it,ok,then you decide to do something about it,tell me,if you decide to do something about it,what would you say led you TO do something about it?


Pain.. people miss interpreting kindness & good human qualities for weakness. This causes pain & resentment. But we can not change this people that use us. We can only change our own actions & reactions.
If we have have to let them go,let them go.

I had to learn the hard way that...

People are in our life for a reason,a season, or a lifetime. And sometimes the reason is to learn how not to be or to learn to walk away.
I totally understand,you're making sense,but you do realize that changes is also a part of growth right?What I'm saying is,changes are a part of life,and they're different types of changes,but you understand all that though!:smile:


I agree, absolutely. Change is a part of growth. Some people fear it. Some fear it so much that they hate it when other people change. They are ' joy killers '. grumble
Some just except it. Some change is inevitable, like age. Some is controllable like our diet or the friends we choose.

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Thu 04/16/15 02:52 AM
Edited by SassyEuro on Thu 04/16/15 03:11 AM
Not this site or any site. smokin
If you know what to look for & follow your instincts over desires & wants, then it is quite simple. Annoying sometimes, but simple.



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Thu 04/16/15 02:45 AM



There's a line that says: "People change, but they can't change back, I think it's harder."

Is this true?


I
But I do know people only change if they really want to & not for someone or something else.

, then you do something about it"
Suppose you love or like someone alot,you're always nice to them,you would go the extra mile for them,only to find out later they're not worthy of it,and have only been using you,you do this to alot of people until you get tired of it,ok,then you decide to do something about it,tell me,if you decide to do something about it,what would you say led you TO do something about it?


Pain.. people miss interpreting kindness & good human qualities for weakness. This causes pain & resentment. But we can not change this people that use us. We can only change our own actions & reactions.
If we have have to let them go,let them go.

I had to learn the hard way that...

People are in our life for a reason,a season, or a lifetime. And sometimes the reason is to learn how not to be or to learn to walk away.

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Thu 04/16/15 02:31 AM
We'll come to Mingle2
Join us on forums & let people get to know you. Good luck to you.

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Thu 04/16/15 02:21 AM
Edited by SassyEuro on Thu 04/16/15 02:22 AM
I think it how people are raised by their parents. Girls especially are given a' list of do's & don't s'.
And what constitutes ' a. good girl or bad girl" .
I think the husband should have more patience and not expect her to change, so quickly to what he wants...
In her mind she is probably still hearing her parents,with 'the list'


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Thu 04/16/15 02:07 AM

There's a line that says: "People change, but they can't change back, I think it's harder."

Is this true?


I don't know about " changing back".
But I do know people only change if they really want to & not for someone or something else.

I like the saying, that has applied to me,. " When the pain gets bad enough, then you do something about it"

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Thu 04/16/15 01:58 AM
Welcome to Mingle2 , flowers

Join us here on forums do people get to know you & you them. Good luck to you.

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Thu 04/16/15 01:16 AM
P=Penicillin what

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Wed 04/15/15 07:00 PM
Welcome & Good luck bigsmile

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Wed 04/15/15 06:58 PM
Welcome & Good luck flowers

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