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Topic: Trust
Tobias1540's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:21 PM
To me a relationship is based on trust. So why is that people who admitidly have trust issues try to get into a serious relationship?

Now at first I was dumb and thought that after a while i could get her to trust me. But as everyone learns trust issues do not go away when people are in a serious relationship, they are just hidden at first and then eventually sneack back up.

irad8you's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:22 PM
How's this, trust me i would like to be in a relationship lol.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:23 PM
laugh noway yeah its based on trust noway laugh

Moondark's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:24 PM
People with trust issues keep hoping that one day they will find someone who doesn't abuse the trust that was given to them.

kfab's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:24 PM
But it should be built on friendship too and when you are friends then it is easier to trust and love JMO

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:25 PM
so your saying if i have a trust issue i shouldn't be dating? or a serious relationship? just curious here but what about the reason we have trust issues?

i admittedly have trust issues, i've been screwed over, used and cheated on by every girl i've ever dated so yeah i have a little trouble completely trusting women.

so by your logic here i shouldn't date?

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:26 PM
ok...how is it this thread is a duplicate????

Tobias1540's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:26 PM

People with trust issues keep hoping that one day they will find someone who doesn't abuse the trust that was given to them.


Ya, but in my opinion you shouldn't have to be tested to see whether someone is worthy.

kfab's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:27 PM


People with trust issues keep hoping that one day they will find someone who doesn't abuse the trust that was given to them.


Ya, but in my opinion you shouldn't have to be tested to see whether someone is worthy.

kfab's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:27 PM
Edited by kfab on Sun 03/16/08 07:29 PM


People with trust issues keep hoping that one day they will find someone who doesn't abuse the trust that was given to them.


Ya, but in my opinion you shouldn't have to be tested to see whether someone is worthy.
Everyone gets tested not only in a relationship but in life too sorry double hit there oops

Tobias1540's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:29 PM



People with trust issues keep hoping that one day they will find someone who doesn't abuse the trust that was given to them.


Ya, but in my opinion you shouldn't have to be tested to see whether someone is worthy.
Everyone gets tested not only in a relationship but in life too



Well a relationship is one big test, I am talking about people who purposly do something (usually bad) to see what the other person will do and then judge them on that.

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:30 PM

ok...how is it this thread is a duplicate????
i would rather see duplicated than My back hurts or i am going to bed..

kfab's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:30 PM
I try to judge a person on who they are I don't try to set anyone up mostly someone I love

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:30 PM
come on tobias explain this to me..........

i wanna know how you figure that somebody gets screwed over constantly and starts to doubt people in general doesn't deserve to be happy?


are they not more deserving to find somebody to treat them well or should they all hide under a rock so it's easier on you?

no photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:31 PM

To me a relationship is based on trust. So why is that people who admitidly have trust issues try to get into a serious relationship?

Now at first I was dumb and thought that after a while i could get her to trust me. But as everyone learns trust issues do not go away when people are in a serious relationship, they are just hidden at first and then eventually sneack back up.


Trust should indeed be predominant in any relationship.

Swepea43's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:31 PM
being tested is one of the ways to build trust. I know that I have trust issues and if they don't stick around after a test then so be it. I don't necessarily test someones trust deliberately its just what happens in everyday life.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:32 PM
Got to have trust...........

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:34 PM
I have trust issues...but i know they are mine. i don't think all men are the same as the past jerks. I keep my issues in my head to know what to look out for but i don't test someone who doesn't deserve it because so far they haven't done anything wrong to meflowerforyou

ashley061885's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:35 PM
i think trust is something each person in the relationship has to earn....i dont just give out trust to any and every one

azrae1l's photo
Sun 03/16/08 07:35 PM
ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it.....


oh woe is me boo hoo......

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