Alright this is what's going on. I started a new job last week, and this cute co-worker asked if I would like to hang out. Last night, we went out for some drinks. Then we watched a movie at my apartment. (Some kissing that was it, and nothing futher was pursed incase anyone cares)

People at work said he very nice (but that's at work I know) and he seems very nice and polite.
Well the point of the story is I looked up his criminal record, and comes to find out he had some charges of 4th degree sexual assult charges that he was never convicted of, (maybe because they may have not been able to prove it?) I also found a whole slew of things, also when he was 20 he was gulity of having sex with someone with over 16. Something like that?

So...... Any ideas and or thoughts?

Run! That is very scary, I would be afraid..Your to beautiful to settle for less

you mean he had sex with someone under 18 as in some states its declared sag rape.. i would actually keep your eyes open and be very cauious. he might be nice but you never know he could backstab you... keep your guard up

I work with this guy, so I'm thinking just politely blow him off kinda thing?

I agree with keeping your guard up but the past is in the past. People learn and grow

where did you look up this info???

Wisconsin Court Access

Wisconsin Court Access

is there a website??

I'm tripping out that you even looked him up, I would be offended but at the same time with what you found out... Well, WOW!!!

My rule is don't date people you work with and then you won't have these issues...

Maybe you can say your ex and you are going to try to work things out or something so you don't have issues at work...

if you had a daughter, what would you tell her?

Yep, I'm not sure if every state has it? But go to Google and Wisconsin Court Access, you can type in the name of the person and all there, well all occurances in Wisconsin

stop stop stop dating people from work

Never mix business with pleasure, cause if you have a bad break-up and have to work with that person or they have authority over you..Yikes...

Nah we actually work in different departments?

you know when something goes terribly wrong and people just say " I never saw it coming... there were no warning signs, no red flags" lol here's your flag darlin

Are you sure it's him and not someone with the same name? That happened to a friend of mine.

Yeah, the address and everything matches up.

I have done that myself here in Maryland. They have a great website for civil and criminal records. Thank goodness for public record. It has caused me to open my eyes a little wider on a few women I met.

Easiest solution is to back off if this put you in an uncomfortable state. Go with your gut....