Topic: Why if it's so hard for men to figure them out
N8Short's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:49 AM
Ooooh... That's trouble.
There are allot of things that go into play when making a move...
Time
Setting
Mood
Environment
etc.
My rule of thumb... Eye contact first, if it's a glance, beware, if it's a smile.... GO FOR IT. But when you do, don't approach with a "I wanna eff you" demeanor. Even if they do wanna eff you, this might just turn them off.
Like Cesar Milan says, stay cool, calm, and assertive lol :)

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:50 AM
yeah i've never had a woman approach me first either.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:50 AM
give her a compliment on something...

like every guy that is serious when approching me always makes a comment about one of my tattoos...and its pretty nice cuz then i know he's looking at ME not just oh hey theres a girl..lets go hit on her...

Jill298's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:50 AM

Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
LOL the only line I ever used that worked was "If you buy me dinner I'll cook you breakfast"laugh

no photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:50 AM

you don't need lines and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE spare me the cheezy lines grumble grumble grumble


But Jill Darrhlling...Why you look finer than a new set of snow tires...

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:50 AM


Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
I don't use lines


I didn't say you did. You asked for ideas... translation 'lines'. Script? What word would you feel comfortable with?

I'm saying why can't you just talk to them the same way you would anyone else.

Wolfshado's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:51 AM
i'm not gonna wait for a woman to make the first move, i want her to hit me with a Clue by four laugh laugh laugh

Jtevans's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:51 AM

Sometimes they do... I love it when that happens. It makes me feel special.




ditto

wiley's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:52 AM
"Hi. You know, you look like my sister. She's got a purty mouth too."

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:52 AM


Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
LOL the only line I ever used that worked was "If you buy me dinner I'll cook you breakfast"laugh
Oh well that reminds me I actually did use 1 line. I told her she looked like my second wife. she said "god how many times you been married" I said once and she laughed at me and walked away.

franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:52 AM
noway lmao

"Hi. You know, you look like my sister. She's got a purty mouth too."


no photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:52 AM
<----hiding behind the couch!!noway

no photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:53 AM

I'm saying why can't you just talk to them the same way you would anyone else.


Because I hate it when my brain decides to shut down, or I get functionally stupid. Happens occasionally around gals I think are very attractive.


go figure. :wink:

kidatheart70's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:53 AM

I hate first time meetings of any kind... They're always awkward.. embarassed



They don't have to be....unless the other person is a lunatic!laugh

I've met people from here and it was great!bigsmile

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:53 AM



Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
I don't use lines


I didn't say you did. You asked for ideas... translation 'lines'. Script? What word would you feel comfortable with?

I'm saying why can't you just talk to them the same way you would anyone else.
believe it or not woman i find attractive make me nervous laugh

Jill298's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:55 AM




Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
I don't use lines


I didn't say you did. You asked for ideas... translation 'lines'. Script? What word would you feel comfortable with?

I'm saying why can't you just talk to them the same way you would anyone else.
believe it or not woman i find attractive make me nervous laugh
lol start talking to ugly ones for practice thenlaugh

franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:55 AM
then I suggest you conquer your nerves, if you dont try you will never know flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:55 AM





Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
I don't use lines


I didn't say you did. You asked for ideas... translation 'lines'. Script? What word would you feel comfortable with?

I'm saying why can't you just talk to them the same way you would anyone else.
believe it or not woman i find attractive make me nervous laugh
lol start talking to ugly ones for practice thenlaugh



roflmaoooooooooo Jill laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:56 AM
i MET a bottle of wine and chocolates on my doorstep!!! Ya that was great!!!bigsmile drinker

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:56 AM
Well, I hate to say it but nothing we can say or ideas we can offer will do anything to help you get over your own self.

All I can tell you is that you are making a choice. Try making a different one.