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ok missy...since you brought that term up lol. I have asked others in emails what they mean by Barbie...they told me fakes and plastic people. When I was in HS, my sister's friends called me Barbie...not because of big boobs (which I don't have) or because my hair and make up was perfect (which it usually wasn't lol). I was told back then to take it as a compliment...which I started doing. But now it's an insult.
I still don't understand the term. I can only imaging since I was called Barbie was because I was thin. I'm certainly not fake or plastic Can you explain? 
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ok missy...since you brought that term up lol. I have asked others in emails what they mean by Barbie...they told me fakes and plastic people. When I was in HS, my sister's friends called me Barbie...not because of big boobs (which I don't have) or because my hair and make up was perfect (which it usually wasn't lol). I was told back then to take it as a compliment...which I started doing. But now it's an insult. I still don't understand the term. I can only imaging since I was called Barbie was because I was thin. I'm certainly not fake or plastic Can you explain?
By Barbie I mean the way the "perfect " woman should ook, not plastic and fake.. I never really thought of it that way to be honest.. I meant.. long legs, small waist, nice boobs, perfect...no flaws.. But that just isnt reality... I never EVER judge my frieds on their appearance, their size.. I have super thin friends , heavy set friends and most are somewhere in the middle... Sorry if I offended ya darlin... I didnt mean too !!! |
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not for me...I like women who are sexy on the inside...curves are good outside!!! Now if the woman has back hair...I'll have to draw the line...lol lol 
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ok missy...since you brought that term up lol. I have asked others in emails what they mean by Barbie...they told me fakes and plastic people. When I was in HS, my sister's friends called me Barbie...not because of big boobs (which I don't have) or because my hair and make up was perfect (which it usually wasn't lol). I was told back then to take it as a compliment...which I started doing. But now it's an insult. I still don't understand the term. I can only imaging since I was called Barbie was because I was thin. I'm certainly not fake or plastic Can you explain?
By Barbie I mean the way the "perfect " woman should ook, not plastic and fake.. I never really thought of it that way to be honest.. I meant.. long legs, small waist, nice boobs, perfect...no flaws.. But that just isnt reality... I never EVER judge my frieds on their appearance, their size.. I have super thin friends , heavy set friends and most are somewhere in the middle... Sorry if I offended ya darlin... I didnt mean too !!! you didn't offend me at all...i was only confused at the meaning. and I only wanted people to explain it is all 
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rob posted a thread on something simliar to what I asked if i did. Because most thought it was rob being rob...it wasn't taken seriously. when the reasons were...it was rob being rob but also because of another BBW thread that day and he I popped into mind
when I asked some how come my posts are over looked in those threads but everyone except people who know me from other threads...one person jokes that I was too skiny to be noticed. I have heard all sorts of jokes like tying a rope to my feet and fly me like a kite, falling down the shower drain, turning sideways and I disappear...i know they are meant as jokes but it gets old. I wouldn't make over weight jokes because the get tiring and can be hurtful. just as the jabs at skiny people get old and tiring sorry about the venting
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Edited by
missy51970
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Thu 03/27/08 09:04 AM
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You can vent anytime you need too hun!!
The truth ofthe matter is... as I see it... anyway.. We are all adults here.. well most of us are, and the ones who like to put people down, make them feel bad and hurttheir feelings are NOT adults.. they are little people with little minds and need to get a life... I dont care how skinny or not skinny you are Yellowrose.. you are a beautiful person and a sweetheart of a lady... Im proud to call you my friend...
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Yellow I am thin too, mostly cause I stay active so I can relate to what u are saying U are a sweetheart and a hottie with a TON of class do not EVER let amyone tell u any different!!!!
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Missy...you are a doll
I take after my dad's side of the family...skinny my sister takes after my mom's...heavy set we talked recently about how she was always jealous of me and she was surprised to hear I was jealous of her. we had a long talk about it and realize it's not easy on either side. that's why I get tired of these threads...I usually bite my tongue but tired of it. why is it surprising when women aruge about size when the subject is direct toward skiny women? I'm not going to bash the men for preferences either because there are alot that prefer larger women than me |
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I treat people the way I want to be treated. Looks aren`t important, it is what is on the inside of a person ( their character ) that matters to me.
Beauty is only skin deep. And some of these so called beauties are pretty ugly inside. |
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Yellow I am thin too, mostly cause I stay active so I can relate to what u are saying U are a sweetheart and a hottie with a TON of class do not EVER let amyone tell u any different!!!!
ty hun. just really tired of the nagativity online and in the world but I know it happens. Just in the mood to speak my opinion
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I treat people the way I want to be treated. Looks aren`t important, it is what is on the inside of a person ( their character ) that matters to me. Beauty is only skin deep. And some of these so called beauties are pretty ugly inside. well said rara!!!
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Missy...you are a doll
I take after my dad's side of the family...skinny my sister takes after my mom's...heavy set we talked recently about how she was always jealous of me and she was surprised to hear I was jealous of her. we had a long talk about it and realize it's not easy on either side. that's why I get tired of these threads...I usually bite my tongue but tired of it. why is it surprising when women aruge about size when the subject is direct toward skiny women? I'm not going to bash the men for preferences either because there are alot that prefer larger women than me Thanks my dear!!!
I get tired of them too...its amazing to me how people find a way to insult or bash someone from anything... |
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I treat people the way I want to be treated. Looks aren`t important, it is what is on the inside of a person ( their character ) that matters to me. Beauty is only skin deep. And some of these so called beauties are pretty ugly inside. i completely agree...which is why I don't like threads about looks. if someone doesn't like me then i will go to that person and ask why. if no response...i move on |
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why is it so important for a women to have a sexy body? Or to be skinny? Did you know that 65% of women are considered overweight?  DID YOU KNOW THAT, 65% of men are over-sexed??
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Missy...you are a doll
I take after my dad's side of the family...skinny my sister takes after my mom's...heavy set we talked recently about how she was always jealous of me and she was surprised to hear I was jealous of her. we had a long talk about it and realize it's not easy on either side. that's why I get tired of these threads...I usually bite my tongue but tired of it. why is it surprising when women aruge about size when the subject is direct toward skiny women? I'm not going to bash the men for preferences either because there are alot that prefer larger women than me Thanks my dear!!!
I get tired of them too...its amazing to me how people find a way to insult or bash someone from anything... 
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Love curves but love honestly more
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Love curves but love honestly more TY!!!!!!!! i can appreciate and respect you view point. I don't have many curves (built like a ballerina)....big boobs throw you off balance easier lol..even though I have boobs and sometimes wish they were bigger
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Love curves but love honestly more TY!!!!!!!! i can appreciate and respect you view point. I don't have many curves (built like a ballerina)....big boobs throw you off balance easier lol..even though I have boobs and sometimes wish they were bigger
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why is it so important for a women to have a sexy body? Or to be skinny? Did you know that 65% of women are considered overweight? DID YOU KNOW THAT, 65% of men are over-sexed??
I need to find those 65%... because im UNDER sexed!!!! 
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hmm part of that 65 lol
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