People are saying let loose here. OK. I'll do it. There's hardly anyone on here with guts enough to exchange addresses and phone numbers, let alone arrange a meeting for a date within an hour's worth of driving time. Vas is Los chillen? And people complain about romantic failure? Get a grip.

As Bill Clinton would say, give me a break!

And if they do exchange 'em, they don't bother returning letters and/or calls. Even folks you e-mail don't bother returning your comments half the time.

Cheez!

End of vent/end of rant.

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Hmmm.. I always answer my emails. But I am selective on who has my address or telephone number. Thats the safe thing to do.

WRONG I did, met a great guy had a great time.

If a guy was attractive (in every sense of the word) in my area, I'd gladly go on a date with them and exchange phone numbers, etc. Hasn't happened yet and might never since all the cute guys I find attractive live way too far away.

well I gave my number out to a girl and she claims it doesn't work. She gave me her # and I called but a guy answered the phone with children in the background hollering "daddy" !

thats not usually a good sign

got get a email frist then be able to aswer that

The number thing works both ways. I met a guy gave him my number. He called we went out that night and i haven't heard from him again.

Drag. Things is kind of a hit or miss affair, I reckon. I just figure JSH is a good place to seek advice and vent and if things work out, cool and if not, cool. Either way, I chill.

The thing that also gets me is you start going back and forth with the e-mails with someone and you start trying to make arrangements to meet and suddenly, nothing. Things stop cold. People don't even do you the courtesy of saying, well, I don't wanna talk any more becuase of.....

What's up with that?

Once i find out why people don't tell us that they aren't into us anymore. You will be the first I tell. Because it just drives me nuts.