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| Topic: From 1st date to 2nd date. | |
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This is for everyone, and from YOUR point of view, NOT what the men's and women's magazines say to do. Physical appearance aside, lets just assume you find the other person attractive physically;
What does the other person have to do, say, act, behave, respond, to get you to agree or decide to go out on a 2nd or more dates with them? Please don't answer "sex," or it just shows how shallow you are.   
Positive answers only, not about what they shouldn't or can't do. |
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i think body language is a big one
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Just be themselves
Have fun Laugh and dont pressure me for sex!!!!
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het dr. spock, because cats love u, u should know that u have to have sex on the second date or you won't catch the dude or dudette...
 
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Hummmmm the obvious just ask.
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Hummmmm the obvious just ask.
Not as obvious as you might think. Remember this is your perspective, what do YOU expect? I think it's more than you asking them or them asking you, something they did impressed or pleased you enough to go or agree to go on another date with them. |
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het dr. spock, because cats love u, u should know that u have to have sex on the second date or you won't catch the dude or dudette...
Yes, I'm the Pied Piper of cats, I dunno why, they just follow me around, maybe I smell like chicken or fish.
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I expect them to be interested in what I am saying. I expect them not to be negative or talk about failed relationships. Oh, and I expect them to hold up their end of the conversation.
Those things would get me to agree to a second date. |
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i think body language is a big one Body language may be important, but there are many who haven't mastered this fine art, and they may be interested in you but are not aware that they aren't giving you the right visual cues, would you hold that against them? It is possible they might have had an off day at work, or concerned about something, or may be just a little nervous or anxious on that first date, which could throw off the body language a little. |
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I would hope that she would show some intellectual capacity and be able to talk about various topics. A good conversationalist with communications skills and a creative mind is extremely alluring. Or would be, if such a thing actually existed.
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I would hope that she would show some intellectual capacity and be able to talk about various topics. A good conversationalist with communications skills and a creative mind is extremely alluring. Or would be, if such a thing actually existed. Boy U R HOTZ! Can I have your digits? How's that Lex, I tried good conversation with extreme communication and a creative way with my spelling. 
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I would hope that she would show some intellectual capacity and be able to talk about various topics. A good conversationalist with communications skills and a creative mind is extremely alluring. Or would be, if such a thing actually existed. Boy U R HOTZ! Can I have your digits? How's that Lex, I tried good conversation with extreme communication and a creative way with my spelling.
That was actually WAY better than what I usually see! Plus you spelled "digits" without using the letter J. Extra credit. |
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This is for everyone, and from YOUR point of view, NOT what the men's and women's magazines say to do. Physical appearance aside, lets just assume you find the other person attractive physically; What does the other person have to do, say, act, behave, respond, to get you to agree or decide to go out on a 2nd or more dates with them? Please don't answer "sex," or it just shows how shallow you are.
Positive answers only, not about what they shouldn't or can't do. Act like a human-being, say please and thank you, have an open mind, and a nice smile. |
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I expect him to be able to have an interesting conversation with me. If we get along and have a good time, then I could see going out with him again.
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I haven't had a date in 24 years. What do I know. I guess as long as she doesn't try and open her bottle of beer with her teeth I would be up for another date.......
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Great conversation and chemistry!
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I need to feel some "chemistry"...good conversation, common ground, or even a spark in a goodnight kiss. If there's no chemistry, than I usually don't pursue a second date. (Unless I want to add them to my friend's list)
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I haven't had a date in 24 years. What do I know. I guess as long as she doesn't try and open her bottle of beer with her teeth I would be up for another date.......
If she could open a bottle of beer with her teeth, I'd definitely be looking for a second date. And I'd make sure and film it to show my buddys back at the bar. |
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I haven't had a date in 24 years. What do I know. I guess as long as she doesn't try and open her bottle of beer with her teeth I would be up for another date.......
If she could open a bottle of beer with her teeth, I'd definitely be looking for a second date. And I'd make sure and film it to show my buddys back at the bar. You have never been too Kentucky have you.....
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buoies and gulls...im here 2 tell ya...that if he/she does not get kiss or sex on first date, then they come back for 2nd, and try 2 get it.....body language, chemistry or no chemistry....
take it froma old bird who knows.... |
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