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Sat 01/23/10 03:05 PM
If anyone walks away with a bruise or bleeding even if it was during fun, that means that someone has hurt and this is not good. At that time is will seem ok but eventually this will grow into a huge problem with one resenting the other. For me, I do not like pain of any kind, if it is suppose to be fun.

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Sat 01/23/10 02:56 PM
inside out

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Sat 01/23/10 02:45 PM
You need to think, act and project a postive attitude and you will attract positive people. At least that is what people keep telling me, but I keep finding the ones with negative issues.

And the priest pic was scaring me also.

Ahh if only Gregory House was a real man

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Sat 01/23/10 02:36 PM
Excatly what is good enough to join a bowling league. If you enjoy it, go join. Make sure it is not a big money league, they are a bit over competitive. I bowl with an average of 140 and one of my teamates has a 108 average and we are in 1st place. It's the handicap that helps us.

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Sat 01/23/10 02:32 PM
happy feelings

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Sat 01/23/10 02:27 PM
It they weren't stupid there would not be any Reality TV shows.

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Sat 01/23/10 02:18 PM
ummm YEAH! If he ever called for just a booty call,it would be hard to say no, He was the kind of guy that the woman was always taken care of first.winking He did have a ton of other issues though.

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Sat 01/23/10 06:04 AM
Just sitting here singing the "HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY" ( from Ren and Stimpy Show) and drinking my coffeesmile2

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Sat 01/23/10 06:00 AM
Could be worse, he could have a lot of money and rent the billboard at Time Square professing his undying love for you...oh wait someone already did that.happy

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Fri 01/22/10 07:46 PM
one of my ex's would always ask me if he was better then the bf before him. My answer was always the same, "things are different with you then they were with him." I never said if they were better or worse. This is why I don't like talking about my or their sexlife past, less hassles.

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Fri 01/22/10 07:27 PM

If they are that different they shouldn't have to announce it.

It should stand out on it's own....




So true.drinker

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Fri 01/22/10 07:13 PM
Edited by janeh on Fri 01/22/10 07:15 PM
It means that he/she is in a relationship and one of them thinks it is something more and the other thinks it is just casual dating. At leat that is what one of my friends explained to me about her fb status

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Fri 01/22/10 07:05 PM





Pretty much the same here. In our final year, she turned psycho and her drinking got worse, which amplified her anger. I think maybe she was consumed with guilt about how she was treating me. I was willing to help her with her meltdown, and work on it together, but she was already too far gone, and I had to accept that I was losing her. This was extremely difficult for me because I deeply loved her unconditionally. She eventually wasn't willing to give the same. But in the end, I wished there had been a real honest closure, not silly mysteries that don't make sense.


I am sorry to hear that. Before the guy that broke up with me in August, I dated an alcoholic that started out verbally abusing me and then ended up hitting me from behind almost breaking my neck. Gee, the things we go through for love. Perhaps the New Year will bring us both some good luck. Cheers.


Yes, guilt has a lot to do with it but the thing with alcoholics is that they are very sick people,not in their right mind, and most of the things they say should not be taken personally.

As for shallow reasons, we live in a throw away society and if something is not working right, we don't try to fix it, we throw it away and get a new one. I just wish that people would not gve you some dumb excuse as to why they don't want to continue seeing you because most times you can see right through their lies. We all need to learn to say what we really mean, just not say it in a mean way.

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Fri 01/22/10 06:42 PM
Why would you throw it at my lap? Are you practicing to be an NFL quarterback?

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Fri 01/22/10 06:09 PM
I have had the "you can't compare me to the others" which after a while I say "yes, you are right,I really can't compare you because you really are all the same".

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Thu 01/21/10 04:40 PM
I look at the past like it is a rearview mirror in a car. It's good to glance at once in a while, but I need to focus all my attention on what is happening right in front of me.

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Wed 01/20/10 06:18 PM
Second Date? This would be after a some emails and then a lot of phone conversations and then a "meet and greet".If I feel comfortable, then there would be the first date. If things go well, some nice easy talking back and forth, a few laughs, and I leave with the feeling that he was upfront and honest, then a second date is no problem. Now the third date.......???

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Tue 01/19/10 04:28 AM
We can only be who we are, and not what someone else wants us to be. Offer what you have and if they can not accept that, then that is their issue, not yours. You will find that one that accepts you for you.

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Mon 01/18/10 07:31 AM
Sounds like that guy need to compensate himself for qualities that are missing. The best way to be the bigger man is to walk away and let him be the jack.

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Mon 01/18/10 07:24 AM
Is that really a woman?