Topic: Is it usual...
iamlookingforyou2's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:23 AM
for a 3 year old to lie about everything?? My daughter is 3 years old and she is my only child and when you ask her a question about something that happened, she lies to me about it when I know it was her or she lies about stupid little things that don't really matter. I was just wondering from all of you who have more than one child is this typical??

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:24 AM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Tue 03/25/08 06:26 AM
I clicked on edit not quote...I thought lol

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:25 AM

I wouldn't say unusual. kids say the darnedest things. all you can do is teach her the consequences of lying. I think it's more of fear of being in trouble. I have 1 son who is 17. he did that when he was young but I have always pushed on him that I can hand;e the truth more than a lie. with lying...you get in trouble for what you did AND for lying. with the truth...it's just for what happened. and sometimes it just might be a matter of live and let learn

evilolive's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:26 AM
its probably not a lie, but just her imagination. 3 year olds dont normally get the difference between a 'lie' which is usually meant to hurt, and what they want to be true (but just isnt) just point out to her that she has a great imagination, but this is what really happened.

when my son was three he told the neighborhood that he had 2 sisters who lived in another country... (he was an only child at the time)everyone asked me about it, i was like-what??
laugh

iamlookingforyou2's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:31 AM


I wouldn't say unusual. kids say the darnedest things. all you can do is teach her the consequences of lying. I think it's more of fear of being in trouble. I have 1 son who is 17. he did that when he was young but I have always pushed on him that I can hand;e the truth more than a lie. with lying...you get in trouble for what you did AND for lying. with the truth...it's just for what happened. and sometimes it just might be a matter of live and let learn


I have tried to stress to her that lying gets you in more trouble than telling the truth but it dosen't seem to matter.

iamlookingforyou2's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:32 AM

its probably not a lie, but just her imagination. 3 year olds dont normally get the difference between a 'lie' which is usually meant to hurt, and what they want to be true (but just isnt) just point out to her that she has a great imagination, but this is what really happened.

when my son was three he told the neighborhood that he had 2 sisters who lived in another country... (he was an only child at the time)everyone asked me about it, i was like-what??
laugh

I hope you are right!! It just scares me and needed some advice.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/25/08 06:33 AM



I wouldn't say unusual. kids say the darnedest things. all you can do is teach her the consequences of lying. I think it's more of fear of being in trouble. I have 1 son who is 17. he did that when he was young but I have always pushed on him that I can hand;e the truth more than a lie. with lying...you get in trouble for what you did AND for lying. with the truth...it's just for what happened. and sometimes it just might be a matter of live and let learn


I have tried to stress to her that lying gets you in more trouble than telling the truth but it dosen't seem to matter.


well just remember she is only 3 and may not understand it. just keep at it...and when she gets older she will understand...may still do it but will understand itflowerforyou

no photo
Tue 03/25/08 07:00 AM
YOUNG KIDS HAVE A GREAT IMAGINATION..........SHE TELLS THINGS THE BEST SHE CAN............YOU'RE OKAY........flowerforyou flowerforyou

ShadowLands's photo
Tue 03/25/08 01:36 PM
Yup....three year olds lie about everything. Wait until she brings that "Not Me" person into your life. laugh laugh

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Tue 03/25/08 07:24 PM
my son has a vivid imagination and has told the school some whoppers.He's seven.At three they are just playing make believe and aren't trying to deceive anyone.My son just likes to screw with the school people's heads and believe me he does.laugh

nikki26's photo
Wed 03/26/08 06:06 AM
my almost three year old start to talk to my front door, is that funny?

no photo
Wed 03/26/08 06:10 AM
i would consider trading him in for a newer model....before the warranty expireslaugh laugh laugh laugh










Really, it's cool.....he not really lying ...he is trying to be interesting!!

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Wed 03/26/08 02:34 PM

Yup....three year olds lie about everything. Wait until she brings that "Not Me" person into your life. laugh laugh
YEAH! then its the dog or cat did it!!!!laugh

smilingeyes_976's photo
Fri 03/28/08 11:57 AM
my daughter once had her preschool teacher she was born in hawaii.. She asked me about it one day.. And I was like.. What are you talking about... lol.

ShadowLands's photo
Fri 03/28/08 03:22 PM


Yup....three year olds lie about everything. Wait until she brings that "Not Me" person into your life. laugh laugh
YEAH! then its the dog or cat did it!!!!laugh
Yeah.....if I ever get my hands on the "Me" brothers (Not Me and Wasn't Me) I'll kill them.