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I guess I was lucky and in a way doomed at the same time. But I enjoy this site a lot and the community. I don't think there is a better website out there that offers a free service and such nice people to chat with.  
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I guess I was lucky and in a way doomed at the same time. But I enjoy this site a lot and the community. I don't think there is a better website out there that offers a free service and such nice people to chat with. Yep, if you want online friends, jsh is the place for you. :) |
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Its what you make it. So I will make the best of it.
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My heart. I should have not allowed myself to fall for a person so quickly. Love hurts. I understand people use/abuse the word Love. Most use it in generic ways. When I used Love, or My Love for her as in how she made me feel. We could talk about anything. So many same interests. I loved her smile, her mind, spirit, looks. I don't hardly put myself out on the line as I did. But after all the times we talked on the phone and it was a lot, I let my guard down for something I guess what not on the other end. She express all the same feels towards me, but I guess love was not what she was feeling inside, and that is what I felt inside. That is what I mean by I hurt myself. |
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My heart. I should have not allowed myself to fall for a person so quickly. Love hurts. I understand people use/abuse the word Love. Most use it in generic ways. When I used Love, or My Love for her as in how she made me feel. We could talk about anything. So many same interests. I loved her smile, her mind, spirit, looks. I don't hardly put myself out on the line as I did. But after all the times we talked on the phone and it was a lot, I let my guard down for something I guess what not on the other end. She express all the same feels towards me, but I guess love was not what she was feeling inside, and that is what I felt inside. That is what I mean by I hurt myself. 
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I never got an explanation.. we stopped being friends soon after.. good riddance was all i could say.. last time i saw she was meeting people off the net and having sex on the first meeting and then they never talked to her again  Ew, it's good you aren't with her then, she might have given you an STD. Gross! Yea.. she was a "virgin" before we dated I kinda doubt it.. the time we were friends she hooked up with a lot of guys and never told me about it not that I cared, but it would have been better I knew about her slutty tendencies before going out with her.. |
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Ah yes, pretending to be a virgin. Why do people think that's sexy? LOL And it's not just women who do it, guys do it too. I've talked to many men who were "waiting for the one" and "couldn't find anyone to help them out," and they were hoping I'd be her. LMFAO!!!
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Edited by
andrew101888
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Sat 03/22/08 07:15 PM
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Ah yes, pretending to be a virgin. Why do people think that's sexy? LOL And it's not just women who do it, guys do it too. I've talked to many men who were "waiting for the one" and "couldn't find anyone to help them out," and they were hoping I'd be her. LMFAO!!! I'm a virgin 
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Ah yes, pretending to be a virgin. Why do people think that's sexy? LOL And it's not just women who do it, guys do it too. I've talked to many men who were "waiting for the one" and "couldn't find anyone to help them out," and they were hoping I'd be her. LMFAO!!! I'm a virgin  roflmao
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Ah yes, pretending to be a virgin. Why do people think that's sexy? LOL And it's not just women who do it, guys do it too. I've talked to many men who were "waiting for the one" and "couldn't find anyone to help them out," and they were hoping I'd be her. LMFAO!!! I'm a virgin roflmao whats wrong with that?? im young |
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I guess another thing I have come to learn from this, is love hurts. I was with this women a long time ago, we dated for almost 4 years. And we broke up. My heart hurt so badly back then. I thought I was gong to die, but I got over the pain, took almost a year to heal, and now after 5 years I have that pain again. I guess in the end we can forget something, and let our guard down on other things. Can you say you actually fell "In Love" with her mainly over a webcam, email, and telephone? In person for two days? Similar scenario for me a few years back, I was crazy about this women, we date for a long time and it went really well. I was ready to take it to the next level and she wasnt, simply because of her life and what she was involved in with academics and her career. I was confused and didnt understand, I thought I loved her, but in looking back I honestly think it was more of an infatuation now....I truly beleive Love doesnt happen overnight. Maybe it's the need of having someone? Missing that and wanting it so bad? sorry but its nice to see guys that actually have feelings too..and show/talk about them as well.very rare ive found...but i gotta say, i almost fell for a guy, well, practically did fall for one on here, my first date here as well.we chatted all, adn i mean all, the time during the day,met, all was well.or so i thought, til poste a testimonial one night.his g/f saw it by chance and emailed me.needless to say,theyd been dating since dec...so yeh, its easy to fall sometimes on here if u spend alot of time here etc.after all, we're all human.... |
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Good way to look at it. I met a guy off the net and realized we weren't going to work out after the second date. It was only 2 weeks into the "relationship" so it wasn't too bad. And I was polite enough to explain to him why. No idea why people can't be considerate. *shakes head* see....why cant everyone just be polite about why theyre not interested etc??? i guess not everyone's heard of "do unto others..."...shall we start a subject based on that??i bet u did him a world of wonders deep down explaining things to him...kudos to ya!!! 
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Good way to look at it. I met a guy off the net and realized we weren't going to work out after the second date. It was only 2 weeks into the "relationship" so it wasn't too bad. And I was polite enough to explain to him why. No idea why people can't be considerate. *shakes head* see....why cant everyone just be polite about why theyre not interested etc??? i guess not everyone's heard of "do unto others..."...shall we start a subject based on that??i bet u did him a world of wonders deep down explaining things to him...kudos to ya!!! Yeah, I'll never get why that's so hard to do. Just say, I'm not interested. Or if you "aren't ready for anything" don't go on a dating site and say you want to date and then get people interested and announce, "oh wait, I'm not ready to date." It's crap. Seriously. |
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Good way to look at it. I met a guy off the net and realized we weren't going to work out after the second date. It was only 2 weeks into the "relationship" so it wasn't too bad. And I was polite enough to explain to him why. No idea why people can't be considerate. *shakes head* see....why cant everyone just be polite about why theyre not interested etc??? i guess not everyone's heard of "do unto others..."...shall we start a subject based on that??i bet u did him a world of wonders deep down explaining things to him...kudos to ya!!! Yeah, I'll never get why that's so hard to do. Just say, I'm not interested. Or if you "aren't ready for anything" don't go on a dating site and say you want to date and then get people interested and announce, "oh wait, I'm not ready to date." It's crap. Seriously. why cant dating be like burger king.."have it your way", as in make your own match and live happily ever after ??? 
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you're lucky! one of the women i met a few years ago from an online site,she didn't even talk to me while i was stuck at her house for 3 days!.instead i ended up talking to her friends the whole time
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you're lucky! one of the women i met a few years ago from an online site,she didn't even talk to me while i was stuck at her house for 3 days!.instead i ended up talking to her friends the whole time awwww....you poor baby....waaaasssssss up evans ???? |
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Gawd, what was her problem??? And yeah, it'd be easier if we could order "the perfect man/woman." I'm thinking androids now. :)
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you're lucky! one of the women i met a few years ago from an online site,she didn't even talk to me while i was stuck at her house for 3 days!.instead i ended up talking to her friends the whole time awwww....you poor baby....waaaasssssss up evans ???? not much,bored and trying to make as much noise as i can.thinking about running down the road yelling at the top of my lungs,just cause i can
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Gawd, what was her problem??? And yeah, it'd be easier if we could order "the perfect man/woman." I'm thinking androids now. :) "I ROBOT" perhaps....lol....myob.."make your own babe"... |
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