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Topic: I love you??????
dreadhead's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:10 PM
Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?

itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:12 PM
ask them to tat your name

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:12 PM
I say it to half the people on this site.

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:12 PM

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?
they are lying

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:12 PM
You cant tell........you can only feel it. Words are just words.....actions speak louder than words......remember that!!bigsmile

italio69's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:13 PM

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?
there sincerity when saying it and eye contact

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:14 PM

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?


If they don't snicker after saying it. Unfortunately, most women DO snicker after saying "I love you".

writer_gurl's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:14 PM
The difference is in their voice when they say it.If they say it with feeling they do love you and if they say it flippantly...something is definately wrong.

Totage's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:14 PM

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?


If you're questioning their sincerity, it's not true.

wyatt1844's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:15 PM

You cant tell........you can only feel it. Words are just words.....actions speak louder than words......remember that!!bigsmile


I second that motion....

It's not what they say, it's what they do...

Puffins1958's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:16 PM
It is a wonderful feeling that NEVER goes away. You feel like your on a CLOUD....at least I know that's how I feel.

flowerforyou

MICHELLE_C's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:19 PM
actions do speak louder than words. but if i love is said during sex they could also be lying

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:20 PM

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?


Honestly, my feeling is that if you have to ask other people, then it probably isn't true. If it was you would feel it.

dreadhead's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:21 PM
wow, quick responses :p
Well, me and her haven't been together for that long, and she is a bit younger, and we are usually far away, I'm out of the states often, so I'm just not sure. Thanks for all the responses.

me2g's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:37 PM

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?


look into their eyes.. they tell all.. they are after all the windows to the soul.

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:43 PM
If she acts like she cares about you and tells you she loves you, she probably means it. Now if she acts like she wouldn't care if you dropped dead, then said I love you, it's doubtful. :)

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:45 PM

You cant tell........you can only feel it. Words are just words.....actions speak louder than words......remember that!!bigsmile
Agree, agree, agree on the actions speak louder than words consept.

MarineGirl1982's photo
Sun 03/23/08 12:20 AM
Never believe them if the first time they say it is during sex and that is the only time they say it as it is said in lust not love, and if they say it in their sleep usually means it is true or they look you directly in the eyes and say it. If they cant look you in the eyes and say it they are lying :heart:

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/23/08 12:39 AM
actions speak louder than words. take it for whay is said

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 03/23/08 01:05 AM
You love me? But it's so soon...oh wait...crap didn't read the threadgrumble

Anyway love is a very touchy word, the emotion is far harder than most people can assume. Depends on the length of time together, the mutual feelings about the relationship (good/bad), and the bond between the two. Difficult to achieve, and harder to see through a fog of lust.

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