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Topic: I'm conflicted...
stonesweetness Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 13	Wed 03/26/08 03:54 PM
I know some things about someone and I feel I should tell his new friends because it would really impact them in a negative way if they find out later rather than sooner. To tell or not tell, any thoughts?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 03/26/08 03:55 PM
idk depends how bad it is

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Wed 03/26/08 03:55 PM
I know some things about someone and I feel I should tell his new friends because it would really impact them in a negative way if they find out later rather than sooner. To tell or not tell, any thoughts? encourage him to be the one to tell.... tell him to be honest... and if not... then let him know you will... but give him the chance first

itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Wed 03/26/08 03:56 PM
What things

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Wed 03/26/08 03:56 PM
Well.. if this person happens to be on my friends list.. I'd prefer you to tell me

stonesweetness Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 13	Wed 03/26/08 03:56 PM
it's pretty serious. I know I would have wanted to know but that's just me

stonesweetness Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 13	Wed 03/26/08 03:57 PM
untruths, embellishments, out and out lies...

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Wed 03/26/08 03:57 PM
mind your own business...it will only come back to make you out at the "bad guy"...

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Wed 03/26/08 03:58 PM
if it's harmful to others, you need to spill it.

itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Wed 03/26/08 03:59 PM
mind your own business...it will only come back to make you out at the "bad guy"...

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 03/26/08 04:00 PM
I know some things about someone and I feel I should tell his new friends because it would really impact them in a negative way if they find out later rather than sooner. To tell or not tell, any thoughts? I wouldn't tell. If it were serious enough for you to tell them, you wouldn't be conflicted not to.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 03/26/08 04:00 PM
As long as the person is not a dangerous criminal or someone who is married and pretending not to be I would not say anything.

lulu24 Joined Sun 02/11/07 Posts: 6033	Wed 03/26/08 04:00 PM
spill only with proof. and NOT on the forums...only in email. better yet, use the "report abuse" feature in their profile.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 03/26/08 04:00 PM
I'm just really nosey and want to know.

cdanny47 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2328	Wed 03/26/08 04:02 PM
I'm just really nosey and want to know. I am to!!!!!!!!

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Wed 03/26/08 04:03 PM
I'm just really nosey and want to know. I am to!!!!!!!! at this point, we all are. let it rip.

AaronzDad Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 10182	Wed 03/26/08 04:04 PM
NEVER GET CAUGHT BETWEEN A DOG AND A FIRE HYDRANT

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Wed 03/26/08 04:04 PM
I'm just really nosey and want to know. I am to!!!!!!!! at this point, we all are. let it rip. Yeah, SPILL it!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 03/26/08 04:05 PM
mind your own business...it will only come back to make you out at the "bad guy"... ill have to disagree, if the person you know something about, is the one you should deal with it. I would make sure they new my opinion on it, but not the friend. Make them take responsibility for there own action

stonesweetness Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 13	Wed 03/26/08 04:05 PM
It's funny, all the input is divided 50/50... figures no clear cut definitive answer. But then again, I guess that's where my conflict comes in. Sometimes I think, why should I bother, I'm not the one who's gonna get hurt, but then I think, but heck..that was me a few years back. And so it goes