Topic: Why if it's so hard for men to figure them out
franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:36 AM
drinker drinker

ARE WE MEN OR MICE!?!
You don't really have to know anything about women except whether or not they want to be bothered by YOU.... ;)
So don't be scared... Make a move... Worst case scenario..... They say get lost... Big deal.
Start making more moves, you'll find out allot more about women if you do :)

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:36 AM

ARE WE MEN OR MICE!?!
You don't really have to know anything about women except whether or not they want to be bothered by YOU.... ;)
So don't be scared... Make a move... Worst case scenario..... They say get lost... Big deal.
Start making more moves, you'll find out allot more about women if you do :)
Don't get me wrong I do. My friends laugh and call me Johnny Smashgrumble ...on account that I crash and burn everytime.laugh laugh

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Mon 03/24/08 11:37 AM
<----moves slowly out of the room....noway

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:37 AM
Not unless your hot...laugh laugh

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:38 AM

<----moves slowly out of the room....noway
Don't leave its only a friendly conversation.

ljcc1964's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:38 AM
Let me count the ways.....

Brenda_Darling's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:40 AM
i turn alot of guys down just cuz of the way they come up to me...or if they ask me 4 my number right off the bat...or what they say.

Jill298's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:40 AM



I did.

Careful about generalizing dude... I made the first moves in just about every area of my current relationship.
I've made tons of first moves lol all for nothing


No, you did have the one dude rub and grind up against you on the couch, right??smokin
ooooh lilith, I was TRYING to forget about thatgrumble grumble laugh

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Mon 03/24/08 11:40 AM
I hate first time meetings of any kind... They're always awkward.. embarassed

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Mon 03/24/08 11:41 AM
On some level, anyways. No? ohwell

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:41 AM

I hate first time meetings of any kind... They're always awkward.. embarassed
Me too.drinker

Jill298's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:43 AM
I will make a first move if a guy gives me some kind of sign... smile, wink, staring at me... that kind of thing, I will walk over and say hello if he's to chicken to come talk to me laugh laugh but if he hasn't shown me any interest, I usually don't go talk to them

LatinaRose16's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:43 AM
I have absolutely no problem with making the first move. Sadly, I've been told that some guys don't like that....makes them feel emasculated. Go figure.

Can't win for losing in the dating game people.

me2g's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:44 AM

<---- will make the first move...I have no shame laugh

she really doesntlaugh

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:45 AM

I will make a first move if a guy gives me some kind of sign... smile, wink, staring at me... that kind of thing, I will walk over and say hello if he's to chicken to come talk to me laugh laugh but if he hasn't shown me any interest, I usually don't go talk to them
Well okay then let me get some advice. I don't use pick up lines and usually just walk up and introduce myself then for the most part i really don't know what to say next any ideas?

franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:48 AM
it's really not that difficult, a friendly hello, a reason why your approaching her (compliment), overhead her comment etc... just try for friendly not desperate jmo

good luck flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:48 AM
Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?

MonkeyBob's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:48 AM

Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
I don't use lines

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Mon 03/24/08 11:49 AM
<---Rarely has ever had a woman make the 'first move'

Either that - or I am generally to thick-skulled to notice.

Your choice! :tongue:

Jill298's photo
Mon 03/24/08 11:49 AM

Why don't you just talk to them like you would anyone else? Why do you need a line?
you don't need lines and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE spare me the cheezy lines grumble grumble grumble