Ok, I havent been on a date for 2 years now, much less even talk to someone or anything like that. I just wanted to get tat out of the way before I asked this question hehe.. Last night at the club I DJ, there was a new bartender that was hired. After the club closed we got started talking, and she told me she was interested in me, so i asked for her number, and she gave it to me. Ok, I have been out of the dating talking thing for a long time, so heres my question. Do I call her tonight? Should I wait a day or two? I mean I dont know. Is there some kinda rule for that or am I just way old, and out of touch lol... Any elp would be great..

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Hasn't changed that much. Go for it!

naa dude just call her.. get that out of the way before you gotta see her at work and it gets awkward like "oh how come you didnt call me?"

give her a call.

I'd wait until monday. That way you can chat about how the rest of your weekend was and maybe set something up like coffee later in the week.

The only dating "rules" that I'm aware of are the one's in your heart. Follow your heart, not what other's deem as proper etiquette!

What do you want to do? If you want to call her, go ahead. I don't think there should be "rules" about this.

Call her , so she doesn't think that your not interested

I agree, show her your intrest right back!
Hi RJ

when dating someone in the public eye, and she's interested in you, call her sooner than later, but keep being yourself, don't act desperate, think of her as a friend, because that's what you want anyhow. others will call, and be more forthright, but just be relaxed, and enjoy her company, and the rest should follow naturally.

HE** no don't wait,,, Call her now and say thank you and yes let's do something,,,Anything,,,, Take time to get to know her and be honest with her and yourself

Stop thinking before you do anything. You are over analyzing. If you want to do that? Go to this thread... They actually have a system to over analyzing.

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/56322

Don't do that STUPID waiting thing ! Call her.

i will say if this happened sat.night...let it be for a day, and then call the day after that.

being a girl, it's enough time that she's thought about and forgotten about it in the hustle of the days busy-ness...but soon enough to just remind and let her know you're interested.
no big plans needed.
go get her...be sweet.

I would say call her and wish her a happy easter!
Some might not think that apropriate, not really
knowing her that well but I would show her you were thinking of her,

that's a great idea

Me too

Didn't you say you are working in the same bar? Don't call her. It's not a good idea to be dating someone you are working with.