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Topic: some guys just don't take the hint
Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:40 PM

Some guys are ummmm what's the the word I'm looking for here? Oh yeah, STUPID!!! Unfortunately Lily there is no cure for stupidity. So the frying pan idea sounds about the best to me.


You know what... I will probably see hinm tonight also, so I may have to get Lilyfied on him, and publically humiliate him, in a cordial kinda way....

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Sat 03/29/08 02:42 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

mommyof1's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:43 PM


got an acme fryin' pan?? :wink:


haha can I borrow yours?? laugh laugh




you most definately can!! laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 02:47 PM



got an acme fryin' pan?? :wink:


haha can I borrow yours?? laugh laugh




you most definately can!! laugh laugh


Thanks, I knew you had my back sista....:wink:

LandRover28's photo
Sat 03/29/08 03:01 PM
Edited by LandRover28 on Sat 03/29/08 03:02 PM
Some girls don't know when to use a breath mint.

mommyof1's photo
Sat 03/29/08 03:12 PM




got an acme fryin' pan?? :wink:


haha can I borrow yours?? laugh laugh




you most definately can!! laugh laugh


Thanks, I knew you had my back sista....:wink:




you know it sista.....:wink:

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 03/29/08 03:13 PM

I had a gig last night, and of course our whole crew comes out for them, there is one guy I have known for years, he is a sweetheart, when he sees me he always tells me how great and wonderful and kind I am to him...calls me family.

However at the end of the night, and after a few beers, he always hits on me, I respectfully decline, then it turns into how mean I am to him... He always says I am dating my drummer (who is my best friend) or my other friend...also a guy. "you're John's girl" or "you're Dan's girl"

Besides kicking his azz... what else do I need to do??

Don't say sit down and have a talk with him, because I have done that....
have sex with me on the table right in front of him. I am asuming that will give him the information needed to move on

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 04:47 PM


I had a gig last night, and of course our whole crew comes out for them, there is one guy I have known for years, he is a sweetheart, when he sees me he always tells me how great and wonderful and kind I am to him...calls me family.

However at the end of the night, and after a few beers, he always hits on me, I respectfully decline, then it turns into how mean I am to him... He always says I am dating my drummer (who is my best friend) or my other friend...also a guy. "you're John's girl" or "you're Dan's girl"

Besides kicking his azz... what else do I need to do??

Don't say sit down and have a talk with him, because I have done that....
have sex with me on the table right in front of him. I am asuming that will give him the information needed to move on


well, I'll do that, but he doesn't need to be present does he?

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/29/08 04:48 PM

beat em till the wheels come offlaugh


I like this idea

BlueskyJ's photo
Sat 03/29/08 06:10 PM
tell him you view him as a friend and if he was the last guy left on the planet you still wouldn't date him because he doesn't interest you that way.....

*then kick him in the balls*.....j/k

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/29/08 06:19 PM

tell him you view him as a friend and if he was the last guy left on the planet you still wouldn't date him because he doesn't interest you that way.....

*then kick him in the balls*.....j/k


He is really a sweet guy, and I would love for him to meet someone.... then he'd leave me alone....

toastedoranges's photo
Sat 03/29/08 06:23 PM
..good luck. sucks that a lot of people think persistance will somehow change things and make them more desirable

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Sun 03/30/08 12:56 PM
When he's being Mr. Nice Guy, he's being disingenuous, and you know this. He thinks he's "building rapport" or some other fake crap when he's calling you "family" but all he's doing is expressing his desperation.

When he's being disingenuous, call him out on it. Break his pattern.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 03/30/08 12:57 PM

I had a gig last night, and of course our whole crew comes out for them, there is one guy I have known for years, he is a sweetheart, when he sees me he always tells me how great and wonderful and kind I am to him...calls me family.

However at the end of the night, and after a few beers, he always hits on me, I respectfully decline, then it turns into how mean I am to him... He always says I am dating my drummer (who is my best friend) or my other friend...also a guy. "you're John's girl" or "you're Dan's girl"

Besides kicking his azz... what else do I need to do??

Don't say sit down and have a talk with him, because I have done that....


Walk away.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 03/30/08 01:27 PM


I had a gig last night, and of course our whole crew comes out for them, there is one guy I have known for years, he is a sweetheart, when he sees me he always tells me how great and wonderful and kind I am to him...calls me family.

However at the end of the night, and after a few beers, he always hits on me, I respectfully decline, then it turns into how mean I am to him... He always says I am dating my drummer (who is my best friend) or my other friend...also a guy. "you're John's girl" or "you're Dan's girl"

Besides kicking his azz... what else do I need to do??

Don't say sit down and have a talk with him, because I have done that....


Walk away.



I agree. If he can't see it for what it is then he doesn't deserve you. LOL

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