I used get the strange looks on that one for a while, too, never cared, at least 'til I had to explain it to my last girlfriend. Most didn't give it any more thought after explaining the whole deal with the kids. Besides that, we actually have things in common and our bands share stages once in a while. We have a lot fun together, we just can't BE together!

We are friends, but not "good" friends.

We where friends till I found out when we where married he was meeting ummmm ho's off the internet and had pic's of his tiny member on all the adult personal ad's...Also his girlfriend's of 12yrs kinda ended the love between us....He is so bad he make's Larry Flynt look like a choir boy!

first one: dont know where she's at, dont care

second one: we'd shoot each other on sight

Third: no anamosity, supposed to be friends but kinda lopsided, cost me more money now than when i was married to her. moved an hour away and still cant get rid of her, quick someone take her

damn, dannette, your hot you know that

wow - no wonder you drink.

Thank-you sweetie!

seldom darlin, but definately to tie one on, but never, ever, hit one, feel for ya on that and understand your position

Have 3 ex's that still call me ..

1. was over 15 yrs ago .. ran into him when i was out with a friend two years ago.. my platonic guy friend invited him to join us while i was thinking you dumb*** - the exs all time record was 53 calls in one day what a psycho babbling about how he loves me and wants to be with me again and get married.

NO! A guy I shortly dated (friend) went as far as telling him to stop calling last year and he still called. Last weekend he called again. So this guy I dated called him up and said she lives with me now stop calling knowing he would call his number back. So he put on his answering machine both our names and his last name and thanking everyone who attended our wedding. This may not have been the right thing to do but he hasnt called since. ::fingers crossed::

2. Guy I lived with for a few years - calls to see if we can get back together. I will buy us a house, cars, anything you want lets get married. and the famous... I know you love me routine.

NO! There is a reason we are not together it didnt work then it will not work now. He calls every 6 to 8 months to see if i changed my mind.

3. Ex that calls asking for sex.

NO! Not ever going there again try your hand. click.


*An Ex is an ex for a reason usually a valid one not a minor one. The only ex I barely speak to is the ex husband regarding our son when decisions need to be made - medical, school, etc We have to agree or compromise in the best interests of our son.

hey everyone lives the life they need to live. That is what makes life interesting. If eveyone were like me I would have to kill myself.

first: wanted to divorce his (our) kid. Haven't talked to him in 5 yrs.

second: wants more than I do

An ex is an ex for a reason...

stella, lets get married

Bravo (((pats)))

My ex claims Im her best friend....whenever shes in trouble. Right now she works for me,and is discovering the guy she left me for has homosexual tendencies, so shes sweeter than stolen watermelon.But shes always subject to go on the attack first time things arent going her way.

I hope one day to be able to be friends with the ex...but he is so angry, blames me for everything and i aint going to thrash him on here..anyway, i wish we could be civil with each other... we do have kids together and they are the ones that get hurt.
I am very good friends with my 1st love...have been for about 30yrs and will always be just friends

some people can be just friends after and some need all or nothing.

i have an ex to and i havent talked to him in years he cheated on me for 2 years

i drop my exs and forget about them thats bottom line its been 3 years without anyone everyone well my opion but its not for everybody you see better world out there and they dont talk to me which even better how can anyone on hear be looking for somone and have exs calling you and talking you i seen couple good freinds lose there mates over that its not worth the misery peace have good one.

I have avoided calls, asked them not to call, person I dated asked them not to call bottom line I cannot control what they do only what I do believe me they were all ended relationships when it happened which has been clear on my part however I dont get how I can be blunt or rude and someone still doesnt "get it" someone else is rude as well and they still refuse to "get it"

I realize this can cause a problem dating or new relationship its not fair to me either its rather annoying I even changed my house phone number but I cannot change my cell due to my work. The next and only step I would have is a legal one which would piss the guy off to unpredictable recourse coming back to me.

No matter what I pay the price for something im not doing.

I had no problem with my ex, it didnt work after 6 yrs but i didnt wanna leave it all behind and not be able to atleast talk once in awhile.I guess he felt different and he couldnt do it. So he choose to do some hurtful things to me that forced me not to be able to have him in my life at all. oh well...

we talk. but having kids together makes that necessary. We get along better now than when we were married. Hard to believe but after living and being with him for 18 years I know his habits and personalities. I think the funniest conversation I had with him was when he called me and told me that this girl he had been talking to stopped seeing him because she said he was boring. So he asked me. LOL ( He never goes out. Stays home and its video games, computers, and movies. ) That works for him. but not for most people. I did try to explain that in the nicest way possible.