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Topic: some guys just don't take the hint
Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:14 PM
I had a gig last night, and of course our whole crew comes out for them, there is one guy I have known for years, he is a sweetheart, when he sees me he always tells me how great and wonderful and kind I am to him...calls me family.

However at the end of the night, and after a few beers, he always hits on me, I respectfully decline, then it turns into how mean I am to him... He always says I am dating my drummer (who is my best friend) or my other friend...also a guy. "you're John's girl" or "you're Dan's girl"

Besides kicking his azz... what else do I need to do??

Don't say sit down and have a talk with him, because I have done that....

dannyspottedeagle's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:16 PM
danny

krazykitty323's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:16 PM
Ignore him totally.

DMACKD83's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:17 PM
beat em till the wheels come offlaugh

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:18 PM
"I can't believe you are so crass as to repeat your advances and nasty comments. Stay away from me". Then ignore him.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:20 PM

I had a gig last night, and of course our whole crew comes out for them, there is one guy I have known for years, he is a sweetheart, when he sees me he always tells me how great and wonderful and kind I am to him...calls me family.

However at the end of the night, and after a few beers, he always hits on me, I respectfully decline, then it turns into how mean I am to him... He always says I am dating my drummer (who is my best friend) or my other friend...also a guy. "you're John's girl" or "you're Dan's girl"

Besides kicking his azz... what else do I need to do??

Don't say sit down and have a talk with him, because I have done that....
:tongue:Tell him your my girl:tongue:

dannyspottedeagle's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:20 PM
:heart: danny

DMACKD83's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:20 PM
if you say that to him i think that the wheels will come off good one skpcgsmokin

itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:20 PM
start talking about another guy

BE_REAL's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:20 PM
Incoming run for cover!!!!!!!!!!!!explode explode explode

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:23 PM
I guess you'd have to know hinm to understand...

We have a very tight knit group, and although he is not inner circle, he is around alot.

He is a sweetheart, but after a few beers he is relentless...

and Mirror, even if I told him I had a boyfriend, it wouldn't deter him...

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:23 PM
Tell him to join this sitelaugh

SharpShooter10's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:25 PM

I guess you'd have to know hinm to understand...

We have a very tight knit group, and although he is not inner circle, he is around alot.

He is a sweetheart, but after a few beers he is relentless...

and Mirror, even if I told him I had a boyfriend, it wouldn't deter him...
get a big strap on dildo and tell him thats the only way you want himlaugh laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:25 PM

Tell him to join this sitelaugh


are you kidding me?

then he would hit on me online...and I'd never meet anyone..trust me, he'd tell everyone I was his girl....

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:25 PM


I guess you'd have to know hinm to understand...

We have a very tight knit group, and although he is not inner circle, he is around alot.

He is a sweetheart, but after a few beers he is relentless...

and Mirror, even if I told him I had a boyfriend, it wouldn't deter him...
get a big strap on dildo and tell him thats the only way you want himlaugh laugh laugh laugh


My fear would be then he would say OK and then where would I be?

SharpShooter10's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:28 PM



I guess you'd have to know hinm to understand...

We have a very tight knit group, and although he is not inner circle, he is around alot.

He is a sweetheart, but after a few beers he is relentless...

and Mirror, even if I told him I had a boyfriend, it wouldn't deter him...
get a big strap on dildo and tell him thats the only way you want himlaugh laugh laugh laugh


My fear would be then he would say OK and then where would I be?
laugh laugh laugh behind him I guesslaugh

mommyof1's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:28 PM
got an acme fryin' pan?? :wink:

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:34 PM

got an acme fryin' pan?? :wink:


haha can I borrow yours?? laugh laugh

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:37 PM
Some guys are ummmm what's the the word I'm looking for here? Oh yeah, STUPID!!! Unfortunately Lily there is no cure for stupidity. So the frying pan idea sounds about the best to me.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:39 PM
Do what my ex and me did. Keep the peace by keeping our distance from each other. That way you don't have to worry about Dr. Jekyl or Mr. Hyde. Dr. Jekyl is kind of nice but it Mr. Hyde that you have to watch out for. The secret is they are actually the same person but you didn't hear it from me.laugh

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