Topic: life with ex's
lilith401's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:18 AM

long story, still waiting to meet, she is supposed to go to her doctor on tuesday, and then see if she needs surgery


I wish her health and you two... a fantastic date. :wink:

romeo1975's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:19 AM
thanks i appreciate that

BluLuvly's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:21 AM
I'm sry I'm new here, but I have to give my input on this. Try being married for 16 yrs. and have a husband that would rather have girlfriends than a wife. I know first hand he's no friend when 1 of his girlfriends show up & knock on your door. Now that's a slap in the face. Bren

romeo1975's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:22 AM
sorry to hear that, and btw welcome to jsh, its a fun magical place where i know i have been happy since i joined. If i can be of any service plz dont hesitate to ask

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:23 AM
I don't know if I can really say I'm good friends with any of them, but as far as I know I'm still on good terms with all of them.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:23 AM
They are called Ex's for a reasonlaugh drinker laugh

BluLuvly's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:24 AM
ty romeo that's very nice of u but I have found someone that is sweet & caring but I didn't find him on this site

romeo1975's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:24 AM
am i noticing a little tension there pats????

romeo1975's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:25 AM

ty romeo that's very nice of u but I have found someone that is sweet & caring but I didn't find him on this site
oh no wasn't implying that, just making a friendly hello and welcome

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:25 AM

am i noticing a little tension there pats????















None sirhappy

romeo1975's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:25 AM
there will be no tension in my forum!!! grumble

Silntstrnger's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:26 AM
i really can't stand my ex..

BluLuvly's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:26 AM
romeo ur pretty kewl. ur like me u speek ur mind

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:27 AM
I don't drive the cars I use to own eitherlaugh laugh

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:27 AM
My first ex husband and I havent spoken since we divorced years
ago.

My second ex husband and I are friends. We get along better
now then when we were married.

BluLuvly's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:27 AM
it's been fun but I need to go hope to talk with all of u later

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:28 AM

So how many people in here are still good friends with their ex... i know with me i have not had a lot of g/f's and was engaged once, but i am still pretty good friends with most, except for 1, who broke up with me by leaving a message on my answering machine saying she had been cheating on me for 2 months, and never wanted to see me again.


One of my best friends is an ex-gf who is now married with 2 kids. We weren't good "relationship material" for each other --she was obsessed with the idea of "domesticating" me, which was never going to work -- but she's a truly great person, one who is always there for her friends and who I dearly love. Some people do think it's a little strange that we're so close now, so many years after we dated, but people with great qualities are going to have those qualities whether you're dating them or not.


romeo1975's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:28 AM
me speak my mind, well i gave my mind a temporary leave of absence, haven't seen it since, but thanks for the kind words blu, i am always around if you need help.

BluLuvly's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:29 AM
ty romeo

ttoplibrarian's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:34 AM
We weren't friends when married either. We don't speak.