Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?

ask them to tat your name

What's the big deal if someone says I love you???

How does that change anything??

Are you now obligated, in some way??? NO !!!!!!!!!!!

Geeeezzzzuuuusss... no wonder half the world is on prozac...

someone says I love you... they are sharing with you how they feel....of course it's real...AT THAT MOMENT...

it's no different to saying I feel ill... it is a sharing of a feeling...

say thankyou... and be done with the agony aunt thing... sheeeesh!

Here's a question that I've been wandering about, I want to see what you all think. When someone that your in a relationship with tells you that they love you, how can you tell if they mean it, or if there just saying it?

Pull outta gun and stick it up against their forehead and ask them "Do you friggin love me now b*tch !!". That always works for me.

Pull outta gun and stick it up against their forehead and ask them "Do you friggin love me now b*tch !!". That always works for me.

My new guy of three week's seem's bothered when I tell him I like him. He say's you like this and that. I can't say it before I mean it!

You love me? But it's so soon...oh wait...crap didn't read the thread

Anyway love is a very touchy word, the emotion is far harder than most people can assume. Depends on the length of time together, the mutual feelings about the relationship (good/bad), and the bond between the two. Difficult to achieve, and harder to see through a fog of lust.

I can be pretty dense at time's. Thing's do go over my head. Am I missing something in his response? Pls respond.

I love my new toilet paper. Its really soft.

I said this in another thread not too long ago. It fits in with this thread too, so here we go.

"LOVE" is a word that is used so much nowadays that I honestly believe that people today just do not know what "LOVE" truly is or what it means. If you have great sex, and then you think because of that great sex that you are in love, then you would be wrong. Sex is a vital part to a healthy relationship, and I believe that when you truly love someone that sex is even greater than if you just liked them. Still, people will associate great sex with being in love. But if that is all the relationship is about, then you truly aren't in love at all.

You have to spend time with someone and see who they are and what they are all about. You have to know what qualities you want in a partner so that when you find him or her, then you know that you have found someone that you could fall in love with. You can have a good time with someone and not be in love with them. Yet, some people feel that if this exists then it might be true love. It could, but it can also be that you and him/her are just meant to be friends. You have to talk, communicate, and spend time with each other to develop the relationship. I do believe that love at first sight does exist, but then again, I feel you still have to develop the relationship to really see if it is exactly that.

My feeling is that when you are in love, which is what you have to be in order to have a relationship that can work, you can feel it in so many ways. The touch when holding hands, the embraces you share, the little glances and smiles that you give to one another, making each other blush, missing them so much when you are not around them, holding them tight and feeling wanted. And, yes, words do mean something to. Actions do speak louder, but words can resonate so much that they have meaning. Basically, I always have felt that when you are in love with someone, you know it because you simply feel it and most of the time trying to express it is a difficult thing to do.

Yet, you still have to be careful. As I said, most people just don't understand what being in love means. Which is very sad, cause in general, all of us want to be in love. Yet, we get it all wrong. Divorce rates are high simply because love takes work, and nowadays people are so self centered that they don't wanna put the effort into it. But that is part of being in love. It does take work. From both parties involved. When you love someone, you should be willing to do fight for that love. So sad that we don't.