Topic: to the men
Jillybean31's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:43 PM



another man who needs a lesson on how to be nice


I would think you would prefer an honest man versus a "nice" man who is lying to you. But maybe that's just me.
you can be honest and tactful at the same time...
I'm with you!

wiley's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:44 PM

indeed it is... u r good at it tho


After much trial & error I assure you. laugh

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:46 PM
Some questions don't deserve tact.

Jill298's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:46 PM


indeed it is... u r good at it tho


After much trial & error I assure you. laugh
laugh laugh laugh

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:47 PM
Ever wonder why there are so many "why don't men like larger ladies" threads?

Is it really necessary for larger ladies to sling mud and accuse those "not so large ladies" of having the personality of a gnat?

I respect you for your choice to be whatever size you are.

Please respect mine.


Jill298's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:47 PM

Some questions don't deserve tact.
most questions do deserve tact, the more tactful you are, the more class you have. everyone is entitled to their own opinions, whether it be correct or not.

Jill298's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:48 PM

Ever wonder why there are so many "why don't men like larger ladies" threads?

Is it really necessary for larger ladies to sling mud and accuse those "not so large ladies" of having the personality of a gnat?

I respect you for your choice to be whatever size you are.

Please respect mine.


well said!

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:48 PM
Beginning to think that the whole women size issue and men nice guy issues will NEVER be resolved around here....noway noway

wiley's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:49 PM
They're only really issues in people's heads, IMO.

Jill298's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:51 PM

Beginning to think that the whole women size issue and men nice guy issues will NEVER be resolved around here....noway noway
I tend to agree... I don't think people should be bashed for what they are or are not attracted to... no one is "required" to be attracted to anyone and shouldn't be considered shallow if they just don't have an attraction to another person.

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:53 PM


Beginning to think that the whole women size issue and men nice guy issues will NEVER be resolved around here....noway noway
I tend to agree... I don't think people should be bashed for what they are or are not attracted to... no one is "required" to be attracted to anyone and shouldn't be considered shallow if they just don't have an attraction to another person.


Yup yup!! As long as you're not cruel to someone over them not being your idea of attrative I see no issues

LandRover28's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:53 PM


Beginning to think that the whole women size issue and men nice guy issues will NEVER be resolved around here....noway noway
I tend to agree... I don't think people should be bashed for what they are or are not attracted to... no one is "required" to be attracted to anyone and shouldn't be considered shallow if they just don't have an attraction to another person.


Yup.

wiley's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:54 PM
Edited by wiley on Wed 03/26/08 12:54 PM
The problem with the whole thing is that most people haven't really got a clue what they want most of the time anyway. And even then, it's constantly subject to change because peoples' individual needs are always changing.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:54 PM
I lost count of how many threads like this go around. I assure you it isn't easier for thin people. we get the jokes, insults, rejection and hurt as much as anyone.explode

these threads usually end up talk about the other women instead of the men or their is friction.

We should all be happy with who we are and we all have preferences.

wiley's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:56 PM
Nature of the beast, rose. ohwell

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:56 PM
ohwell

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:56 PM
I just hate everyone so then I don't discriminate against anyone per se :tongue:

wiley's photo
Wed 03/26/08 12:57 PM
Equal Opportunity Hater. I like it. :wink:

Jill298's photo
Wed 03/26/08 01:01 PM

I lost count of how many threads like this go around. I assure you it isn't easier for thin people. we get the jokes, insults, rejection and hurt as much as anyone.explode

these threads usually end up talk about the other women instead of the men or their is friction.

We should all be happy with who we are and we all have preferences.
you are so right. I had a friend of mine that was very overweight and she blamed ALL he problems on it... then she got that weight loss surgery and became very disappointed to learn that being thin doesn't fix your life. The problem is actually with her, not her weight

Jill298's photo
Wed 03/26/08 01:02 PM

I lost count of how many threads like this go around. I assure you it isn't easier for thin people. we get the jokes, insults, rejection and hurt as much as anyone.explode

these threads usually end up talk about the other women instead of the men or their is friction.

We should all be happy with who we are and we all have preferences.
you are so right. I had a friend of mine that was very overweight and she blamed ALL he problems on it... then she got that weight loss surgery and became very disappointed to learn that being thin doesn't fix your life. The problem is actually with her, not her weight