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Topic: I'm conflicted...
cdanny47 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2328	Wed 03/26/08 04:07 PM
A guy that lie's get us all into trouble

lulu24 Joined Sun 02/11/07 Posts: 6033	Wed 03/26/08 04:07 PM
I'm also going to point out that if this thread is about another JSH member, it is a direct violation of JSH rules.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 03/26/08 04:07 PM
of corse some will say leave it alone til it happens to them

stonesweetness Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 13	Wed 03/26/08 04:09 PM
okay, before this gets out of hand, it's not a JSH member...so no violations here...

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Wed 03/26/08 04:12 PM
Live and Let Live

lulu24 Joined Sun 02/11/07 Posts: 6033	Wed 03/26/08 04:13 PM
okay, before this gets out of hand, it's not a JSH member...so no violations here... cool beans, thanks. um, and i guess you can't use the "report abuse" feature, then, either... i think it'd depend on the situation and what the issue was, and also whether or not the others have children.

AaronzDad Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 10182	Wed 03/26/08 04:18 PM
You're being kind of arrogant in your thinking aren't you? Who made YOU responsible for this guy or anyone who chooses to be his friend? If they come to you for advice or input you have an obligation to yourself to be honest. If these other people are friends of yours or family you have an obligation to talk with them. If they're just strangers or casual acquaintances you have an obligation to keep your nose out of their lives.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 03/26/08 04:26 PM Edited by Single_Rob on Wed 03/26/08 04:26 PM
You're being kind of arrogant in your thinking aren't you? Who made YOU responsible for this guy or anyone who chooses to be his friend? If they come to you for advice or input you have an obligation to yourself to be honest. If these other people are friends of yours or family you have an obligation to talk with them. If they're just strangers or casual acquaintances you have an obligation to keep your nose out of their lives. well I think it all depends on the motive of the person doing the spilling. if the motives are genuine concern for the new people, it is ok. If the motive is to "get even" then it is out of selfishness, and should be avoided. That is just how I perceive it. If you spill it, do it in a non-judgemental way, and only lay out the facts. Do not turn it into a roast party, but just la out what you know to be true, and let the people make their own mind up about it. if you don't know it for fact, just avoid it altogether as well

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Wed 03/26/08 04:26 PM
You're being kind of arrogant in your thinking aren't you? Who made YOU responsible for this guy or anyone who chooses to be his friend? If they come to you for advice or input you have an obligation to yourself to be honest. If these other people are friends of yours or family you have an obligation to talk with them. If they're just strangers or casual acquaintances you have an obligation to keep your nose out of their lives. Exactly!

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Wed 03/26/08 04:28 PM
Remember, there are three sides to every story. In this case, (1)His side (2)Your side and (3)The truth

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 03/26/08 04:29 PM Edited by Single_Rob on Wed 03/26/08 04:31 PM
Remember, there are three sides to every story. In this case, (1)His side (2)Your side and (3)The truth that is quite untrue. As long as a person does not embelish there are only two.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 03/26/08 04:31 PM
There is NO clear answer for the predicament if the circumstances are not understood by the majority. That being said, they should tell not you. That being said, you sould talk to them about telling others...if all else fails flip a coin to figure out what to do.

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Wed 03/26/08 04:37 PM
Do what you feel is right in your heart... Listen to yourself... Good luck!

James1234567 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2589	Wed 03/26/08 04:39 PM
whats up aarons

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Thu 03/27/08 03:11 PM
Remember, there are three sides to every story. In this case, (1)His side (2)Your side and (3)The truth that is quite untrue. As long as a person does not embelish there are only two. Maybe so