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I don't care if I sound mopy or like I am looking for pity or any crap like that, but why do typically nice guys finish last?      Because a good number of women are co-dependent by nature and crave drama of any and all forms, that's why. They'd rather live their lives like they're on some second-rate soap opera than have a stable relationship with a fella who won't give them two black eyes because they had been told twice. It isn't until they get older that they decided to want some more stability in their lives, but it's often too late by then.  I don't mean for what I've said to be inflammatory, either- it's just coming from things I've seen and even experienced over time. Example- I've been getting e-mails from former female classmates of mine lately looking to "get re-acquainted" via a coffee date, etc. And this would be fine, if they had given me the time of day back IN the day, which they didn't. But now that they're no longer the prom queen who's been lusted after by all the fellas and after they've been dumped by too many "bad boys" over the years, they NOW decide that they want to settle down by hooking up with someone who didn't waste his high school years being a douchebag. So they come calling after me, who was the proverbial skinny (and abnormally-tall) geeky kid back in school- they expect me to run to them like a puppy while they practically ignored me, simply because of those old high-school memories. It's just too bad (for them, that is) that I know better than to be the fella who has to deal with the "sloppy seconds". Well, at least you're not bitter about it.  Realistically, I'm not. I'm just not gonna play their sordid little games. I've wasted enough of my years dealing with that stuff, and I don't feel like going through any more of it. |
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I don't care if I sound mopy or like I am looking for pity or any crap like that, but why do typically nice guys finish last? Think hard. You must suck like the rest of us somehow! hey glen   Hey Darlin' Tell these girls how nice I really am.   must of missed this yesterday, Glen ATTENTION LADIES!! Glen here a super nice guy i've known him a while now and he is sweet, sexy, charming and well????? i'll have to tell him in an email  but really Glen is a sweetheart..get to know him, you'll see..
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Girls want a great looking, model type niceguy..which is few and far between. Because those types can have whoever they want so why do they need to stick with jsut one.
Women fawn over them and will do anything to keep them even put up with thier bs. There was a survey done and they asked what was a turn off to women.. and they most was a guy that was too nice. Nice guys dont finish last... we just get the used up leftovers from the bad boys when they are done toying with them and we are left with jaded and used up women..LOL Why is is a girl can call herself beautiful.. but a guy cant say he is a nice guy? I dont have to say im a nice I have testimonials on another site that say it for me...but that dont seem to even phase these women who want 6 pack abs... I have responded to just aobut every single person who as written me. Regardless if I am attracted to them or not. There is no reason not to be nice to people. The funny thing is when women say they are OPEN MINDED then give a list of specifactions of what they want to a T..LOL Sooooo much for open minded..LOL |
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Girls want a great looking, model type niceguy..which is few and far between. Because those types can have whoever they want so why do they need to stick with jsut one. Women fawn over them and will do anything to keep them even put up with thier bs. There was a survey done and they asked what was a turn off to women.. and they most was a guy that was too nice. Nice guys dont finish last... we just get the used up leftovers from the bad boys when they are done toying with them and we are left with jaded and used up women..LOL Why is is a girl can call herself beautiful.. but a guy cant say he is a nice guy? I dont have to say im a nice I have testimonials on another site that say it for me...but that dont seem to even phase these women who want 6 pack abs... I have responded to just aobut every single person who as written me. Regardless if I am attracted to them or not. There is no reason not to be nice to people. The funny thing is when women say they are OPEN MINDED then give a list of specifactions of what they want to a T..LOL Sooooo much for open minded..LOL Would you just quit your whining, it's very unflattering. |
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I don't care if I sound mopy or like I am looking for pity or any crap like that, but why do typically nice guys finish last? 1 - maybe you're not as nice as you think 2 - maybe you're picking the wrong partners 3 - maybe you just cant run fast enought 4 - maybe you just haven't found the right one (yet) 5 - maybe you're just waiting for her to fall into your lap? good luck, apply yourself, she may very well be right under your eyes. |
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I think... most of the problem with these "nice" guy threads is that the word nice is a broad, vague term that has too many viewpoints and definitions. It's like "good" or "bad" or "fine".
In general, the word seems to be viewed as not at all a "nice" thing when people use it to describe themselves. Is it nice to whine and complain that women do not want you? Could it possibly be things about a person other than the alleged "niceness" that women do not find attractive? |
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well I'm open minded and give a list, but mine are more about being honest etc.
I don't think there is anything wrong with thinking you are a nice person. I think I am too In my experience...people are used to a "comfort zone" of how they have been treated and they don't know how to react to something different. I try to be understanding of this as long as they are honest about it |
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I don't care if I sound mopy or like I am looking for pity or any crap like that, but why do typically nice guys finish last? Nice or doormat,not digging at you personally but there is a big difference between being NICE and still having an edge or being a complete doormat that most women get p.o'd with fairly quickly.It's not the nice guy's that finish last it's the doormats J.M.O |
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I do want a nice man. I don't want a "bad boy". I don't want drama. I don't want a man who is stuck on himself, abusive or has abs of steel, etc. The person who originated this made stereotypical comments.
We tend to subconsciously attract people for a reason. He needs to look at his own garbage to see what it is about him that he attracts or is attracted to less than stellar women. And, it seems that, in my age bracket at least, most of the good guys are taken or raising kids or providing, or too hurt to get involved with a seriously nice lady. Heck, it's all a crap shoot.... 
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I don't care if I sound mopy or like I am looking for pity or any crap like that, but why do typically nice guys finish last? Nice or doormat,not digging at you personally but there is a big difference between being NICE and still having an edge or being a complete doormat that most women get p.o'd with fairly quickly.It's not the nice guy's that finish last it's the doormats J.M.O I was married to a "bad boy" for 8 years and I'm finally getting out of the bad boy relationship. He didn't have abs of steel either so, that stereotype doesn't apply. This guy was 6'3 310 pounds. I recently went on my first date with a "nice guy". This guy was sweet, sensitive, good listener, etc. He held my jacket for me and made me walk in front of him. I was so suprised that this sort of man existed. We met later and when I told him no that I wouldn't go home with him-he didn't get mad and raise Cain. He even called the next day. The worst part is...I think I gave this wonderful man the flu! Pray for me people...I need some normalcy in my life! |
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i have one thing to say....blah
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I don't care if I sound mopy or like I am looking for pity or any crap like that, but why do typically nice guys finish last? Nice or doormat,not digging at you personally but there is a big difference between being NICE and still having an edge or being a complete doormat that most women get p.o'd with fairly quickly.It's not the nice guy's that finish last it's the doormats J.M.O we have a winner |
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i have one thing to say....blah 
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these threads are still stupid
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Yep. But you're still reading it... so am I.
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Am I allowed to laugh at this?
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Am I allowed to laugh at this? Please do. We all did. |
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I'm with a nice guy.
I chose him. He didn't finish last... You only hear about the women with ****ty guys because nice guys don't cause trouble. |
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yes lil that is true we are still reading it lol
and will prob continue lol |
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yes lil that is true we are still reading it lol and will prob continue lol With voyeuristic fascination....
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